freefallfreak 0 #126 March 15, 2002 Skystorm,Okay, so ya didn't listen. That's no big deal. I personally didn't think you would. Matters of the heart blind and deafen people. So that's ok. Eventually, when you finally really get tired, hurt and angry enough, you'll do what you think is right. We all do. For right now, you think what you are doing is right. At some point, you may change your mind. We all do that, too. I think this is what is called "being human". And that is alright. What is not alright, at least IMHO, is this - if you put it all on the line - and show heartfelt emotion - and ask for honest advice - why would you be rude enough to then change to a foreign language that some can't/don't understand, on an American based forum where the primary language is English? If you are gonna' ask this type of question, why hide part of it? After all, people here gave you advice from their hearts. You don't have to answer that. I'm just curious. By the way, also IMHO, if one has to "work" on a relationship, it isn't worth the time or trouble. Love is, in it's own right, not so hard, if acceptance is in the heart. And if it's "right", it doesn't bear working on. TripleF"If you have something vital and it's sincere, you can communicate." Butch Trucks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Scratch 0 #127 March 15, 2002 My apologies to FFF and co.I know it is rude and clique. I can translate if you want but it is pretty much what the rest of you said.Hey SkymedicI don't blame you. I can imagine that being in your line of business and working here could not have been too wonderful.The babes are great though arn't they Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
E150 0 #128 March 15, 2002 I can understand why she is giving it another go (not that I think she nesc should). In my long wrong relationship, I stayed to 'give it another go' on numerous occasions. Having bawled my eyes out to my friends/sister. I'd use the same reasoning ... 'I told you all the bad, cos he had upset me, there is more good than bad, we have a great time mostly ect'. Looking back, it was definatly a cover up to make myself feel better for being weak. Although, I still say we did have great times, but that was not enough to make up for the crap parts. People dont really change. Thing is, Skystorm has got to make her own mistakes. If that is staying with him, then let it be. All I can say, is good luck to you. No doubt you will look back and wonder why you stayed so long. But hey, if you prove us all wrong, then great Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites rhino 0 #129 March 15, 2002 I CAAAANNN'TTTT RREEEAAAACCCHHHH TTTHHHEEEE HHAAANNDDDLLEEEEEEE!!! CCCAAANNNNN'TTT CCCUUUUUTTT AAWWAAAYYYY!!! AAAAGGHHHHHH!!!Blue Skies and Smooth Rides!! http://www.aahit.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites E150 0 #130 March 15, 2002 BUGGER! Cos I know it's in my advantage! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites rhino 0 #131 March 15, 2002 I wasn't actually responding to you silly.. I was talking to stormchick the one that started the post.. You know the one that can't reach the handle :)Blue Skies and Smooth Rides!! http://www.aahit.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites E150 0 #132 March 15, 2002 So was I donut head Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites rhino 0 #133 March 15, 2002 OOPS... o.k. I'm getting a cup of coffee before I get foot in mouth disease.. LOLBlue Skies and Smooth Rides!! http://www.aahit.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Skystorm 0 #134 March 15, 2002 Sorry, we we're rude posting in a forgein (sp?) language. I apologise. As scratch said, it was mostly what the rest of you told me to do, just in my mother tongue.And thanx for being so understanding and supporting. E150 is right, if it's a mistake giving him another chance, I'll have to make my own. And hopefully learn from them (?) I somewhere read the following:"I'll be willing to make the mistakes, if someone else is willing to learn from them." LOLSomewhere down the line there will be a post reading: "I'm getting married!!" OR "I did a cutaway!!" But thank you to everyone replying, giving advice, supporting me, making me laugh and making me cry. I've never met any of you, but still feel that you are the best friends and family that I could've wished for.Blue Skies.Hang onto Heaven, when hell is on your back Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites rhino 0 #135 March 15, 2002 I wish you the best of luck.. Just remember to take the rose tinted glasses off and put things into prospective.. Watch and learn from everything. If he loves you he will change after you talk to him. Although if you picked him right he shouldn't have to change but that's another post..Good luck,See you in the air!!RhinoBlue Skies and Smooth Rides!! http://www.aahit.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites bbarnhouse 0 #136 March 15, 2002 Sky~Remember that both of you must accept each other for all that you are, and all that you are not.Cheers!BIt only takes a little pixie dust...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 4 5 6 Next Page 6 of 6 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
rhino 0 #129 March 15, 2002 I CAAAANNN'TTTT RREEEAAAACCCHHHH TTTHHHEEEE HHAAANNDDDLLEEEEEEE!!! CCCAAANNNNN'TTT CCCUUUUUTTT AAWWAAAYYYY!!! AAAAGGHHHHHH!!!Blue Skies and Smooth Rides!! http://www.aahit.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
E150 0 #130 March 15, 2002 BUGGER! Cos I know it's in my advantage! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #131 March 15, 2002 I wasn't actually responding to you silly.. I was talking to stormchick the one that started the post.. You know the one that can't reach the handle :)Blue Skies and Smooth Rides!! http://www.aahit.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
E150 0 #132 March 15, 2002 So was I donut head Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #133 March 15, 2002 OOPS... o.k. I'm getting a cup of coffee before I get foot in mouth disease.. LOLBlue Skies and Smooth Rides!! http://www.aahit.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Skystorm 0 #134 March 15, 2002 Sorry, we we're rude posting in a forgein (sp?) language. I apologise. As scratch said, it was mostly what the rest of you told me to do, just in my mother tongue.And thanx for being so understanding and supporting. E150 is right, if it's a mistake giving him another chance, I'll have to make my own. And hopefully learn from them (?) I somewhere read the following:"I'll be willing to make the mistakes, if someone else is willing to learn from them." LOLSomewhere down the line there will be a post reading: "I'm getting married!!" OR "I did a cutaway!!" But thank you to everyone replying, giving advice, supporting me, making me laugh and making me cry. I've never met any of you, but still feel that you are the best friends and family that I could've wished for.Blue Skies.Hang onto Heaven, when hell is on your back Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #135 March 15, 2002 I wish you the best of luck.. Just remember to take the rose tinted glasses off and put things into prospective.. Watch and learn from everything. If he loves you he will change after you talk to him. Although if you picked him right he shouldn't have to change but that's another post..Good luck,See you in the air!!RhinoBlue Skies and Smooth Rides!! http://www.aahit.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #136 March 15, 2002 Sky~Remember that both of you must accept each other for all that you are, and all that you are not.Cheers!BIt only takes a little pixie dust...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites