Piggsinablanket 0 #1 October 22, 2006 OK I am A dumbass, I had forgotten my girlfriends b-day of 1 year. She will not forgive me and has been reminding me that I am a not a thoughful SOB because I had presented her with 2 bouquets of flowers and a ver nice perfume with my sincerest apologies. This had occured 2 day after her b-day and she had given me no hints that this day that was so important was about to happen. The first B-day was very recent in our courtship and she had told me after I had asked. My question to you is am I wrong or should I be Forgiven, Apparently this is a decision breaker here! Peace Piggsinablanket Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
unformed 0 #2 October 22, 2006 Okay, as an expert on dating I will tell you exactly what it is you eed to do. First, you need to go to the local sex toy shop and buy a penis pump. Spend one hour every day for the next week pumping your penis. Thiswill serve multiple purposes: 1) you will have a igger penis, 2) you will show no needity bynot talking to her for a week. Then nxt week, whip out your dick and say, "Hey baby, do you not relly want to suck o this machine?" She e will be yours once again, huranteedThis ad space for sale. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kbordson 8 #3 October 22, 2006 OK First - ignore the above post. Second - Yes, you made a mistake in forgetting her birthday. But the relationship should be about more than a number on a calendar. In a good relationship, you should make her feel important ANY day, regardless of if it's her birthday or Valentines Day or whatever. And she should return this back to you. Does she have the right to feel hurt? Of course. But I think "YES" you should be forgiven. If she continues to hold this over you.... not a good outlook on the future. Good luck (third - this should be in Bonfire... not enough politics and not even one mention of a gun!) Karen Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gravitymaster 0 #4 October 22, 2006 QuoteOK I am A dumbass, I had forgotten my girlfriends b-day of 1 year. She will not forgive me and has been reminding me that I am a not a thoughful SOB because I had presented her with 2 bouquets of flowers and a ver nice perfume with my sincerest apologies. This had occured 2 day after her b-day and she had given me no hints that this day that was so important was about to happen. The first B-day was very recent in our courtship and she had told me after I had asked. My question to you is am I wrong or should I be Forgiven, Apparently this is a decision breaker here! Peace Piggsinablanket Does she support the war in Iraq or is she a cut and run Liberal? Edited to add: Does she support the second amendment or is she a limp wristed Democrat who thinks it only refers to a State run Militia? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gawain 0 #5 October 22, 2006 Quote(third - this should be in Bonfire... not enough politics and not even one mention of a gun!) Well that depends. Does the girlfriend own a gun, and if so, is this the reason why the boyfriend (who made a mistake, but should not be "unforgiven") is cow-towing to her cold shoulder? Also, she may also be upset with him for his opposite stance on politics (maybe she's a conservative and wants him to grow a back-bone). Of course, it could be the opposite, but I'm thinking no...he's a touch sensitive in the aftermath of the mistake. Hmmm... Okay seriously: Dude, if your girl keeps it up for another couple days, then cut her loose. There's a point for playing the "victim" here, and you've been the good little "pond scum" and apologized, gratuitously. If she keeps trying to milk it, then it's time to leave.So I try and I scream and I beg and I sigh Just to prove I'm alive, and it's alright 'Cause tonight there's a way I'll make light of my treacherous life Make light! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #6 October 22, 2006 You are Gay arnt you, that's why you're having this moral dilemaYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gravitymaster 0 #7 October 22, 2006 QuoteYou are Gay arnt you, that's why you're having this moral dilema She most likely will start having sex with his best friend as a consequence. Especially if his best friend has guns. Chicks dig guys with guns. - Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
akarunway 1 #8 October 22, 2006 QuoteOK I am A dumbass, I had forgotten my girlfriends b-day of 1 year. She will not forgive me and has been reminding me that I am a not a thoughful SOB because I had presented her with 2 bouquets of flowers and a ver nice perfume with my sincerest apologies. This had occured 2 day after her b-day and she had given me no hints that this day that was so important was about to happen. The first B-day was very recent in our courtship and she had told me after I had asked. My question to you is am I wrong or should I be Forgiven, Apparently this is a decision breaker here! Peace PiggsinablanketDump the bitch. NOW. 1 yr. and she starting shit already? Unless she's rich and dumb. Then a little ass kissing MIGHT be worth the pain to comeI hold it true, whate'er befall; I feel it, when I sorrow most; 'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,587 #9 October 22, 2006 Hm. This weekend, I saw B-day and thought "Bridge Day." I might forget someone's birthday if it came when I was jumping on Bridge Day, too That said, if she can't let that go, consider how many mistakes you're going to get to make in life without hearing about them forever. Being human, it's likely you'll make more mistakes before dying. Might be time for a good talk with her, and a decision. It's perfectly OK for her to be hurt; it hurt the year everyone forgot my birthday. And no problem with your apologizing for having hurt her. But, ya know, that's the advantage of having another birthday the next year. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kbordson 8 #10 October 22, 2006 Quote Chicks dig guys with guns. - Depends on the "chick"... depends on the "guy"... depends on the gun. Personally... this chick digs her own guns, but that's cuz they're REALLY COOL. The guy just has to have his own to be as cool. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kallend 2,146 #11 October 22, 2006 QuoteQuoteOK I am A dumbass, I had forgotten my girlfriends b-day of 1 year. She will not forgive me and has been reminding me that I am a not a thoughful SOB because I had presented her with 2 bouquets of flowers and a ver nice perfume with my sincerest apologies. This had occured 2 day after her b-day and she had given me no hints that this day that was so important was about to happen. The first B-day was very recent in our courtship and she had told me after I had asked. My question to you is am I wrong or should I be Forgiven, Apparently this is a decision breaker here! Peace Piggsinablanket Does she support the war in Iraq or is she a cut and run Liberal? Edited to add: Does she support the second amendment or is she a limp wristed Democrat who thinks it only refers to a State run Militia? Does she support Amendments I, IV, V, VI, VII, IX and X or is she a fascist pig Bush toadying Republican who thinks only rich white Christians have any rights?... The only sure way to survive a canopy collision is not to have one. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freethefly 6 #12 October 23, 2006 I see that you registered Oct 14th and that this is your 1st post. May I kindly effing direct you to the Bonfire where your sniveling wimpass will be greeted with hugs and affection. This is Speakers Corner, best come armed and ready to kill at a moments notice. We don't take sniveling kindly in these parts"...And once you're gone, you can't come back When you're out of the blue and into the black." Neil Young Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites