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Hey guys- what's sexier?

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No I haven't been out with a girl with a pierced tongue. My girlfriend wants to do it. If she does, thats ok with me, it just seems like it would be more of a hassle than a benefit. She also wants to get her belly button pierced. I'm not gonna try to stop her but she already looks extremely hot without them.
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Alex D-23912

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Oh I totally agree, a woman that's proud of herself & her body is very sexy.... but I don't make the assumption that just because someone chooses to add a little 'adornment' they're not equally as happy with their body. I don't really think it matters, used to be (like in the 80's) that a lot of people got tattoos, & piercings too I suppose (they weren't real mainstream until recently), because of low self-esteem & what not. Now, I don't really think it matters.... It's like buying a new shirt, people get them simply because they like them & they fit their personality and style.... not because they're trying to say, "Hey, look how pretty I am 'because' of this!" Just my 2cents! :)"Peace & Blue Skies!"
Merrick

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Skyslut......Dude, check this out……… I’m at a party of couple of years ago and at one point I end up in a rather large closet with my best friends girlfriend and two other buddies. We were all ……..ummm, having an in depth conversation about world peace……. yup that’s it, anyway, out of nowhere the chick (Becky) says “Hey guys!, guess what?” and we all go “What?”……… “ I got my clit pierced”…….. Well, of course we just all say “Gee Becky that’s just great”……. Then she says…….” Wanna see it?”…….. Now, the other two guys look at me cause this chick is my best friends girlfriend at the time…… well they are looking at me as if to say……. “is this ok dude”. Gee, now I had to think….. “should I let her pull her pants down in front of us to show us her clic ring?”…………….. “OK Becky!” I said……… well, she unzipped and pull those pants right down. If that wasn’t enough…….. she then says to me…. “fruce, do you want to touch it?”……… well, that was just the beginning of a totally interesting night.
fruce
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Right on!!! That is excellent!!! Some girls I know have em and they are pretty happy with them. There is only one I know that gotten it taken out because it felt to good when she touched herself, worked out, got caught in a stiff breeze, whatever...I thought that was pretty interesting.
"I'll jump anything!"

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hey skymama...from personal experience with dating a girl who had both (back in my single days), I would have to go with the belly button ring. The nice thing (besides being able to play with it with a tounge:)) is that you can always take it out when you don't want it anymore.
Now I know there will be tons of people who hate this rational, but you don't want to get a tat and have it start sagging after awhile! Hell, you could get a butterfly or something and then maybe in less than 20 years it looks like a watercolor by Picasso!!
Just think about it...tats are DAMN permanent! (They are, because what skydiver would pay thousands for a surgical removal?? That is like 250 jumps!!!)
Email me if you want, and I'll elaborate more and give you more of my "theory of tat stretch" analogies!!

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skymama,
hey. just a word of note here. I was happy with my body before i got anything done to it. Im even happier now. I seriously suggest getting inked. but only if its meaninful. sitting there for a long time (depends on the artists speed/size of tatoo) hurts like hell, but if you have the mindset that "im doing this because i care about something." or "im doing this for somebody" then its not going to be as bad. I love my tatoos, and am really anxious for my brother to get married so that i can get another tatoo. but i promised him no more until after the wedding so im still waiting.....
froggie

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Hey Whiskeychick -
No, I took care of it and all...they said that it just happens sometimes. Some people just don't heal as well as others and some piercers suggested that perhaps it wasn't pierced properly - deep enough. It actually wasn't bothering me at all and was going well I thought, but eventually there was only a tiny bit of skin over the ring..it just kinda grew outwards *shrug* When I got it re-done, the second one was deeper this time, but then it didn't heal for me...was always icky looking. I just got tired of it and took it out...as gross as it looked infected it certainly wasn't a turn on for anyone! LOL!
As to the issue of piercing and tats, or not, honestly the main reason I do these things is the same reason I put on makeup or wear earrings. It's just another expression of me. Two of my tats were symbolic, one is just simply pretty. The navel ring was because I think they are neat looking and the tongue ring is because I've always thought they were interesting and sexy on guys. Besides, I was bored :D. I've really gotten to the point for the first time in my life where I'm comfortable with my body and who I am, it's really a great feeling, and I don't take it too seriously. I am working out regularly for the first time, getting a bit of a tan cuz I'm normally a ghost, eatting very healthy and feel better then I have in a long time. I get a kick out of wearing a pretty, girly dress to work, fixing my hair and knowing I have this silly tongue ring that most don't know of :) It's life...it's fun! I'll never be little miss tiny thing Alley McBeal type or a cutesy kinda girl...but that's just me...that takes too much work :) I'd rather have fun and get strong looking arms, a nice healthy tan and spend my efforts learning to fly! The decorations you add to your body are just for you...whatever YOU like and find sexy cuz you'll be the one living with it :) If it makes you happy...do it!
(Oh and Skreamer...I clanged my tongue ring on my tooth for the first time last night...OUCH! Like I said...eatting has been an experience with this thing! I'll learn :) I was told to get an acrylic ball when it heals a bit more...that it isn't so bad if you accidentally bite it. We'll see.)
Pammi

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Yeah tongue rings do sometimes chip your teeth (why do we call them rings when they are really barbells?)
I had mine for about 2-3 years and only had one incident, when I broke a decent sized piece off a tooth, and later had to have a filling put over it. Otherwise, no probs. I just recently (one week ago to be exact) got my tongue re-pierced and it feels fine. Already the soreness is gone and there is no swelling. I am very pain-tolerant, hell maybe even pro-pain!! What can I say?? That is why tattoos rock, they hurt but they feel so good at the same time!
Skymama, get whatever YOU think is sexy, not what all of us think! I am like Pammi, I have two tats, a tongue and a belly button pierced, and I am thinking of doing my nipple again...and someday the other "other"....LOL Anyway, do what YOU feel is right!!!!
Sis
"What we're all really seeking is something where we can feel the rapture of being alive."J.Campbell

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MY $.02 worth, for what's it's worth (about $.02)
Go for the piercing down below. MUCH more fun to play with. Pammi's right, it takes a LONG time to heal and it can grow out if not pierced deep enuf.
Personally, they had to pierce my nipple ring behind the nipple for exactly that reason. It's been 2 years and it still scabs up every once in awhile.
Wow, I'm an Enthusiast finally!!!

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Wow, you all have given me so much to think about! The tattoo "stretching" was something my mother made sure I thought about when she was lecturing me about what a bad example of a mother I would be for my daughter if I got either thing done. Then she added, "what's a tattoo going to look like when you are 80?"
I never really thought about doing it until I got the air-brush tattoo around my navel in Vegas. It made me feel very sexy! And, now it's gone and I kinda miss it.
The clit piercing is definitely OUT! It makes me squeamish just to type that. OUCH!

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Yeah, I got my nipple pierced and it hurt a good amount, even considering the amount of aneasthetic I drank beforehand. The piercer said that it is worse for a guy to get his nipple pierced than for a woman...so if you want to go that route...you have that going for you. It took a really long time to heal properly-9 to 10 months. ughh.
"I'll jump anything!"

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Same here. It hurt like Hell. They gave me some candy to suck on to help, but being so damned stubborn, I got out of the chair and tried to walk out. Almost passed out before I got to the door.
Definitely worth the effort tho.

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I love the fact that nobody knows that I have it...and if they do see it, people are extremely suprised.

Hahahaha...I'm not sure what kind of body art you're talking about, but I feel the same about my tongue piercing. I'm pretty quiet and innocent-looking so it always takes people by surprise. :)My friend took me to a baseball game this weekend and we sat in the commissioner's box, which is in the front row and almost right next to the dugout. I yelled or yawned or something, and one of the trainers (cute!) started gesticulating wildly at me, trying to get my attention. I pointed at myself (who, me?) and he nodded and indicated my mouth. I was bewildered until I realized he'd seen the stupid tongue ring. I grinned and stuck out my tongue at him and he put his head in his hand and shook his head. I can't tell if he was turned on or appalled. :D

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Only get something you want, not something someone else tells you to get. I have my belly button pierced and two tats, one on the inside of each ankle, and I love them all. The main thing is, make yourself happy, not someone else, because it is your body and you have to live with it all!! :)BLUE SKIES!!

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Yeah, I've had my nipple pierced for about 5 years now & mine even still gets a little infection in it if I don't keep it clean. Mine bled like crazy when I got it done too... actually, they both did, but I had to take the left one out cuz the guy totally missed the nipple it was like almost a quarter inch off center.>:( I went with Pam last Friday & we got our tongues pierced... the actual piercing didn't hurt much at all, but the swelling is getting on my nerves pretty good. Otherwise, not bad.... definitely a good choice!
I'm gonna' pose a question for you guys (Pam will probably kill me for it, but oh well). She wants to get the hood of her clit pierced.:o At first I was just like "NO!" & thought that was the end of it, cuz' I really didn't think she was serious! Turns out she pretty damn passionate about it, cuz' of all the stupid things to fight about we got to have that one. Now, I don't know if it's whether she REALLY wants to get one, or the fact that she feels like I'm telling her what to do that's made her so passionate... but regardless! My biggest hang-ups are.... of course the obvious of someone besides me fondling my wife's clit, I really don't think they're that attractive, and can they cause damage? I mean, do any of you know if the scar tissue will cause any permanent loss of sensation for her (remember, I'm talking about the hood, not the actual clit)? I really don't think it's a good idea, but that could simply be the jealousy thing talkin'. What do you guys think??? So far we've seen some pretty positive things about piercing the downtown area, but is there anybody that has (or knows anyone who has) had a bad experience? She makes a LOT of good points & it IS her body, so it really isn't my decision, but I just want to make sure that there won't be any problems. Maybe I'm just being close minded.
"Peace & Blue Skies!"
Merrick

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