PRSKY71 0 #1 March 9, 2006 I just saw this on the Today show this morning. It is a website for women to post information and pics on men who have cheated on them BUT there does not appear to be a limit on what is posted. Caveat, the cheater is contacted based on the information provided by the poster and is given an opportunity to refute the allegations and defend himself. OMG!!! This is soooo wrong on so many levels!! Whatever happened to acting like a grown up??? MAJOR violation of privacy rights and oh so many lawsuits will ensue!! Crazy!!! Anyone agree? P.S. dontdatehimgirl.com (I don't know how to make clicky)Character cannot be made except by a steady, long continued process. -- Phillips Brooks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
briguy 0 #2 March 9, 2006 i think it's a great idea. i'm planning on putting my POS brother-in-law on there as soon as the divorce is final. best part is, i'm going to send him the link to it AND let him know I posted the info along with an invitation to "discuss" the posting. i can't wait to "speak" with him. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PRSKY71 0 #3 March 9, 2006 Character cannot be made except by a steady, long continued process. -- Phillips Brooks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vpozzoli 0 #4 March 9, 2006 QuoteI just saw this on the Today show this morning. It is a website for women to post information and pics on men who have cheated on them BUT there does not appear to be a limit on what is posted. Caveat, the cheater is contacted based on the information provided by the poster and is given an opportunity to refute the allegations and defend himself. OMG!!! This is soooo wrong on so many levels!! Whatever happened to acting like a grown up??? MAJOR violation of privacy rights and oh so many lawsuits will ensue!! Crazy!!! Anyone agree? P.S. dontdatehimgirl.com (I don't know how to make clicky) What's even funnier (in a sad way) is they have a "Privacy Policy" and allow posters to remain anonymous (while naming the alleged cheaters). Priceless!! Here is the clicky www.dontdatehimgirl.com Vale Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SpeedRacer 1 #5 March 9, 2006 Is there one for men about women who cheat? Speed Racer -------------------------------------------------- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hobbes4star 0 #6 March 9, 2006 I second that. I know more women who have cheated then men.if fun were easy it wouldn't be worth having, right? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mr2mk1g 10 #7 March 9, 2006 You better hope the site owners have a damn good defamation lawyer and very deep pockets. Looks like a great way to get into massive amount of debt to me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PRSKY71 0 #8 March 9, 2006 Well, being a woman I can understand the pain that comes with being the victim of a cheater -- and really the pain is the same whether male / female. My concern is that there are many emotional issues that can lead to major revenge tendencies and basically LIES!! And there are no real and substantial checks and balances. Additionally, in my humble opinion the site makes us women just seem like petty, overemotional, and vengeful bitches!! I just don't dig that. The idea is just WRONG!! Character cannot be made except by a steady, long continued process. -- Phillips Brooks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rasmack 0 #9 March 9, 2006 QuoteYou better hope the site owners have a damn good defamation lawyer and very deep pockets. Looks like a great way to get into massive amount of debt to me. It is even located in the "land of litigation". Had they at least chosen an off-shore host...HF #682, Team Dirty Sanchez #227 “I simply hate, detest, loathe, despise, and abhor redundancy.” - Not quite Oscar Wilde... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rushmc 23 #10 March 9, 2006 QuoteI second that. I know more women who have cheated then men. And HOW do you know them???"America will never be destroyed from the outside, if we falter and lose our freedoms, it will be because we destroyed ourselves." Abraham Lincoln Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rasmack 0 #11 March 9, 2006 QuoteQuoteI second that. I know more women who have cheated then men. And HOW do you know them??? ... and what exactly do you mean by "know"? HF #682, Team Dirty Sanchez #227 “I simply hate, detest, loathe, despise, and abhor redundancy.” - Not quite Oscar Wilde... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rushmc 23 #12 March 9, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteI second that. I know more women who have cheated then men. And HOW do you know them??? ... and what exactly do you mean by "know"? Ya, what he said"America will never be destroyed from the outside, if we falter and lose our freedoms, it will be because we destroyed ourselves." Abraham Lincoln Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
champu 1 #13 March 9, 2006 QuoteIt is a website for women to post information and pics of men who have cheated on them... Welcome to the age of information. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyDekker 1,465 #14 March 10, 2006 what pisses me off about that website is that almost all the posts from women are anonymous, yet the men are described in full detail. Hardly seems fair, and I would assume will quickly lead to a libel lawsuit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
briguy 0 #15 March 10, 2006 Quote... will quickly lead to a libel lawsuit. i think you can only sue for libel (and win) if the statements are untrue. FUN PART - you can search by keywords.... try herpes. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyDekker 1,465 #16 March 10, 2006 Quotei think you can only sue for libel (and win) if the statements are untrue. great, since the postings are anonymous, it should be relatively easy to prove they are not true. Specially since the website owners won't know. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
briguy 0 #17 March 10, 2006 Quotegreat, since the postings are anonymous, it should be relatively easy to prove they are not true. Specially since the website owners won't know. just because the name is not displayed does not mean it is not collected when the information is entered. granted, it might be a fake name..... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy9o8 2 #18 March 10, 2006 Also: Win or lose, defamation lawsuits are very, very expensive to defend; they frequently aren't covered by insurance; and even if a defendant wins, the chances of recovering his legal fees from the plaintiff (in the US) are extremely slim. These website hosts are seriously playing with fire. Another thought: these posts may be anonymous to the rest of the world, but the guy can probably figure out who trashed him. I fear that some of these guys might retaliate back, and violently. This site really is a bad idea. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyDekker 1,465 #19 March 10, 2006 Quotejust because the name is not displayed does not mean it is not collected when the information is entered. granted, it might be a fake name..... exactly, which would make it extremely easy to post false information cause a guy dumped you. When posting information as such, it should at least be done with the full name attached to it. Withg a recent new law in the US, wouldn't this also be illegal? Wasn't there something with making anonymous postings that are annoying? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiver30960 0 #20 March 11, 2006 Hmm... eyeopening site. On a funnier note (funnier for me at least, maybe not funny for him) Kobe Bryant is listed on the site! Elvisio "there but for the grace of God go we all" Rodriguez Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
likearock 2 #21 March 11, 2006 QuoteHmm... eyeopening site. On a funnier note (funnier for me at least, maybe not funny for him) Kobe Bryant is listed on the site! I forget. Why wouldn't you want to date Kobe Bryant? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Swoopyswoop 0 #22 March 21, 2006 LOL check this out, Theres evena link or men to post there side of the story "when I die, I want to go like my grandfather while im sleeping, not like the passengers riding in the car with me Swoopster A.S.S. #6 Future T.S.S holder Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
