futuredivot 0 #1 July 9, 2008 Adultry is I was giving unsolicited advice to a kid today that is new to constant business travel and I was telling him that, while most of us avoid telling some road stories when we get home, there are lines that you don't cross. For pupose of this poll-Adultry is-while being legally married to someone and professing to them that you are monogomous, having sexual intercourse with a person outside that relationship. So..Adultry isYou are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #2 July 9, 2008 If you wouldn't do it with your SO in the room, you shouldn't do it at all. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #3 July 9, 2008 What the fuck is adultry?"Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #4 July 9, 2008 I thought adultry is when one stops acting like an adolescent. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DangerRoo 0 #5 July 9, 2008 Agreed..most seem to be agreeing that its wrong and a shooting offence! I've heard that a lot of people who commit adultery end up with and spreading STDs (I.C.D#2 VP) "<3 ..Looks like breasts coming out of an ice cream cone. Mmmm."~John Mitchell "I'm good with my purple penis straw" ~sky mama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #6 July 9, 2008 I'm sure your wife is secure in your relationship with you being on the road. I still remember that handshake you gave me when we first met. Those road stories, on the other hand, sound interesting. As for the answer to your question, I think Nightingale had a good answer. She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy9o8 3 #7 July 9, 2008 QuoteAdultry is I was giving unsolicited advice to a kid today that is new to constant business travel and I was telling him that, while most of us avoid telling some road stories when we get home, there are lines that you don't cross. For pupose of this poll-Adultry is-while being legally married to someone and professing to them that you are monogomous, having sexual intercourse with a person outside that relationship. So..Adultry is Just a heads-up (no pun intended) - I guarantee you someone is going to challenge your definition as too narrow, since it fails to include heavy foreplay or oral sex. Come to think of it, I'll do that now - don't you consider that to be adultery if done by a married person w/someone other than his/her spouse? (No Lewinsky jokes, please - they've all been done.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #8 July 9, 2008 Yeah, I made it that narrow just to avoid that debate.You are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #9 July 9, 2008 Quote I'm sure your wife is secure in your relationship Primarily because she knows no other woman would put up with my crapYou are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
micduran 0 #10 July 9, 2008 If you feel the need to cheat you need to take good look at yourself and your relationship. You need to change yourself or your relationship. There is no excuse that is acceptable to me.Be patient with the faults of others; they have to be patient with yours. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #11 July 9, 2008 Adultry/cheating is wrong, plain and simple. There really is no excuse for it, ever. Even if you're just dating someone, if you have made a monogomous commitment to them, don't fucking cheat. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shotgun 1 #12 July 10, 2008 When I was a little kid, I thought that adultery meant thinking bad things about adults. So my family was quite amused when I admitted to them that I had committed adultery. Good thing they didn't think it was a shooting offense. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VTmotoMike08 0 #13 July 10, 2008 Where are you going with this? Certainly, you could have predicted the type of responses you would get. Did you really think anyone would seriously vote yes, at least is the way that you framed the question? If you have some grand, hidden revelation then lets hear it. Otherwise, people will just continue with the predictable responses. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Leapinglizardto 0 #14 July 10, 2008 Quote Otherwise, people will just continue with the predictable responses . Not true there are 4 people (votes)who seem to believe its ok. Which makes me ask: question to anyone who voted: its not cheating outside home time zone. So your vows & your marriage cease to exist anything you are outside your home time zone, therefore your SO, has no obligation to remain monogamous, either when you are outside your home time zone. same question for the if no one knows...response, so if no one knows your SO is cheating, its not cheating? It's pretty pathetic when you have to TELL people you're fucking cool Skymama «narrative»This thread will lock in 3..2.. What a load of narrow-minded Xenophobic Bullshit!-squeak Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Leapinglizardto 0 #15 July 10, 2008 Quote Just a heads-up (no pun intended) - I guarantee you someone is going to challenge your definition Come to think of it, I'll do that now - don't you consider that to be adultery if done by a married person w/someone other than his/her spouse? (No Lewinsky jokes, please - they've all been done.) I think Nightingale & Skymama cleared that up already. pay attention Quote *Skymama: As for the answer to your question, I think Nightingale had a good answer. *Nightingale: If you wouldn't do it with your SO in the room, then you shouldn't do it at all. unless the 'heavy foreplay or oral sex. ' you speak of, is something you think you'd get away with engaging in, with your SO in the room.It's pretty pathetic when you have to TELL people you're fucking cool Skymama «narrative»This thread will lock in 3..2.. What a load of narrow-minded Xenophobic Bullshit!-squeak Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #16 July 10, 2008 Quote If you feel the need to cheat you need to take good look at yourself and your relationship. You need to change yourself or your relationship. There is no excuse that is acceptable to me. Ah HEM!I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #17 July 10, 2008 QuoteAdultry/cheating is wrong, plain and simple. There really is no excuse for it, ever. Even if you're just dating someone, if you have made a monogomous commitment to them, don't fucking cheat. You mean, not even on holiday?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #18 July 10, 2008 QuoteQuoteAdultry/cheating is wrong, plain and simple. There really is no excuse for it, ever. Even if you're just dating someone, if you have made a monogomous commitment to them, don't fucking cheat. You mean, not even on holiday? Well, except then, of course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
