Andy9o8 2 #126 December 8, 2009 QuoteWhy did he cheat after marriage? One possibility is that he's simply a scoundrel who compulsively ignored his marriage vows. Another is that she cheats, too. Another is that he only began to cheat after the marriage had degraded to nothingness at best, or a nightmare at worst. I sure as hell don't know. I don't think most people do. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #127 December 8, 2009 QuoteQuoteWhy did he cheat after marriage? One possibility is that he's simply a scoundrel who compulsively ignored his marriage vows. Another is that she cheats, too. Another is that he only began to cheat after the marriage had degraded to nothingness at best, or a nightmare at worst. I sure as hell don't know. I don't think most people do. I hear you bro, I hear you. WE just can't say. If any thing this conversation, be it between us in this forum or between others, has been a reflection of where we are as individuals. Some have come off as very angry, others as very defensive yet others just try to get every one to get along.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #128 December 8, 2009 Quote Quote Why did he cheat after marriage? One possibility is that he's simply a scoundrel who compulsively ignored his marriage vows. Another is that she cheats, too. Another is that he only began to cheat after the marriage had degraded to nothingness at best, or a nightmare at worst. I sure as hell don't know. I don't think most people do. Yep. Nobody will ever know. Two months ago, we knew that they were the poster-family for squeaky clean. For many of my friends, their marriage dissolved into divorce. For the very rich, I'm sure it is a more complex question. If I had a pre-nup that gave away $50 million, I'd probably be still married too. Tiger started playing as a child. He became the best living golfer and quite rich. Anyone who would sign a contract to give up their lifes earnings is a fool. "I promise that this will never change and we will be happy for the rest of our lives. If not, you give me $50 million." What idiot signs up for that deal ? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #129 December 8, 2009 QuoteQuoteQuoteWhy did he cheat after marriage? One possibility is that he's simply a scoundrel who compulsively ignored his marriage vows. Another is that she cheats, too. Another is that he only began to cheat after the marriage had degraded to nothingness at best, or a nightmare at worst. I sure as hell don't know. I don't think most people do. I hear you bro, I hear you. WE just can't say. If any thing this conversation, be it between us in this forum or between others, has been a reflection of where we are as individuals. Some have come off as very angry, others as very defensive yet others just try to get every one to get along. Ahhh so based on what you said.. you characterize anyone pointing out that you are justifying infidelity of the guys when they dare to point out those rather " inconvienient vows" being broken is "very angy"... Uh huh.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #130 December 8, 2009 Again Amazon, are you reading what I have written or reading what you want to read? Again that communication thing.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #131 December 8, 2009 Quote Again Amazon, are you reading what I have written or reading what you want to read? Again that communication thing. Just reading what you write... its really nothing new.... just not very surprisingSo.. question... Does any woman not willing to put out on demand have any value to guys with your "needs" and of your mindset??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #132 December 8, 2009 Quote Does any woman not willing to put out on demand have any value to guys with your "needs" and of your mindset??? To rephrase your question, if one partner has a significantly lower sex drive than the other is it right for the partner with the greater sex drive to seek fulfillment via another person and thus in effect devalue the partner with the lower sex drive? The short answer? No. No it is not "right" for the partner with the greater sex drive to find satisfaction in the arms of another. That being said, it is also not "right" for the partner with the diminished sex drive to demonize the partner of the higher sex drive via accusing them of being sex addicts and or in need of therapy. The partners should seek out therapy so as to improve the situation via increasing the sex drive of the diminished partner and educate the higher sex drive partner to be more patient.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tigra 0 #133 December 8, 2009 QuoteQuoteWhy did he cheat after marriage? One possibility is that he's simply a scoundrel who compulsively ignored his marriage vows. Another is that she cheats, too. Another is that he only began to cheat after the marriage had degraded to nothingness at best, or a nightmare at worst. I sure as hell don't know. I don't think most people do. Just based on the number of skanks coming out of the woodwork to claim they banged Tiger Woods, I would say he's been cheating all along, the marriage was about something besides love, the wife knew all about the cheating and didn't mind until it became public knowledge. One affair might take a wife by surprise- this many? No freaking way she didn't know. What I find really hard to believe is that everyone is all over the cheating but most people seem to think its OK if she attacked him with golf clubs and nearly killed him. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy9o8 2 #134 December 8, 2009 QuoteJust based on the number of skanks coming out of the woodwork to claim they banged Tiger Woods, I would say he's been cheating all along, A bare accusation, without evidence, is just that, and nothing more. As to why so many? - The skanks started coming out of the woodwork once it became known that the one woman he probably did bang on the side successfully extorted hush money. Then it became a money-making opportunity. That hardly enhances the credibility of the accusers in my mind. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelpdiver 2 #135 December 8, 2009 Quote What I find really hard to believe is that everyone is all over the cheating but most people seem to think its OK if she attacked him with golf clubs and nearly killed him. The difference is that one is a reaction to the other. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #136 December 8, 2009 Quote Quote Just based on the number of skanks coming out of the woodwork to claim they banged Tiger Woods, I would say he's been cheating all along, A bare accusation, without evidence, is just that, and nothing more. As to why so many? - The skanks started coming out of the woodwork once it became known that the one woman he probably did bang on the side successfully extorted hush money. Then it became a money-making opportunity. That hardly enhances the credibility of the accusers in my mind. Are you saying women that sleep with married men might lie too? Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rehmwa 2 #137 December 8, 2009 QuoteQuote What I find really hard to believe is that everyone is all over the cheating but most people seem to think its OK if she attacked him with golf clubs and nearly killed him. The difference is that one is a reaction to the other. so if she was the one that cheated, you'd be ok if he beat her with golf clubs afterwards? that's nonsense these are two separate things, the fact that they are related to each other in no way diminishes the severity of either one ... Driving is a one dimensional activity - a monkey can do it - being proud of your driving abilities is like being proud of being able to put on pants Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billvon 3,118 #138 December 8, 2009 >Just based on the number of skanks coming out of the woodwork to >claim they banged Tiger Woods, I would say he's been cheating all >along, That's one interpretation. Another is that skanks tend to lie when it gets them money, fame and their picture on the cover of a magazine. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tigra 0 #139 December 8, 2009 Quote>Just based on the number of skanks coming out of the woodwork to >claim they banged Tiger Woods, I would say he's been cheating all >along, That's one interpretation. Another is that skanks tend to lie when it gets them money, fame and their picture on the cover of a magazine. Also true but I'm basing this on volume. What are the odds that ALL of them are lying? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy9o8 2 #140 December 8, 2009 QuoteQuote>Just based on the number of skanks coming out of the woodwork to >claim they banged Tiger Woods, I would say he's been cheating all >along, That's one interpretation. Another is that skanks tend to lie when it gets them money, fame and their picture on the cover of a magazine. Also true but I'm basing this on volume. What are the odds that ALL of them are lying? Jeez, I dunno. What are the potential rewards? I need a new rig. I think maybe I slept with Tiger Woods. Not that there's anything wrong with that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelpdiver 2 #141 December 8, 2009 QuoteQuote>Just based on the number of skanks coming out of the woodwork to >claim they banged Tiger Woods, I would say he's been cheating all >along, That's one interpretation. Another is that skanks tend to lie when it gets them money, fame and their picture on the cover of a magazine. Also true but I'm basing this on volume. What are the odds that ALL of them are lying? with each successive one, the odds that the latest one is lying increase greatly. What better way to launch a short career in porn or Playboy? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airdvr 210 #142 December 8, 2009 I think I read somewhere that Tiger was caught by some magazine and agreed to do a cover for them in exchange for not going public with the pics. Yea...here it is. 6.) Mindy Lawton. The 33-year-old pancake house waitress from Orlando claims she was dumped by Woods in 2007. According to the Post, it was her affair with Woods that was caught on camera by the National Enquirer, when he was snapped dropping her off at her trailer park. The threatening news later led to a Woods Men’s Fitness cover in exchange for the magazine’s silence about the alleged affair, the New York Post reports.http://entertainment.blogs.foxnews.com/2009/12/08/porn-star-joslyn-james-brings-the-number-of-women-linked-to-tiger-woods-to-11/Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #143 December 8, 2009 Putting strategy discussion among the pros. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #144 December 9, 2009 Number 11... "I did not have sexual relations with that those women." I have heard it said that stupidity should be painful. Currently, it is just expensive. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #145 December 9, 2009 And of course the inevitable Tiger Woods sex tape is leaked NSFWwww.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mnealtx 0 #146 December 9, 2009 Quote Number 11... "I did not have sexual relations with that those women." * *(and don't forget to bite your lip when you say it)* I have heard it said that stupidity should be painful. Currently, it is just expensive. Fixed that for you... Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #147 December 9, 2009 This is almost funnier: Is that the Sims? http://www.break.com/index/chinese-tiger-woods-accident-reenactment.htmlStupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #148 December 9, 2009 Quote Quote Number 11... "I did not have sexual relations with that those women." * *(and don't forget to bite your lip when you say it)* I have heard it said that stupidity should be painful. Currently, it is just expensive. Fixed that for you... I hear that they are going to be partners in the next Masters tournament... ...and then play some golf later. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
georgerussia 0 #149 December 9, 2009 Quote So just because thats the statistic, it makes it right? I'm not oblivious to how often it happens, I'm just disappointed that it is the way it is. It depends. Cheating means different thing for different people; for example in this thread you can read some women who consider cheating if their husband watches porn. For right-wing Christians cheating should include even thinking about having sex with someone else. I know a few husbands who do not consider cheating if their wife sleeps with a women, but would definitely be screaming alarm if she slept with a man. When you see this kind of statistics, it's hard to understand what exactly people were talking about. And regarding the poll, to me it looks like a lot of people here in US seem to like to talk a lot about how things should be done, and loudly disapprove those things which they still do themselves. This still confuses me, and probably would till death.* Don't pray for me if you wanna help - just send me a check. * Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #150 December 9, 2009 In this digital age of perfect communication.....we seldom speak. And we seldom listen. Thus we criticize and find flaws with others. It's a sad state of affairs really.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
