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QuoteWell-stated.QuoteExpected charity will lead to dependence.
Wendy P.
which then leads to expectations of more
which then leads to resentment
which then leads to huge resentment
whether it's the basics or more, it still applies
further, if it's personal - that reaction is well restrained and you might not get to the next, unhealthy, aspects
but if it's anonymous (i.e., 'free' or government provided) the dependence AND the resentment occur very quickly indeed
charity should be personal, not forced, given and taken with understanding, and it should also be very temporary - it's the only way to keep it effective, under control and allow people to retain personal pride and dignity
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Driving is a one dimensional activity - a monkey can do it - being proud of your driving abilities is like being proud of being able to put on pants
GeorgiaDon 380
I'm afraid that's true. It's even worse when the whole community is in the same situation (such as housing projects). If everyone around you is on welfare, it must be normal, right? It's especially bad for the kids that grow up in a community where no-one is self sufficient. How are they supposed to learn that that is not OK? I'm not opposed to a hand up for those who really need it, but I think the way we do it is often does more harm than good.Quoteif it's anonymous (i.e., 'free' or government provided) the dependence AND the resentment occur very quickly indeed
Don
Tolerance is the cost we must pay for our adventure in liberty. (Dworkin, 1996)
“Education is not filling a bucket, but lighting a fire.” (Yeats)
When i turned 14 i worked for Winn Dixie as a sacker. I did that for 2 years untill i could run the register. I used to get so mad to see someone pay with food stamps all the time and go out to there new cadilac or tahoe. Some people use the system to get what they want instead of using it as a hand up. I grew up in a lower, lower middle class fam. and worked since I was 12 to get the extra things I wanted. To see people use the system like that made me sick! Alot of charity is a waste and taken advantage of. I agree with the poster above that people should look to there local church for help. I think if it was that way then people would not abuse the system as much. And if they tried to its easier to notice at the local level!
You ignorant fool! Checks are for workers!
My church helps people in need (with no things attached). Most are plain people just passing through who breakdown or need fuel. The panhandlers are in Missoula or Kalispell. Here, your don't wait long before someone stops to help. In winter, it can be a survival situation.QuoteWhen i turned 14 i worked for Winn Dixie as a sacker. I did that for 2 years untill i could run the register. I used to get so mad to see someone pay with food stamps all the time and go out to there new cadilac or tahoe
. Some people use the system to get what they want instead of using it as a hand up. I grew up in a lower, lower middle class fam. and worked since I was 12 to get the extra things I wanted. To see people use the system like that made me sick! Alot of charity is a waste and taken advantage of. I agree with the poster above that people should look to there local church for help. I think if it was that way then people would not abuse the system as much. And if they tried to its easier to notice at the local level!
Wendy P.
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