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Can you please explain to me what this means?



In AA I believe it used to mean God, but now I think that changed to where it could also be a rock or a pile of dung.



Yeah, that's more of where I was going with this.
Surrendering yourself to god.
So whats the general idea here?
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Can you please explain to me what this means?



In AA I believe it used to mean God, but now I think that changed to where it could also be a rock or a pile of dung.



Yeah, that's more of where I was going with this.
Surrendering yourself to god.
So whats the general idea here?



When one is banging their head against a wall in an addictive feedback loop, one of the tools that has been known to work is to bear in mind that there is precious little over which one has actual control.

Given that the founders of the 12-step crowd were religious, this took a form they found familiar.

When it turned out that nonbelievers had as good a success rate as did the devout, they grudgingly changed the wording to allow for this reality.

Many of the mnemonics used in the Program are but tools for breaking the destructive feedback loop that tends to have such unimpressive results.

Whatever works.


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Can you please explain to me what this means?



In AA I believe it used to mean God, but now I think that changed to where it could also be a rock or a pile of dung.



Yeah, that's more of where I was going with this.
Surrendering yourself to god.
So whats the general idea here?



Well, if you want AA's watered down version you'll have to go to a meeting or read the book...but Winsor gave the jist of it.

However, from a biblical stance it's surrendering our depraved physical will to that of God's perfect spiritual will found in scripture.

A spiritual life is one that can overcome the physical, including death as Christ did.

All humans can overcome physical addictions however they want, as Winsor said, whatever works...but this is different from santification where the desire is for an eternal spiritual relationship with God...recovery from physical ailments tends to be secondary.

A commitment to biblical study over time and practical aplication will help to further understand the concept.
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Essentially, it means you've given up believing in yourself.


No, just relying on your imperfection...


Nonsense.


How so...are you perfect?



Nobody is. That doesn't mean your statement has any truth to it. It's still nonsense.
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Essentially, it means you've given up believing in yourself.


No, just relying on your imperfection...


Nonsense.


How so...are you perfect?



Nobody is. That doesn't mean your statement has any truth to it. It's still nonsense.



Well so is yours...nobody is giving up on themselves.
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Essentially, it means you've given up believing in yourself.


No, just relying on your imperfection...


Nonsense.


How so...are you perfect?



Nobody is. That doesn't mean your statement has any truth to it. It's still nonsense.



Well so is yours...nobody is giving up on themselves.




Certainly they are. If you "surrender to a higher power" you've absolutely given up on the idea you can beat your addiction yourself. Absolutely.
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Essentially, it means you've given up believing in yourself.


No, just relying on your imperfection...


Nonsense.


How so...are you perfect?



Nobody is. That doesn't mean your statement has any truth to it. It's still nonsense.



Well so is yours...nobody is giving up on themselves.




Certainly they are. If you "surrender to a higher power" you've absolutely given up on the idea you can beat your addiction yourself. Absolutely.



No, you're just giving up on the attributes that cause your addiction...most likely, faulty thinking...
Your secrets are the true reflection of who you really are...

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>Can you please explain to me what this means?

Shopping at Wal-Mart.



No. You're confusing that with surrendering to lower prices on inferior products sold by people making sub-standard wages.

This may also be related to the zombie question in the other thread.
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Can you please explain to me what this means?



Most people accept there is alot more going on around us than what our immediate senses can perceive. Some people choose to view the unmeasurable aspects of this as a "force" that can help bring peace into one's life, and those around us. Accessing this "force" requires behavior changes on our part, most importantly it requires developing your own ability to calm your mind. Calming your mind will allow you to see things in a clearer light, and better deal with the situations that arise in your life. There are many ways to do this.
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Accessing this "force" requires behavior changes on our part, most importantly it requires developing your own ability to calm your mind. Calming your mind will allow you to see things in a clearer light, and better deal with the situations that arise in your life.



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There are many ways to do this.



The OP raises the question as to the existence of "a higher power," outside ourselves, to which we must surrender as a pre-requisite for personal growth. I say that "higher power" is inside us all the time waiting to be tapped, but I agree that the concept of surrendering may have some value. Letting go of our ego boundaries is a worthwhile form of surrendering to our subconscious, which of couse is not an exteral power, but an internal one. This process can lead to a greater acceptance of the world around us and ultimately a better understanding of ourselves. Religion can provide a mechanism to facilitate some of this process by utilizing symbolism, but this can be counterproductive if taken too literally.

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