Skyrad 0 #76 December 15, 2010 Quote Quote I'm curious, how do you think that the UK's attitude to sex is different from the rest of Europe? Victorian comes to mind. LOL... Errr....No.When an author is too meticulous about his style, you may presume that his mind is frivolous and his content flimsy. Lucius Annaeus Seneca Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #77 December 15, 2010 My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mnealtx 0 #78 December 15, 2010 QuoteQuoteThat doesn't make sense to me - don't they chemically castrate some rapists, and give testosterone cream to men with erection problems? I don't know. Do "they"? According to wikipedia, yes they do: "Chemical castration is the administration of medication designed to reduce libido and sexual activity, usually in the hope of preventing rapists, child molesters and other sex offenders from repeating their crimes." QuoteLosing balls doesn't mean days of being a sex predator are now over. I was considering it from the point of a rapist - hard to complete the act if you can't get it up. Upon further thought I'm sure that there are other sexual deviancies that aren't dependent upon an erection. QuoteRead into it whatever else you like. It was an honest question - don't be so snippy.Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #79 December 15, 2010 QuoteIt was an honest question... It was a question with an obvious answer. It appears to me that you asked it knowing the answer already. The problem is shown in the key phrase, "...usuallyin the hope of preventing...". Quote - don't be so snippy. Sorry. It's a habit I developed recently from reading a certain poster's snippy responses.My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mnealtx 0 #80 December 15, 2010 QuoteQuoteIt was an honest question... It was a question with an obvious answer. It appears to me that you asked it knowing the answer already. The problem is shown in the key phrase, "...usuallyin the hope of preventing...". What is obvious to the person typing is not always obvious to the person reading. QuoteQuote - don't be so snippy. Sorry. It's a habit I developed recently from reading a certain poster's snippy responses. Beg your pardon, sir - I'll be sure to be more respectful of your authoritay in the future and not ask how treating people the same is close-minded.Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindsey 0 #81 December 15, 2010 Obviously the guy who cut off his child's boyfriend's testicles was responsible for raising his daughter. The old guy screwing around with the teenager obviously has issues, but he's not the only one with a problem here. Dear ol' dad's problems are FAAAAAR greater. And now he's screwed his daughter up just a little more...or a lot. No wonder she's hangin' with the old guy crowd. Her dad's a total FUCK UP! Geez!-- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #82 December 15, 2010 Oooooo ...there's something that nobody has considered as yet....what about the girl?My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skyrider 0 #83 December 15, 2010 So is this illegal in Germany? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #84 December 15, 2010 Quote I don't see an issue here. Paint the testicles gold and hang 'em on the front door. Broke isn't 57, is he?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wayneflorida 0 #85 December 15, 2010 So the victim (deballee) gets a transplant set of nuts from the father (deballer). The deballee continues a relationship with the daughter. Would that then be incest? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #86 December 15, 2010 Quote So the victim (deballee) gets a transplant set of nuts from the father (deballer). The deballee continues a relationship with the daughter. Would that then be incest? Nepotism.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rehmwa 2 #87 December 15, 2010 QuoteObviously the guy who cut off his child's boyfriend's testicles was responsible for raising his daughter. The old guy screwing around with the teenager obviously has issues, but he's not the only one with a problem here. Dear ol' dad's problems are FAAAAAR greater. And now he's screwed his daughter up just a little more...or a lot. No wonder she's hangin' with the old guy crowd. Her dad's a total FUCK UP! Geez! 1 - agree they are both messed up 2 - disagree with who is worse - the 57 year old is a creep and reprehensible and FAAAAAR worse I feel sorry for the child ... Driving is a one dimensional activity - a monkey can do it - being proud of your driving abilities is like being proud of being able to put on pants Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abedy 0 #88 December 15, 2010 Quote So is this illegal in Germany? No it is not. With 17, she's almost reached the legal age of 18. Sex with under-14-year-olds is an offence/crime here. If the minor (under-18-year-old) is dependent on the other person things are different, that's an offence/crime then (e. g. teacher and student)The sky is not the limit. The ground is. The Society of Skydiving Ducks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #89 December 15, 2010 Quote Quote So is this illegal in Germany? No it is not. With 17, she's almost reached the legal age of 18. Sex with under-14-year-olds is an offence/crime here. If the minor (under-18-year-old) is dependent on the other person things are different, that's an offence/crime then (e. g. teacher and student) I still don't see an issue with what the father did.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coreece 190 #90 December 16, 2010 Quote Quote Quote So is this illegal in Germany? No it is not. With 17, she's almost reached the legal age of 18. Sex with under-14-year-olds is an offence/crime here. If the minor (under-18-year-old) is dependent on the other person things are different, that's an offence/crime then (e. g. teacher and student) I still don't see an issue with what the father did. ...maybe not, but you don't protect your family by becomming an idiot and going to jail...fathering 101.Your secrets are the true reflection of who you really are... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindsey 0 #91 December 16, 2010 I do see a problem with what the father did. The daughter has some big part in this....and so does HE, as the father, who raised her...right? You do the best you can with your kids, and still sometimes they screw up. No sense cutting off some other guys nuts for it. Had she been 10, then yes. 17...that's different.-- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coreece 190 #92 December 16, 2010 QuoteI do see a problem with what the father did. The daughter has some big part in this....and so does HE, as the father, who raised her...right? I do not blame the father nor the daughter...I just don't think he handled it properly...I'm sure we can all relate to that. QuoteYou do the best you can with your kids, and still sometimes they screw up. No sense cutting off some other guys nuts for it. Had she been 10, then yes. No...you put your family at more risk by acting this way. btw...I don't mean to seem naive, but does anybody even know for sure if sex was involved? I haven't really seen anything yet that necesarrily suggests that...Your secrets are the true reflection of who you really are... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #93 December 16, 2010 Quote Quote I do see a problem with what the father did. The daughter has some big part in this....and so does HE, as the father, who raised her...right? I do not blame the father nor the daughter...I just don't think he handled it properly...I'm sure we can all relate to that. Quote You do the best you can with your kids, and still sometimes they screw up. No sense cutting off some other guys nuts for it. Had she been 10, then yes. No...you put your family at more risk by acting this way. btw...I don't mean to seem naive, but does anybody even know for sure if sex was involved? I haven't really seen anything yet that necesarrily suggests that... boyfriend/girlfriend, does that ring a bell!? “Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coreece 190 #94 December 16, 2010 Quote Quote Quote I do see a problem with what the father did. The daughter has some big part in this....and so does HE, as the father, who raised her...right? I do not blame the father nor the daughter...I just don't think he handled it properly...I'm sure we can all relate to that. Quote You do the best you can with your kids, and still sometimes they screw up. No sense cutting off some other guys nuts for it. Had she been 10, then yes. No...you put your family at more risk by acting this way. btw...I don't mean to seem naive, but does anybody even know for sure if sex was involved? I haven't really seen anything yet that necesarrily suggests that... boyfriend/girlfriend, does that ring a bell!? I'd want to make sure he's actually a virgin burner before I cut off his nuts...just saying.Your secrets are the true reflection of who you really are... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #95 December 16, 2010 Quote I'd want to make sure he's actually a virgin burner before I cut off his nuts...just saying. DING!My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abedy 0 #96 December 16, 2010 Quote Quote Quote So is this illegal in Germany? No it is not. With 17, she's almost reached the legal age of 18. Sex with under-14-year-olds is an offence/crime here. If the minor (under-18-year-old) is dependent on the other person things are different, that's an offence/crime then (e. g. teacher and student) I still don't see an issue with what the father did. As I wrote before - neither did I! The father "took the law in his own hands" - because it wasn't against the law, but didn't go with his archaic / patriarchal "values". Well, I wouldn't approve of my daughter being in a relationship with a man 40 years older than her but I wouldn't do anything like this ethnic German did. I'd ask myself what we as parents contributed to our daughter having a relationship with a man that much older...The sky is not the limit. The ground is. The Society of Skydiving Ducks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ShotterMG 0 #97 December 25, 2010 What about POP's stated desire to sleep with a 17 year old? Everybody cool with that? Odd how that slipped by without comment. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mnealtx 0 #98 December 25, 2010 QuoteWhat about POP's stated desire to sleep with a 17 year old? Everybody cool with that? Odd how that slipped by without comment. We covered ages of consent pretty thoroughly up-thread. You also seemed to have missed Andy's general agreement with the action of the father in the beginning of the thread. I'm pretty sure that the comment was a one-off joke.Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coreece 190 #99 December 25, 2010 QuoteQuoteWhat about POP's stated desire to sleep with a 17 year old? Everybody cool with that? Odd how that slipped by without comment. We covered ages of consent pretty thoroughly up-thread. You also seemed to have missed Andy's general agreement with the action of the father in the beginning of the thread. I'm pretty sure that the comment was a one-off joke. Agreed, though I think it was meant more as sarcasm than a joke...(although many may consider them as the same thing.) But that's the problem with sarcasm especially in an online forum...I once asked a guy if he was being sarcastic...he replied, "no, sarcasm only gets me into trouble." ...and if you give a warning label to your comment as being sarcastic, it tends to just take away from the fun of sarcasm... but oh well...I'm starting to see that it's much more profitable to be credible than to be funny.Your secrets are the true reflection of who you really are... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SivaGanesha 2 #100 December 25, 2010 QuoteBeing the father of a 17 year old daughter I can understand... That being said I would have just shot the SOB. Knives are messy... I have some sympathy for the father for the reasons you say. I have none whatsoever for his colleagues from work who helped him. They haven't been mentioned at all in this thread but, IMHO, they are by far the worst offenders in this sad episode--far worse than the father, the boyfriend, or the daughter. They had the power to stop this crime--to commiserate with the father for the difficult situation but to talk some sense into him so he wouldn't commit a crime that would ruin everyone's lives. That was their job as friends--and they failed completely. If I were sentencing these three, I'd show some mercy to the father for mitigating circumstances--he was understandably angry. But I would have no mercy for the two "friends" who helped him if they are ever caught."It's hard to have fun at 4-way unless your whole team gets down to the ground safely to do it again!"--Northern California Skydiving League re USPA Safety Day, March 8, 2014 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
