Rape by deception

[Skyrad 0]

So after hearing about the Arab guy who was convicted of rape (and imprisoned) for telling a Jewish woman that he was Jewish to improve his chances I wondered how many men have lied to a woman to gain sexual favours?

Come on guys Fess up, (and theres no statuate of limitations on this one!)

When an author is too meticulous about his style, you may presume that his mind is frivolous and his content flimsy.
Lucius Annaeus Seneca

[Meso 38]

Wait... You mean it's possible to get laid without lying about your feelings to her!?

[Andy9o8 2]

I couldn't take it any longer
Lord I was crazed
And when the feeling came upon me
Like a tidal wave
I started swearing to my god and on my mother's grave
That I would love you to the end of time
I swore that I would love you to the end of time!

So now I'm praying for the end of time
To hurry up and arrive
Cause if I gotta spend another minute with you
I don't think that I can really survive
I'll never break my promise or forget my vow
But God only knows what I can do right now
I'm praying for the end of time
It's all that I can do
Praying for the end of time, so I can end my time with you!!!

Meat Loaf, Paradise by the Dashboard Light

[Shotgun 1]

This makes me wonder what kind of lies, as I would find some to be worse than others. Lies about feelings? Intentions? Occupation? Hobbies? Marital status? Diseases?

[masterrig 1]

I don't see any of those you mentioned as being worse than any other. They are all lies and lies don't make a good foundation for anything, let alone a relationship.


Chuck

[Shotgun 1]

I think that I find lying about diseases (STD's) to be somewhat worse than the others, since that might be putting my life in danger. (OK, well, lying about marital status might be putting my life in danger too.)

Lying about feelings or intent is also on a pretty personal level and might be somewhat more hurtful than other lies.

A person's occupation or hobby likely has nothing to do with whether I'd have sex with him. So if I found out someone had lied about that in order to get me into bed, 1) I'd wonder what the hell I did to make him think I was so shallow, and 2) I'd still think he's a lying asshole who isn't worth my time.

[Bolas 5]

Are you considering omissions lies as well?

Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting
If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh.

[masterrig 1]

On seconf thought, lying about an STD is lower than low. As we know, that could cost a life. The others would probably, just cost some tears or a good ass-whoopin'.


Chuck

[CarrieByTheSea 0]

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A person's occupation or hobby likely has nothing to do with whether I'd have sex with him. So if I found out someone had lied about that in order to get me into bed, 1) I'd wonder what the hell I did to make him think I was so shallow,

I agree with Chuck, but understand where you are coming from.

I get the "shallow" w/r/t occupation or hobby if it means financial status, but what if it means something else? I personally would be pissed if I was under the impression a guy was a veterinarian and later discovered he slaughtered cows professionally.

Having said that, deception is most easily received by those who want to believe what they hear. Speaking personally again, I require a lot of backup--especially with respect to the affairs of my pink lady.

"Nature is cruel, but we don't have to be." ~ Temple Grandin

[Shotgun 1]

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I get the "shallow" w/r/t occupation or hobby if it means financial status, but what if it means something else? I personally would be pissed if I was under the impression a guy was a veterinarian and later discovered he slaughtered cows professionally.

True, there are other reasons for lying about occupation beyond financial status and prestige. I guess I was just thinking that's probably the most common reason.

[champu 1]

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I personally would be pissed if I was under the impression a guy was a veterinarian and later discovered he slaughtered cows professionally.

I'm trying to decide how I'd feel about someone who slaughtered cows in any other capacity than as a profession.

[CarrieByTheSea 0]

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True, there are other reasons for lying about occupation beyond financial status and prestige. I guess I was just thinking that's probably the most common reason.

If I say, "no meat", he'll say, "same for me; I am a vegetarian." The only thing common about the reason is sex; everything else is "whatever she likes/dislikes."

"Nature is cruel, but we don't have to be." ~ Temple Grandin

[Bolas 5]

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I personally would be pissed if I was under the impression a guy was a veterinarian and later discovered he slaughtered cows professionally.

I'm trying to decide how I'd feel about someone who slaughtered cows in any other capacity than as a profession.

Some think our hobby is strange...

Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting
If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh.

[Skyrad 0]

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I personally would be pissed if I was under the impression a guy was a veterinarian and later discovered he slaughtered cows professionally.

I'm trying to decide how I'd feel about someone who slaughtered cows in any other capacity than as a profession.

LOL

When an author is too meticulous about his style, you may presume that his mind is frivolous and his content flimsy.
Lucius Annaeus Seneca

[Skyrad 0]

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I personally would be pissed if I was under the impression a guy was a veterinarian and later discovered he slaughtered cows professionally.

I'm trying to decide how I'd feel about someone who slaughtered cows in any other capacity than as a profession.

Some think our hobby is strange...

Thats some omission!

When an author is too meticulous about his style, you may presume that his mind is frivolous and his content flimsy.
Lucius Annaeus Seneca

[virgin-burner 1]

shouldnt this be in bonfire!?

and no, i've never lied to get laid..

“Some may never live, but the crazy never die.”
-Hunter S. Thompson
"No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try."
-Yoda

[Skyrad 0]

Guns

When an author is too meticulous about his style, you may presume that his mind is frivolous and his content flimsy.
Lucius Annaeus Seneca

[christelsabine 1]

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Guns

Yep. And gun bans.

And no, JR, I will not start a rampage if one day they should take (me) away (resp.) my large calibre handguns. Anyhow, they will not. May the ghost of Charlton Heston watch over me.

OK. No more Bonfire now.

dudeist skydiver # 3105

[skyrider 0]

I don't know how many times I could hav claimed rape by deception, once seeing her naked and without make up , in daylight!, shocked]

[Skyrad 0]

Actually I know your tongue in cheek when you say that but you do have a point. And what about those sillicone chicken fillets that some women stuff down their bras? Thats deception.

When an author is too meticulous about his style, you may presume that his mind is frivolous and his content flimsy.
Lucius Annaeus Seneca

[mnealtx 0]

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Actually I know your tongue in cheek when you say that but you do have a point. And what about those sillicone chicken fillets that some women stuff down their bras? Thats deception.

Silicone chicken filets?

Mike
I love you, Shannon and Jim.
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[Coreece 190]

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Thats deception.

no it's pretty obvious...

Your secrets are the true reflection of who you really are...