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Most of my relatives are religious and many are involved in the church on a full time basis.

A cousin is a full time pastor and has just been diagnosed with bowel cancer. Firstly he has stated that after much prayer he has decided to seek medical treatment. Why he would not consider medical treatment is beyond me. But worse someone wrote on his FB wall "when we pray healing ALWAYS comes".

Why do people say stupid crap like that? We have a friend who is in the final stages of cancer his wife and my wife have prayed till they are blue in the face.

I respect peoples views and I am really happy that prayer gives them inner peace. I am also happy for them, if they see their life ending early, as something that they can reconcile with their beliefs. Just don't tell people that it "always" works out.
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But worse someone wrote on his FB wall "when we pray healing ALWAYS comes".



It's well meaning, but it's stupid.

Here's the thing though, what are you going to do? Are you going to call him out on the pastor's FB wall? You can't.

People do NOT know what to say in common settings let alone when tragedies strike. And you while you -might- consider calling out somebody for saying something stupid in a common setting, doing it during a tragedy only makes you "the bad guy."

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Just don't tell people that it "always" works out.


I'm pretty damn sure I can tell you it absolutely doesn't work at all, but if you're the guy that's suffering, I'm probably not going to say it directly in front of you.
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But worse someone wrote on his FB wall "when we pray healing ALWAYS comes".



It's well meaning, but it's stupid.

Here's the thing though, what are you going to do? Are you going to call him out on the pastor's FB wall? You can't.

People do NOT know what to say in common settings let alone when tragedies strike. And you while you -might- consider calling out somebody for saying something stupid in a common setting, doing it during a tragedy only makes you "the bad guy."



I know, it was a rhetorical post as no way in hell I am saying anything on the wall. I take my advice from these guys http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_B23QGCEmA
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Most of my relatives are religious and many are involved in the church on a full time basis.

A cousin is a full time pastor and has just been diagnosed with bowel cancer. Firstly he has stated that after much prayer he has decided to seek medical treatment. Why he would not consider medical treatment is beyond me. But worse someone wrote on his FB wall "when we pray healing ALWAYS comes".

Why do people say stupid crap like that? We have a friend who is in the final stages of cancer his wife and my wife have prayed till they are blue in the face.

I respect peoples views and I am really happy that prayer gives them inner peace. I am also happy for them, if they see their life ending early, as something that they can reconcile with their beliefs. Just don't tell people that it "always" works out.



Personally, I pray for the Lord's guidance. Sometimes He guides me to spiritual healing and sometimes He guides me to seek medical attention.

I always ask if someone wants me to hold them in prayer, lay hands on them and pray directly.

And, then there are those cases, such as some of the posters here on SC, where I pray that the Hounds of Heaven be sent to hunt their souls.
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Most of my relatives are religious and many are involved in the church on a full time basis.

A cousin is a full time pastor and has just been diagnosed with bowel cancer. Firstly he has stated that after much prayer he has decided to seek medical treatment. Why he would not consider medical treatment is beyond me. But worse someone wrote on his FB wall "when we pray healing ALWAYS comes".

Why do people say stupid crap like that? We have a friend who is in the final stages of cancer his wife and my wife have prayed till they are blue in the face.

I respect peoples views and I am really happy that prayer gives them inner peace. I am also happy for them, if they see their life ending early, as something that they can reconcile with their beliefs. Just don't tell people that it "always" works out.



Personally, I pray for the Lord's guidance. Sometimes He guides me to spiritual healing and sometimes He guides me to seek medical attention.

I always ask if someone wants me to hold them in prayer, lay hands on them and pray directly.

And, then there are those cases, such as some of the posters here on SC, where I pray that the Hounds of Heaven be sent to hunt their souls.


The statement "when we pray, healing ALWAYS comes" is not a literal one to me

Those calling this stupid are looking only at the physical out come of healing

Personally I see many more oportunities than just the the healing of the body

But that is just me I guess

But, I know those who say they do not believe (in a God) must practice their own brand of religion too[:/]
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if we falter and lose our freedoms,
it will be because we destroyed ourselves."
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The statement "when we pray, healing ALWAYS comes" is not a literal one to me

Those calling this stupid are looking only at the physical out come of healing

Personally I see many more oportunities than just the the healing of the body

I agree. When you pray, one of the assumptions should be "thy will be done." And part of the prayer is to accept that will.

It's a reminder that individuals aren't necessarily in charge. Even if you don't believe in God, you're not in charge of some things.

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The statement "when we pray, healing ALWAYS comes" is not a literal one to me

Those calling this stupid are looking only at the physical out come of healing

Personally I see many more oportunities than just the the healing of the body

I agree. When you pray, one of the assumptions should be "thy will be done." And part of the prayer is to accept that will.

It's a reminder that individuals aren't necessarily in charge. Even if you don't believe in God, you're not in charge of some things.

Wendy P.


Ya:)
And I also see prayer as introspective
A good honest conversation with ones self can be revealing and lead to healing too

Not religious at all
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if we falter and lose our freedoms,
it will be because we destroyed ourselves."
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The statement "when we pray, healing ALWAYS comes" is not a literal one to me
Those calling this stupid are looking only at the physical out come of healing
Personally I see many more oportunities than just the the healing of the body



Yeah, I agree with that, too. Psychological solace and healing is every bit as real, and important, as the physical. If some choose to call some of that that "spiritual healing", the label itself is really no skin off my nose.

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And I also see prayer as introspective
A good honest conversation with ones self can be revealing and lead to healing too
Not religious at all



Agreed again, for the same reason.

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But, I know those who say they do not believe (in a God) must practice their own brand of religion too



That's really not the case. I think, rather, that people who do have religious beliefs simply cannot fathom what it's like to not be that way, in one form or another; so instead, they tend to view atheists' states of mind in terms most familiar to themselves.

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That's really not the case. I think, rather, that people who do have religious beliefs simply cannot fathom what it's like to not be that way, in one form or another; so instead, they characterize atheists' states of mind in terms most familiar to themselves.



Maybe, but those who do not believe are every bit as vociferous and stubborn as are those who do believe. That is shown to be true during every religious debate on this site!

That is why I see, that not believing, is a religion too.
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if we falter and lose our freedoms,
it will be because we destroyed ourselves."
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Maybe, but those who do not believe are every bit as vociferous and stubborn as are those who do believe. That is shown to be true during every religious debate on this site!



Well, it's bred not of zeal, but of frustration. For example, even though I'm no scientist, I know, from my fairly standard broad-based education, that dinosaur fossils are millions of years old. You know, carbon-dating and all that. So when I hear a grown adult in an industrialized country say that: No, in fact, those fossils are only 5,000 years old and were "planted" there by a spiritual entity: then Yes, I'm pretty darned stubborn in refusing to accept even the possibility that that might be correct.

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Kallend posted this link last week. I think it is a gem and would like all to read it.

The Science of Why We Don't Believe Science.
http://motherjones.com/politics/2011/03/denial-science-chris-mooney
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Maybe, but those who do not believe are every bit as vociferous and stubborn as are those who do believe. That is shown to be true during every religious debate on this site!



Well, it's bred not of zeal, but of frustration. For example, even though I'm no scientist, I know, from my fairly standard broad-based education, that dinosaur fossils are millions of years old. You know, carbon-dating and all that. So when I hear a grown adult in an industrialized country say that: No, in fact, those fossils are only 5,000 years old and were "planted" there by a spiritual entity: then Yes, I'm pretty darned stubborn in refusing to accept even the possibility that that might be correct.



This is not what I am talking about and neither were you a post ago



I do not agree with what was in your post either

But to your first point, again, maybe, but I see more zeal in the argument than frustration. At least when comparing both sides zeal, there is no difference

Don’t get me wrong
I am not defending or condemning either side. To me debating religion is an exercise in futility.


And to clear it up more so you know where I come from

I do not see religion or science being exclusive of each other

My view says they match up and compliment each other very well.

All is not known about the meaning of many religious passages and much is not known about the science of our world. When dealing with human “understanding” this is what we get

But that is just me
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if we falter and lose our freedoms,
it will be because we destroyed ourselves."
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That's really not the case. I think, rather, that people who do have religious beliefs simply cannot fathom what it's like to not be that way, in one form or another; so instead, they characterize atheists' states of mind in terms most familiar to themselves.



Maybe, but those who do not believe are every bit as vociferous and stubborn as are those who do believe. That is shown to be true during every religious debate on this site!

That is why I see, that not believing, is a religion too.


So everybody who doesn’t believe has posted their views vociferously here? Or are you painting with a broad brush?

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That's really not the case. I think, rather, that people who do have religious beliefs simply cannot fathom what it's like to not be that way, in one form or another; so instead, they characterize atheists' states of mind in terms most familiar to themselves.



Maybe, but those who do not believe are every bit as vociferous and stubborn as are those who do believe. That is shown to be true during every religious debate on this site!

That is why I see, that not believing, is a religion too.


So everybody who doesn’t believe has posted their views vociferously here? Or are you painting with a broad brush?



I am saying those who argue as strong against are no different than those who argue strong for


Regardless of whether someone argues or not however, I still see both sides being a religion of its own

Both take faith
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it will be because we destroyed ourselves."
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That's really not the case. I think, rather, that people who do have religious beliefs simply cannot fathom what it's like to not be that way, in one form or another; so instead, they characterize atheists' states of mind in terms most familiar to themselves.



Maybe, but those who do not believe are every bit as vociferous and stubborn as are those who do believe. That is shown to be true during every religious debate on this site!

That is why I see, that not believing, is a religion too.


So everybody who doesn’t believe has posted their views vociferously here? Or are you painting with a broad brush?



I am saying those who argue as strong against are no different than those who argue strong for


Regardless of whether someone argues or not however, I still see both sides being a religion of its own

Both take faith


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Both take faith



By definition, No. Atheism does not require faith. Atheism is not the intellectual presence of anything; it is simply an absence of any faith or belief in anything spiritual or supernatural. Nothing more.



By defintion?

Ok

but

I still dont agree

Athiesm is the belief there is nothing there

both require a certain level of faith to sustain the belief
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Both take faith



By definition, No. Atheism does not require faith. Atheism is not the intellectual presence of anything; it is simply an absence of any faith or belief in anything spiritual or supernatural. Nothing more.



By defintion?

Ok

but

I still dont agree

Athiesm is the belief there is nothing there

both require a certain level of faith to sustain the belief

What if they aren't atheists?

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Well, I do see in general two kinds of atheists:
  • There is no evidence in favor of a deity, I don't believe in one, next topic
  • There is no God, absolutely none, and I'm going to do whatever is in my power to convince you of it.

    That second one can come off an awful lot like faith.

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    Both take faith



    By definition, No. Atheism does not require faith. Atheism is not the intellectual presence of anything; it is simply an absence of any faith or belief in anything spiritual or supernatural. Nothing more.



    By defintion?

    Ok

    but

    I still dont agree

    Athiesm is the belief there is nothing there

    both require a certain level of faith to sustain the belief



    I may be wrong but, I think Andy9o8 defines "faith" in a microcosmic sense, the same as he defines "sin" in a macrocosmic sense.
    Look for the shiny things of God revealed by the Holy Spirit. They only last for an instant but it is a Holy Instant. Let your soul absorb them.

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    Well, I do see in general two kinds of atheists:

  • There is no evidence in favor of a deity, I don't believe in one, next topic
  • There is no God, absolutely none, and I'm going to do whatever is in my power to convince you of it.

    That second one can come off an awful lot like faith.

    Wendy P.



  • What if they are just indifferent?

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    That'd be closer to the first one.

    Neat little boxes never fit everyone. Big messy boxes that fit everyone are hard to discuss. :ph34r:

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    Both take faith



    By definition, No. Atheism does not require faith. Atheism is not the intellectual presence of anything; it is simply an absence of any faith or belief in anything spiritual or supernatural. Nothing more.



    By defintion?

    Ok

    but

    I still dont agree

    Athiesm is the belief there is nothing there

    both require a certain level of faith to sustain the belief




    I disagree.

    Athiesm is the belief that there is nothing there because there is no evidence that there is anything. With out evidence faith is not needed.

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    Both take faith



    By definition, No. Atheism does not require faith. Atheism is not the intellectual presence of anything; it is simply an absence of any faith or belief in anything spiritual or supernatural. Nothing more.



    By defintion?

    Ok

    but

    I still dont agree

    Athiesm is the belief there is nothing there

    both require a certain level of faith to sustain the belief



    I may be wrong but, I think Andy9o8 defines "faith" in a microcosmic sense, the same as he defines "sin" in a macrocosmic sense.



    Could be but that is not my point

    Either side is a type of religion IMO

    That is all I am saying
    "America will never be destroyed from the outside,
    if we falter and lose our freedoms,
    it will be because we destroyed ourselves."
    Abraham Lincoln

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