crazymel 0 #1 March 18, 2002 Okay - like I am soooo mad right now!!! I realize that every relationship is give and take and sacrifice, but why does it feel that I only get when I FIGHT for it?? Latest argument - me and hubby are going on annual home leave in June for a month. So, he planned the itinerary as follows: 2 days with his brother, 4 days with my folks, a week at a game reserve, 10 days with his folks and another week at his fav town, but I need to go there for laser surgery on my eyes. His folks live on a farm between nothing and nowhere, and there is NOTHING to do except read during the day. He normally goes off with his dad working on the farm, and I just sit by myself all day. So, I suggested that I go to my "home dz" - Namibia, for about 5 days during that time to get some more coaching.....yeah right! Now I don't care about our relationship anymore and he always have to do whatever I want (referring going to the DZ for a couple of hours on a Saturday). I hate that whenever I want to do something by myself he pulls the emotional blackmail shit! Why do people think you turn into siamese twins just because you're "together"? We had the same argument in Jan when I went to Namibia for the AFF course, and now again. This time I just don't have the energy to fight for it.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymedic 0 #2 March 18, 2002 Hey mel, I think I told you last night what you should do about that...didn't I???or I can help you get some of your frustration out if need be...marcBSBD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crazymel 0 #3 March 18, 2002 Yeah - are you gonna come do my packing...hehehe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Scratch 0 #4 March 18, 2002 Get in line behind me medic...don't be so rude Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Scratch 0 #5 March 18, 2002 Hey MelIt is a brave or foolish person that gets between a skydiver and a jumpship Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
