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I think you're just playing a role. A self induced one. Or, perhaps, you're 110 y/o. That'd explain a lot. :S



Reread your post this morning. I do not understand the notation "110 y/o." However, you either made an astute observation or a lucky guess but, I am a man of many roles.

One of my professors in grad school, many years ago, remarked that I have a multifaceted personality. One of the great truths I wish to pass on to others is that we all have subdued facets that we can develop. Don't just live one choice.

The challenge is to explore all that God has in store for you. If you avoid sin the choices are unlimited. If you choose a sinful path it enslaves you and you get stuck there.

You must be tenacious. When you make a new choice stick with it for one year. In so doing you will learn something new. Think of your skydiving activity as an example.
Look for the shiny things of God revealed by the Holy Spirit. They only last for an instant but it is a Holy Instant. Let your soul absorb them.

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So if I am working at a place that is very discriminatory against women, and I claim that I have a problem because of the way they are treating me, then I am projecting. What I really should do is accept that my "problem" is being a woman and not expect others to take responsibility for that problem?




Here, see if this helps.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection



Not really. I was just wanting your opinion on that particular scenario.



I'll try again. This is a particularly difficult topic for me because of the abuse of the sexual harassment and hostile work environment laws.

If you are uncomfortable in your workplace, as I have been, I believe it is your responsibility to make the change for your comfort. When you cry out that the other person(s) is/are at fault you are declaring yourself to be a victim.

You can stay in the workplace and learn to combat the unpleasantness or you can search for and attain another job. In my opinion, the worse choice is to stand in one spot and cry it is not fair.

The last three of the four agencies I worked for, at the management level, operated with policies that were contrary to my beliefs, convictions and Christian faith. Even though I disparately needed the money, I resigned and took my chances, trusting in the Lord to guide me.

Another example is my participation in SC. A year ago I started participating with the goal of discussing Christian fellowship with other believers and those who were interested in Christian faith. I have 47 years experience with the sport and started the Christian Skydivers Association 23 years ago. I believe I have something to offer.

The reality of SC is that I have been less than welcomed. OK, change of game. My choices were either to quit or fight back. I chose the latter with the operational tactic to maintain Scriptural perspective and not use profanity. I never considered complaining to the moderators for being treated unfairly.

The key is to understand the enemy.

Ephesians 6:12 (New American Standard Bible)

For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.
Look for the shiny things of God revealed by the Holy Spirit. They only last for an instant but it is a Holy Instant. Let your soul absorb them.

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Sometimes people demand wholehearted embracing and call it tolerance. A workplace or website being built around the requirements of a particular set of beliefs (e.g. requiring everyone to participate in a prayer that they don't believe in because the majority does) is not tolerance, it's embracing. Not permitting active proselytizing in the workplace is not rejection, it is, instead, respect for those who might not want to be proselytized.

Those people also can confuse tolerance with rejection.

Wendy P.
There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown)

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. . . When you cry out that the other person(s) is/are at fault you are declaring yourself to be a victim. . . . The reality of SC is that I have been less than welcomed. . . . The key is to understand the enemy.



I don't know. When you talk about others not welcoming you and calling them "the enemy," it sure sounds like you're playing the victim.


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A year ago I started participating with the goal of discussing Christian fellowship with other believers and those who were interested in Christian faith. I have 47 years experience with the sport and started the Christian Skydivers Association 23 years ago. I believe I have something to offer.



I think it's great that you have had the CSA going for so long, and that Christian skydivers are able to have a fellowship together. Perhaps a forum on that website (rather than a skydiving website) would be a better place for "discussing Christian fellowship" (beyond what is related to skydiving). I find Speaker's Corner an odd choice for this, since it is obvious to anyone who spends a little bit of time here that most come in here for argument or banter. (And since you provide a bit of that, I doubt that you are unwelcome here. ;)) Though I suppose SC is a good place to perpetuate the idea that Christians are always persecuted, since most in here seem to be non-Christian and will argue against it.

And for the most part, I have respect for Christianity. The basic idea behind it seems to be one of goodwill toward others. And it has mostly grown with the times regarding civil rights. There is unfortunately still some bigotry in the teachings, but perhaps that will go away in a couple of generations.

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We've never had a straight person demand in person to be put on the Gay Way World Record



Well... Mark.....

As I recall it at RB #1 Vince got pretty insistent until someone offered to step outside with him for 15 minutes to help him "get qualified"

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If you are uncomfortable in your workplace, as I have been, I believe it is your responsibility to make the change for your comfort. When you cry out that the other person(s) is/are at fault you are declaring yourself to be a victim.



And that's a problem, is it?

Because, once again, that Christophobia article you posted explicitly stated that you were a victim, and that didn't seem to be a problem.
Do you want to have an ideagasm?

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