antifnsocial 0 #26 December 9, 2004 Quoteyou'd think they'd have learned that by now, but we all know that women are pretty irrational much of the time.You were kidding when you said that right? Who are we... no way, the meant it was a joke right....????Please feel free to reply to my posts and pm's, but only if you're smart enough to understand what they really mean. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
girlygirl 0 #27 December 9, 2004 I think there are a lot more problems between men then women. It is the get there first thing with them. I think Jeffrey was actually kidding ie. the --I think he was being sarcastic in a reflection of many people's antiquated victorian attitudes that still exist out there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antifnsocial 0 #28 December 9, 2004 Chloe- have you read some of his posts? He is the epitome of a typical male chauvinist that has victorian antiquated outdated stereotypes. Check some of them out sometime...Please feel free to reply to my posts and pm's, but only if you're smart enough to understand what they really mean. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brigitte36 0 #29 December 9, 2004 I think he was kidding too... I think that men have a lot of 'cock blocking' and attention hogging that women would never bother themselves with for the most part.... I think both women and men are the same as far as that is concerned. It just depends on the person. You're either a trifler or you're not... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tonto 1 #30 December 9, 2004 Ummm. What's "Cock blocking?" It sounds painful. tIt's the year of the Pig. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Antidote 0 #31 December 9, 2004 Yah; just a matter of a difference in methods, if there is a difference at all. Perhaps a greater directness; girls are way too intelligent to get into an obvious "my dick is bigger than yours" argument, preferring to camouflage it a bit, whereas men (me included) are stupid enough to go directly to the source. In males, I've found that it's just a matter of setting the hierarchial structure; establishing who's the top dog and who's subordinate/equal to who. It's sorta accepted that it's the way we are (perhaps on an unconscious level), so there's little more to it. Men tend to be crude, women subtle. Perhaps the impression that women are 'catty' towards each other and men supposedly aren't stems from this. Same thing in the end, I gather. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #32 December 10, 2004 Oh my goodness! Okay, I just saw this thread (I've been avoiding Speakers Corner for awhile), so I'm doing the dumb thing of replying without reading the rest of this. QuoteWhy is there so much tension between women for no apparent reason. There could be a few reasons: 1) There are more men in their area (one of my classes was 49 men and me.) 2) They just want men's attention 3) Jealousy I've never had the problem of getting along with other women. I have a good mix of male/female friends. I hung out with more guys in college, but that was due to the overwhelming amount of men in my school.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
justaflygirl 0 #33 December 10, 2004 I have a few female friends (my girlfirend and I are very close, but thats another thread and another story) I have a few female friends, mostly at the dz (there are some great chics at zhills) Being a female I have often wondered this myself, my husbands answer, its because we all have P***ys. I dont buy that for one minute. I am a very honest, open and trust-worthy kind of person, I like to be friends with you no matter what your gender, but I know where your coming from, I have been a victim of the "female dislike syndrome" before, the best I can guess is they are jealous of something I have or I can do, which baffels me even more, because I am just an average girl, my husband is quite the looker and that has caused some issues between me and other girls, but other than that I really have no clue. I generally flock towards making guy friends, just to avoid the drama, my husband has no issues with this, b/c he knows what kind of a person I am. The best I can summarize is a lot of girls are insecure, wether they care to admit it or not and if they feel challenged for what ever reason by another girl, it is typically shown "by not liking her"....sorry this was long, but its just my two cents... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
