tunaplanet 0 #1 June 30, 2004 Why couldn't I have a woman like this when I was in middle school? Forty-two Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
quade 4 #2 June 30, 2004 Hot for teacher.quade - The World's Most Boring Skydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tunaplanet 0 #3 June 30, 2004 I would have been thankful just to have a teacher with those looks. Don't know about you but all of mine looked like Jabba the Hut. Forty-two Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dbattman 0 #4 June 30, 2004 After receiving medical-ordered counseling to deal with the extreme trauma of the ordeal, the boy returned to school where he was immediately hoisted up on the shoulders of his classmates and paraded around to chants of 'You da Man! You da Man, dog!' Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkiD_PL8 0 #5 June 30, 2004 I thought my school sucked before now I am really pissed. Greenie in training. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skycop 0 #6 June 30, 2004 There are high-five's a flyin' in that school............ "Just 'cause I'm simple, don't mean I'm stewpid!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tunaplanet 0 #7 June 30, 2004 Ok, all kidding aside...what drives a woman like that to do something of that nature? I mean she has a good career, fantastic looks...what could she possibly see in a 14 year old? She could most likely have any man she wanted. Why a 14 year old? There are many topics I know without a doubt. This one has me stumped. What drives a woman like that to persue a relationship with a 14 year old? Any psychologists on these boards? Forty-two Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peacefuljeffrey 0 #8 June 30, 2004 Not only did the kid get to bang a hot 23-year-old, he's gonna make a ton of cash suing the school district because, as anyone knows, "they did nothing to stop this abuse from occurring." And the public will be out a few million dollars to console this poor kid for the trauma he has suffered. And his parents will buy a mansion and a yacht. What a fucked-up world. But you wait and watch -- I'll end up having called it to a T. --Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #9 June 30, 2004 14 year old...boy. Boy as in kid. As in child. As in young one. Bad taste, all. If it was a 14 year old girl, and her middle school teacher was a 23 year old man...would you still be laughing? Would she be 'lucky'? Just something to think about....if you're into thinking tonight.~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mr2mk1g 10 #10 June 30, 2004 That's it. I want my money back. Damn crappy school…. no perks… grrr… Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Botellines 0 #11 June 30, 2004 I am not a psicologist, just studying to became one. (although that disqualifies me to write about psichology as someone stated in these boards), so take what i say with a grain of salt. It could be atraction to the forbidden, we all know how much more fun is to do things that are not "right". I don´t think it would have been phisical for a 14 years old kid is not fully formed yet (contrary to a 14 years old girl who already looks a lot like the woman she will eventually be) Another posibility would be that she needs to be in control of the situation, and that is much easier with a young boy. For once, he most likely will be not be as pushy about sex as, lets say, an 18 years old guy, and she will dominate the situation in all aspects. Of course he wouldn´t have to be so young but it is what she would have more access to for being a teacher. Some girls who have had some bad experiences could feel atracted to people she can dominate easily. Any psichologist agrees with me? Anyway, do you really think he is lucky? Honestly, he has tasted delights forbidden to many of us, he has reached heaven at 14. All his female classmates will look ugly now in comparison. he will eventually realize that what happened happens only once in a lifetime. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Botellines 0 #12 June 30, 2004 I wrote the past post without reading the whole story. After reading it, i am glad she agrees with me that doing forbidden things are fun. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crwmike 0 #13 June 30, 2004 QuoteHot for teacher. " No jokes about or references to pedophilia. None." Please ammend to add: "Unless it's a female pedophile" Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
benny 0 #14 June 30, 2004 QuoteQuoteHot for teacher. " No jokes about or references to pedophilia. None." Please ammend to add: "Unless it's a female pedophile" Michael No kidding, I hope they make an example out of her. You can guarantee if the genders were reversed the 23 yr old guy would have the book thrown at him. It's sad that in this day and age of gender equality and all that goes with it we still have the notion that little girls are to be protected from dirty old men but little boys probably just want it anyway. Never go to a DZ strip show. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Botellines 0 #15 June 30, 2004 Yeah, I agree that paedophilia is paedophilia, no matter the gender. Maybe we should draw the line in wether the sex is consented or not. We get diferent reactions depending on the gender because usually if it is an old guy with a young girl is not consented and the other way around it usually is (still paedophilia though) Clearly he wanted to get laid, i am sure that 2 14 years olg guy can stop a 23 years old woman. Also, at that age a guy clearly know what sex is all about. I would call this rather than pedophilia, estatutory rape. By the way, do you have a law making a distintion beetwen statutory rape and paedophilia? here in spain i think that the line is drawn at 14. I mean, if i have consented sex with a 14 years old girl, most of the trouble will come from her parents and society in generalk (it is morally wrong), but if i have consented sex with a 13 years old girl then i am in big shit with the law as well. same as if it was no consented sex. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
squirrel 0 #16 June 30, 2004 damn! and i had to go to private school with nuns! ________________________________ Where is Darwin when you need him? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #17 June 30, 2004 QuoteMaybe we should draw the line in wether the sex is consented or not. That's the point of statutory rape laws. By law a 14 year old CAN'T consent. Doesn't matter if it's a boy or a girl. Personally, I would have loved to be in his shoes. But I'm sure there are lots of 14 year old girls who had the hots for a teacher and would have loved to be able to bang him. Either way, it's still wrong because in both cases, there's a good chance of causing long lasting psychological damage. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
benny 0 #18 June 30, 2004 Quote By the way, do you have a law making a distintion beetwen statutory rape and paedophilia? here in spain i think that the line is drawn at 14. I mean, if i have consented sex with a 14 years old girl, most of the trouble will come from her parents and society in generalk (it is morally wrong), but if i have consented sex with a 13 years old girl then i am in big shit with the law as well. same as if it was no consented sex. In the states the laws vary from state to state. In I'd say the majority of states the age of consent is 18 (19 in Alabama?). At any rate, having sex with a person below the age of consent constitutes statutory rape as according to the law a person under said age is not capable of consenting, There are also laws (with lower age limits) that carry much more severe penalties. However, if you get a statutory rape conviction you're still required to register as a sex offender etc etc. Not fun stuff I'd think. As they say 15 will get you 20 (years in prison that is). Personally I think the laws could stand rewriting but whatever they are they should be applied equitably regardless of the gender scenario. Never go to a DZ strip show. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
storm1977 0 #19 June 30, 2004 What benny says it True except we should add that in most states a person under consenting age can have sex with another indevidual under consenting age without breaking a law. (it depends) An 18+yr old can not have sex w/ someone < 18 A 17 yr old can with a someone 15 - 17 (in certain states) Noone 14 or younger can consent (again depending on the state) ----------------------------------------------------- Sometimes it is more important to protect LIFE than Liberty Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
benny 0 #20 June 30, 2004 QuoteWhat benny says it True except we should add that in most states a person under consenting age can have sex with another indevidual under consenting age without breaking a law. (it depends) An 18+yr old can not have sex w/ someone < 18 A 17 yr old can with a someone 15 - 17 (in certain states) Noone 14 or younger can consent (again depending on the state) Some states also have what are know as "four year" laws, where say, a 19 yr old wouldn't get in trouble for having sex with a 17 year, because of less than 4 years age difference. As an aside, I did hear of a case where a young man (under 18) was charged with statutory rape for having sex with his slightly younger girlfriend. Not sure what state it was in but that's pretty out of whack. Never go to a DZ strip show. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnnyD 0 #21 June 30, 2004 QuoteOk, all kidding aside...what drives a woman like that to do something of that nature? I mean she has a good career, fantastic looks...what could she possibly see in a 14 year old? She could most likely have any man she wanted. Why a 14 year old? There are many topics I know without a doubt. This one has me stumped. What drives a woman like that to persue a relationship with a 14 year old? Any psychologists on these boards? She said "because it wasn't allowed". She is also married and obviously very wrong in the head. Check out the smoking gun for the whole police report. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #22 June 30, 2004 Quote14 year old...boy. Boy as in kid. As in child. As in young one. Bad taste, all. If it was a 14 year old girl, and her middle school teacher was a 23 year old man...would you still be laughing? Would she be 'lucky'? Just something to think about....if you're into thinking tonight. I agree completely. Along those lines - Some lady was on the news today saying the laws should be different for females - her theory was that females aren't usually predatory or habitual sex offenders like males are. And in a case like this, the males child is damaged less than a female child would be. Thoughts?it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crwmike 0 #23 June 30, 2004 QuoteYeah, I agree that paedophilia is paedophilia, no matter the gender. Maybe we should draw the line in wether the sex is consented or not. We get diferent reactions depending on the gender because usually if it is an old guy with a young girl is not consented and the other way around it usually is (still paedophilia though) Clearly he wanted to get laid, i am sure that 2 14 years olg guy can stop a 23 years old woman. Also, at that age a guy clearly know what sex is all about. I would call this rather than pedophilia, estatutory rape. By the way, do you have a law making a distintion beetwen statutory rape and paedophilia? here in spain i think that the line is drawn at 14. I mean, if i have consented sex with a 14 years old girl, most of the trouble will come from her parents and society in generalk (it is morally wrong), but if i have consented sex with a 13 years old girl then i am in big shit with the law as well. same as if it was no consented sex. Pedophilia is a psychiatric term Statutory rape is a legal term Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,551 #24 June 30, 2004 QuoteSome lady was on the news today saying the laws should be different for females - her theory was that females aren't usually predatory or habitual sex offenders like males are. And in a case like this, the males child is damaged less than a female child would be. Thoughts? Yeah; opinions are like assholes. Same crime, same potential for damage to the child; yes, the manipulation is more emotional than physical potentially (it's a lot harder to MAKE it erect, even in a 14-year-old boy). It's a crime. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rehmwa 2 #25 June 30, 2004 QuoteSome lady was on the news today saying the laws should be different for females - her theory was that females aren't usually predatory or habitual sex offenders like males are. And in a case like this, the males child is damaged less than a female child would be. I've given up on this, people are so self contradictory in their 'professed' positions vs their statements and actions, that I doubt we could even guess if she's a self proclaimed feminist or self proclaimed 'non-feminist'. I'd also ask how she can make a sweeping statement about emotional damage based solely on gender when individual differences in upbringing is likely a much bigger factor in how a minor would react to this scenario. Again, putting people into little stereotyped buckets is just lazy. ... Driving is a one dimensional activity - a monkey can do it - being proud of your driving abilities is like being proud of being able to put on pants Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
