andy23 0 #1 March 22, 2005 See previous discussion: http://www.dropzone.com/cgi-bin/forum/gforum.cgi?post=1488437;#1488437 Hi I am Rhinos wife, Angela. I have never met any of you, so while not wanting to send the wrong impression, I can't help but respond to all of this. First of all this is a guy I have known since birth. I mean that literally, his mom and my mom were best friends and pregnant together with us. They are still friends now, we took family vacations together as kids and have been friends our whole lives. When we were 17 we tried dating..... ewwwww!!! It was like kissing my brother. The most 'intimate' (as Rhino says) it got was a kiss, that is all. The entire dating relationship lasted no more than 2 weeks. I already know there is zero chemistry, been there, done that. There is absolutly no interest in a sexual relationship. He is the only guy I sign email to Love Ya because he is the only guy friend I have that I exchange emails with, do I say love ya to male collegues at work that I am friends with..... NO! This relationship with Scott, is unique, it is the longest friendship I have, he is like a brother. And unless you have a friendship that is equivalent to this it is hard for you to have an informed opinion. Like a nonskidiver going on and on about how cool jumping is..... how do they know when they've never been out of a plane going 100+. ????? Rhino knew of this relationship with Scott when he began dating me. The incident Rhino refers to of Rhino showing up un-announced and Scott and I being kicked back, him with out his shirt on, needs more explanation. First of all we were outside with my daughter with our feet in the kiddie pool, it was 90+ degress out. The reason he hurried up and put his shirt on, wasn't out of guilt, it was out of proper up bringing. It wasn't appropriate according to the standards Scott and I were raised with to be around someone you don't know without your shirt on. And this was the first time he and Rhino had ever met. And no he did not have permission to check my email, not because I am hiding anything, but because he shouldn't have to. And to answer the unasked question.... no I have never cheated on Rhino, not while dating not while married, never. And, would I care if he signed his email correspondences Love Ya..... NO not if the email is to a friend and it is meant in a friendly manner, not at all. If it was to someone whom he had banged, than yes I would have something to say about that. Rhino is an awesome man, strong, and driven. With flaws just like the rest of us. I love him despite his bullying sometimes intimidating nature. (Who Rhino????) I can handle that and stand up to it because I am an intelligent strong woman. And I teach highschool I do it all day We frequently butt heads because we are both very strong willed, but standing together we are unbeatable. We just like any newly married couple are learing the ropes.... send us good vibes while we work on it Thank you all for your input and concern Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #2 March 22, 2005 I don't mean to be rude... but... everyone who cares, raise their hand. Ok ok, I kid.... With the shirt thing, I would have stuck with 'it was dirty and he was trying to air it' Edit to add the vibes!it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
andy23 0 #3 March 22, 2005 Aparently.... a lot of people cared there were pages and pages of responses to the origianl post from Rhino. Or didn't you bother to look at the original post before trying to be clever? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #4 March 22, 2005 I said "ok ok I kid" ... or did you not read that before trying to get snippy? And I think "a lot" is stretching.it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #5 March 22, 2005 http://www.dropzone.com/cgi-bin/forum/gforum.cgi?post=1488437;#1488437 Things that make you go hmmmmm..... QuoteRhino is an awesome man, strong, and driven. Awwwee..... QuoteI love him despite his bullying sometimes intimidating nature. I don't bully people... I'm strong willed QuoteIt was like kissing my brother. You kissed your brother? The reason he hurried up and put his shirt on, wasn't out of guilt,Quote Damn right.. I saw his intentions.. Clear as day and it wasn't his upbringing.. My position remains the same. I won't stand for another married or unmarried "he is married" man that swapped spit with my wife signing emails to or receving emails from my wife saying love you or hi sweetie. You are MY sweetie.. Not his.. That is not negotiable. Rhino Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DrunkMonkey 0 #6 March 22, 2005 I like Pie. Mmmm...Pie. When post again, bring pie. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TequilaGirl 0 #7 March 22, 2005 Everything is negotiable.....be careful what you wish for.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #8 March 22, 2005 Quote Everything is negotiable.....be careful what you wish for.... And I would think that possibly a 3rd party mediator would be a good idea if these issues can't be resolved. Eitherway, airing dirty laundry on the internet never turns out well.--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TequilaGirl 0 #9 March 22, 2005 Do you really think he would unlock the door and let her out of the basement to attend a mediation??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
unformed 0 #10 March 22, 2005 Is it just me, or does anyone else think that marriage problems should be dealt with privately and not on a public forum? I don't know about the rest of you, but I sure as hell wouldn't want the general random public knowing about my private life.This ad space for sale. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tcnelson 1 #11 March 22, 2005 this thread has the potential to be a real eye popper! where's my popcorn?"Don't talk to me like that assface...I don't work for you yet." - Fletch NBFT, Deseoso Rodriguez RB#1329 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rwieder 0 #12 March 22, 2005 QuoteEitherway, airing dirty laundry on the internet never turns out well. Hear....Hear! Wise words TM1.-Richard- "You're Holding The Rope And I'm Taking The Fall" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #13 March 22, 2005 Why must everyone always ruin my subtle jokes...it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelpdiver 2 #14 March 22, 2005 QuoteIs it just me, or does anyone else think that marriage problems should be dealt with privately and not on a public forum? Nothing wrong with Rhino's post - he asked for opinions, and he got them. Perhaps not the ones he was seeking. But now it looks like a contest to see who can win in the DZ.com court of opinion, and that's never a good thing. There are no winners in that situation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TomAiello 26 #15 March 22, 2005 QuoteIs it just me, or does anyone else think that marriage problems should be dealt with privately and not on a public forum? Not just you.-- Tom Aiello Tom@SnakeRiverBASE.com SnakeRiverBASE.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sangiro 26 #16 March 22, 2005 Please keep this out of here. Rhino, that includes you as well please.Safe swoops Sangiro Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
