Hot for Teacher

[funks 1]

Where the hell were teachers like this when I was in school??? I saw her on the news last night, her body is just as smokin as her face!!

http://www.cnn.com/2005/LAW/02/09/teacher.charged.ap/index.html

[misskriss 0]

yeah.. too bad she's a child molester

[aerohaga 0]

What the hell would make a 27 yr old woman go for a 13 yr old boy?? (Or 27 man and 13 girl) That is so totally gross. I guess I'm thankful that I can't even conceive the thought.

For my part, I know nothing with any certainty,
But the sight of the stars makes me dream.
-Vincent Van Gogh

[Darius11 12]

I have to say my first reaction was wow she is hot I wish I was that kid.

I know if it was a 27-year-old guy and a 13-year-old girl my reaction would have been that dirty bastard fry him.


Why is that?

I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain

[misskriss 0]

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What the hell would make a 27 yr old woman go for a 13 yr old boy?? (Or 27 man and 13 girl)

I don't know the psychology behind it. We just had the wife of a Navy pilot here get caught with her sixteen year old student in a van recently. She WAS an honors English teacher. Funny thing is she was always so uptight about what the guys were doing when they were gone, etc and "seemed" so morally superior.

[Shotgun 1]

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I have to say my first reaction was wow she is hot I wish I was that kid.

I know if it was a 27-year-old guy and a 13-year-old girl my reaction would have been that dirty bastard fry him.


Why is that?

I think as a society we tend to be more protective of girls than we are of boys. Also, statistically, girls are a lot more likely to be sexually abused than boys are... so I think we are more likely to relate the situation to sexual abuse/statutory rape when it is a girl.

But there's probably more to it than that...

[Darius11 12]

The weird part is I know I should be mad but in reality I am not, and the only reason is that the victim here is a 13 year old boy.
I know it’s wrong but I don’t feel upset about it.

Maybe I am the only one

I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain

[Michele 1]

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Also, statistically, girls are a lot more likely to be sexually abused than boys are.

I wonder if that's because it's less reported. I mean, look at the title of this thread - there's a song titled that. And look at the first post as well as others - it's considered a badge of honor, I suppose, to get laid by a female teacher when you're 12, 13, 11 *(LeTourneau, iirc)....somehow a right of passage, in essence.

What's sad is not understanding that the teacher is indeed a child molestor. We'd have ferociously strong reactions if it were a male teacher/female student. Or a male teacher/male student. Or a female teacher/female student. But simply because the roles are male student/female teacher, we allow it to be something other than child molestation.

It's horrible, irrespective of genders. There is a significant abuse of both the teaching authority as well as the adult/child relationship....and it is indeed child molestation.

Ciels-
Michele

~Do Angels keep the dreams we seek
While our hearts lie bleeding?~

[Shotgun 1]

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The weird part is I know I should be mad but in reality I am not, and the only reason is that the victim here is a 13 year old boy.
I know it’s wrong but I don’t feel upset about it.

Maybe I am the only one

Well, you probably remember being a 13-year old boy and thinking how happy you would have been to have a hot teacher like that who wanted to have sex with you... (Not saying you think it's ok, just that maybe you can relate to the guy more than you would relate to a 13-year-old girl in the same situation.)

But I just can't even imagine being 27 and having any desire whatsoever to have sex with a 13-year old boy. Geez, even 18 sounds too young to me!

[jdhill 0]

You would probably be mad if the teacher was a man...

J

All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing. - Edmund Burke

[christelsabine 1]

Maybe I am the only one

[Darius11 12]

Do you think it is as damaging to the kid if it is a female teacher and a male victim and not vice versa?

When i was 16 i had a 23 yearold GF. I never felt used or violated. I think of it as some of the best times i had

Let me add this disclaimer as many times my posts are misunderstood.
I am not saying what she did was right as a matter of fact I know it was wrong.
But I can’t be the only one who doesn’t see it as the same if it was a male teacher and a female victim.
People say there should be no difference but the fact is that there is a difference.

I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain

[AndyMan 7]

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Do you think it is as damaging to the kid if it is a female teacher and a male victim and not vice versa?

I do.

Child abuse is child abuse.

A 13 year old is still a 13 year old, and an adult that has sex with one is one sick fucker.

Stop trying to justify the actions of a child abuser.

_Am

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You put the fun in "funnel" - craichead.

[Snowflake 0]

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Well, you probably remember being a 13-year old boy and thinking how happy you would have been to have a hot teacher like that who wanted to have sex with you... Wink (Not saying you think it's ok, just that maybe you can relate to the guy more than you would relate to a 13-year-old girl in the same situation.)

13 yo boy+hot teacher=sexual fantasies

13yogirl+hot teacher=romantic fanatasies

I think thats part of what makes it seem all right a majority of guys(me included) will think you lucky bastard where was she when I was in school. While if the genders were reversed it's seen as abuse because it's taking advantage of those romantic fantasies.

A few of my friends in high school had sex with much older women(no teachers, but still statutory rape) and believe me none of them was traumitized in the least bit. In fact if I remember correctly they were quite happy about it and not the least bit disappointed that there would be no romantic involvement. Me...........I was just jealous

PS wouldn't it be "hard" for a female to rape a man/boy

[Darius11 12]

Stop trying to justify the actions of a child abuser.
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Again not trying to justify any thing. That’s why I have the disclaimer.
Maybe you’re special but I am sure there was at least one other person who understood what I was talking about.
SC is for discussions and I am seriously wondering why does it not feel the same when you have the same satiation and all you change is the sex of the people involved. (from your statement this does not include you as you feel the same way no matter what the sexs are)

I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain

[DrewGPM 0]

People would be more outraged if the story was reported as a teacher raping a 13 year student. There seems to be a double standard in these cases. Society tends to laugh at the idea of a woman raping a man, or a woman sexually harassing a man. But this is a child...not a man.

Part of the problem is the terms they use when reporting these cases. Would you react different if the report labeled the woman as an accused child molester or as a pedofile? Those two terms that seem get people to notice how sick this crime is. This woman raped child, plain and simple. That should scare all the parents out there. It was teacher abusing a student...that should scare everyone!

[funks 1]

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But this is a child...not a man.

Yes, he is a child by definition. However, the 13 year olds of today are much more mature than the 13 year olds from 15 years ago. For all we know this kid has already slept with more females then we could imagine. 13 year olds are out there having babies with other 13 year olds. I am not justifying any of this i am just saying that it is a fact of life nowadays. Kids are maturing faster at younger ages.

I have a feeling this kid probably knew exactly what he was doing and was not forced into anything.

[juanesky 0]

So same standards should apply to women. Stating that the event that took place is ok, either way, is punishable by law, and the offender considered a pedophile.

"According to some of the conservatives here, it sounds like it's fine to beat your wide - as long as she had it coming." -Billvon

[christelsabine 1]

You are right. Seen with parents' eyes, it simply is an abuse. Nevertheless, there is more than one BUT:

Boys with 13 yrs mainly are bodily defined. (Same time, I am sure, their brain is faaar behind the one of a girl of 13). But, their body is taking over control. They do not seem to experience such kind of abuse (like in this thread, with an older female teacher) like an abuse itself! This is something to be proud of, to talk about with friends. Boys are not that scared about such experiences. And pls do not forget one most important point: Such a woman is not using any violence. She's not hurting that boy. And she's not hurting his soul.

Another BUT is: If some older woman would have touched my boy, who's in his 20th now, at the age of 13, I would have kicked her where it hurts! My personal feelings.

Next BUT would be a male touching my 13 y/o boy... No doubt, my face would be the last he ever saw in his life. OK. Trying to make it funny but, in fact, it is not. I really don't like to imagine this picture.

Darius111 is not justifying the actions of a child abuser at all. He just was talking about actual situations.

Is there someone talking about the boy, after that woman was sued? How HE is feeling now, after that story with that woman is a public one? That could leave a very confusing impression in him, don't think so?

Where are all the smart pettifogging lawyers, if you need one?

C'mon, let's hear about jurisdiction in your countries

dudeist skydiver # 3105

[justinb138 0]

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So same standards should apply to women. Stating that the event that took place is ok, either way, is punishable by law, and the offender considered a pedophile.

Agreed. Ignore the gender. A 27yo engaged in sexual conduct with a 13yo. End of story.

[Remster 30]

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However, the 13 year olds of today are much more mature than the 13 year olds from 15 years ago.

I'd say the opposite is true.... Teens are a lot less mature now then before (take this with a pinch of salt... I dont have kids lol). They are exposed to more, but that doesnt make them mature.

Also, this is very much a society issue. 13 year old was old anough to marry a few years ago (OK, several few years ago lol). I lived in areas where this was true 20 years ago. In north america.

This being said, I'm moving this to SC... thus continuing my pledge not to post there ! lol

Remster

[christelsabine 1]

Hi, Rémy,

I am so afraid to tell you: This is SC....
Am I banned now?

dudeist skydiver # 3105

[kelpdiver 2]

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Stop trying to justify the actions of a child abuser.

He's not. Her actions were clearly improper, and illegal. This is far more objectionable than a 20yo versus a 17yo. She took advantage of him for reasons that would seem to be mentally deficient.

But was the boy abused? Hah. I'm sure by the time she finished the sentence: "let's go to the bedroom" the kid was buck naked and ready.

[Remster 30]

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This is SC....

I'm sure it wasnt initially! damm....

Remster

[skydyvr 0]

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But was the boy abused?

Yes.

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