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actually, a very large number of people ARE totally heterosexual, and a much smaller number are totally homosexual.
then there's the people in the middle of the spectrum. I would suspect more of them lean more towards heterosexuality.
then there's the people in the middle of the spectrum. I would suspect more of them lean more towards heterosexuality.
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billvon 3,076
>Why should we care if someone's sexual orientation is learned, or
>inherited, unless we believe it to be wrong?
Personally, I'm just curious. I am curious as to what changes the odds that a female vs a male child is conceived, although I don't think that either is 'wrong.' I'm curious as to how blacks are genetically different from asians, or caucasians, although I don't think any of them are 'better' or 'worse.' Unfortunately, some people take such information and use it to decide that they are defective, or substandard, or abnormal - but that's a value judgement, not a scientific one.
>Why not just leave people the hell alone, let them develop into who
>they will "be", even if it is the luck of the draw? If we tamper with certain
>"traits", we may just tamper out the very thing that's needed for someone
>to sit back one day and say, "hey, I figured out how to cure cancer"!
I agree; that may happen if we foolishly tamper with such things. Of course, by the same token, if we don't research such things because bigots might use the information for base purposes, we might also overlook that cure for cancer. Best to ignore said bigots entirely (IMO.)
>inherited, unless we believe it to be wrong?
Personally, I'm just curious. I am curious as to what changes the odds that a female vs a male child is conceived, although I don't think that either is 'wrong.' I'm curious as to how blacks are genetically different from asians, or caucasians, although I don't think any of them are 'better' or 'worse.' Unfortunately, some people take such information and use it to decide that they are defective, or substandard, or abnormal - but that's a value judgement, not a scientific one.
>Why not just leave people the hell alone, let them develop into who
>they will "be", even if it is the luck of the draw? If we tamper with certain
>"traits", we may just tamper out the very thing that's needed for someone
>to sit back one day and say, "hey, I figured out how to cure cancer"!
I agree; that may happen if we foolishly tamper with such things. Of course, by the same token, if we don't research such things because bigots might use the information for base purposes, we might also overlook that cure for cancer. Best to ignore said bigots entirely (IMO.)
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Quoteactually, a very large number of people ARE totally heterosexual, and a much smaller number are totally homosexual.
then there's the people in the middle of the spectrum. I would suspect more of them lean more towards heterosexuality.
My first thought after reading what you have written, is that you are correct. If an accurate survey were taken by every male and female on the planet, resulting in the count of who has had sex with the opposite gender only, and who has had sex with the same gender only, and who has had sex with both, it would show that the majority are heterosexual.
If the same survey were taken in regard to who has fantasized about, or desired sex with the same gender, we'd probably find that Rhonda is 100% correct.
Do our thoughts, or our actions make us who we are? I submit that it's a combination of both.
A question:
If a man goes through his younger years, and then into adulthood always strongly desiring the same sex, but because of environment, marries a woman, and never acts on his desires, is he gay, or straight?
If you read the Kinsey study and every bit of research that has been done since, it is clear that human sexuality lies on a spectrum, and that only a very few odd people are totally heterosexual or homosexual.
In other words, given the right set of circumstances (whatever those circumstances might be--it varies a lot), most people will swing the other way.
My strong preference is for men. But I wouldn't categorically object to sex with a woman, and certainly (as I've said many times), I'd sooner have sex with a smart woman than a stupid man.
My only other comment is: great post.
rl
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