skybytch 273 #1 March 5, 2002 Here's a hypothetical situation/question for you -You have a g/f. She lives many miles away from you. You haven't seen her for three months. You aren't gettin' any from anyone else and you assume the same is true for her. You have a project that has been occupying your weekends and also the chance to work overtime this coming weekend. You can use the extra money that the project and/or overtime would provide. Your g/f offers to drive the many miles to visit you this weekend but says it's up to you.What would you say?pull and flare,lisa---Mondays suck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveMonkey 0 #2 March 5, 2002 I'd let the missus come over for a dirty weekend You shouldn't put a knife in the toaster - but you're an adult now !!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyDekker 1,465 #3 March 5, 2002 I am with the monkeySkyDekker"We cannot do great things, only small things with great love" Mother Theresa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skycat 0 #4 March 5, 2002 So lisa are you saying you don't have a boytoy down there in Sunny Perris Valley?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Magistr8 0 #5 March 5, 2002 Go for the Tang. The work will still be there and maybe you can collect nect weekendWho ever said comming down from a high was bad obviously never tried this.Peter Rodrigues Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jfields 0 #6 March 5, 2002 QuoteI'd let the missus come over for a dirty weekendCompromise.Have a dirty weekend on every desk at the office? Justin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freefallfreak 0 #7 March 5, 2002 Bytch,Are you asking, in a round about way, if you can come and visit me??? Lol...TripleF"If you have something vital and it's sincere, you can communicate." Butch Trucks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TequilaGirl 0 #8 March 5, 2002 Compromise - now that is a good one......... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kingbunky 3 #9 March 5, 2002 if he's been at the project for many months, a weekend (or even a day of the weekend) off won't hurt anything. if it's a new project every weekend, he should be looking for a new job. either way, i'd say come on down! Oh, I have slipped the surly bonds of earthAnd danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhreeZone 20 #10 March 5, 2002 Get in the damn car woman and go get your self some.... Cause I don't wanna come back down from this cloud... ~ Bush Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveMonkey 0 #11 March 5, 2002 Good way of putting it What's the project anyway? If you work for a porn company, the answer is obvious !! You shouldn't put a knife in the toaster - but you're an adult now !!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mountainman 0 #12 March 5, 2002 I would have to agree with the masses here with the rendevous. Work to live...don't live to work. JumpinDuo.com...come and sign the guestbook. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viking 0 #13 March 5, 2002 i would probly go for the weekend of HOT SEX! I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveMonkey 0 #14 March 5, 2002 Oh, and as no-one has said it yet - BOOBIES !! You shouldn't put a knife in the toaster - but you're an adult now !!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lummy 4 #15 March 5, 2002 Well? Are you in the car yet? Oh just an FYI, but the 5/580 split is a major speed trap :)Make up your own ending,let me know just how you feel.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
quade 4 #16 March 5, 2002 QuoteWhat would you say?Flip the wording around and look at it from the other person's perspective. I think any reasonable person would and probably should assume that the other person probably can't handle that relationship anymore and consiously or sub-consiously is working as an excuse to not have to deal with it.This may or may not be the actual case, but I would think that any reasonable person should see it as a good possibility.Ya know, sometimes things just don't work out. I don't think that means the other person hates you or anything -- it just may mean it's just not going to happen now or at any point in the future.So, uh, how hypothetical is this anyway? I'm thinking not very.quadehttp://futurecam.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhreeZone 20 #17 March 5, 2002 If Lisa was smart.... she would just key in new GPS cord's and jump right where she needs to. Half the pilots out there would'nt know the diff..... Cause I don't wanna come back down from this cloud... ~ Bush Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 273 #18 March 5, 2002 So... the general concensus here seems to be blow off making extra money, get laid (which is what I would do if I were the one working and he were the one wanting to come visit...).Next question - what possible reasons could there be for a guy in the above hypothetical situation to NOT give an answer either way?And no, I don't have a squeeze here in sunny PV.... Dammit.... if I did I wouldn't even consider driving 400 miles one way just to get some...pull and flare,lisa---Mondays suck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TequilaGirl 0 #19 March 5, 2002 Come to Texas me and Skycat will find you somebody....... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kingbunky 3 #20 March 5, 2002 maybe there is someone closer.... that or he has lost interest... shit happens. there's a lot not being said here too... how far away is far away? how long has this relationship been going on? were these two hypothetical people ever living close to each other? lots of variables that could affect the answer...Oh, I have slipped the surly bonds of earthAnd danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kmcguffee 0 #21 March 5, 2002 He is just testing you to see how much you WANT him. If you don't go he will think....eh, she can do without me. If you do go he'll say....wow, she really digs me! So, quit playing games and go do the guy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Divadiver 0 #22 March 5, 2002 Sounds like the word here is compromise. Looks like to me that this person who's working on the project could still work on the project during the day and then spend the evening with you (i.e. dinner, movie, snuggling, kissing, . . . ).If compromise isn't in the picture babe, maybe you shouldn't be either. You (hmm, this person) deserves to be given the same amount of effort in the realationship that you're contributing.But, that's just my 2 cents, and what the hell do I know about relationships!!Diva Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 273 #23 March 5, 2002 Thanks everyone...I suppose it's time to cutaway, just haven't gotten up the nerve to do it yet. pull and flare,lisa---Mondays suck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #24 March 5, 2002 Skybitch...Everyone needs some lovin..Get some!!! Work will always be there.. Poontang might not!!Blue Skies and Smooth Rides!! http://www.aahit.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #25 March 5, 2002 Quotewhat possible reasons could there be for a guy in the above hypothetical situation to NOT give an answer either way?gaycielos azules y cerveza fría-Kevin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
