blondeflyer7 0 #27 April 30, 2002 If I miss Thanking anyone..........well all of everyone's support has been the greatest!!!!!!!!!!!!! Skydivers RULE!!!!!!!!!! Love ya'll Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Divadiver 0 #28 April 30, 2002 Becky:I can relate to your dilemma . . . been there, done that. I’d just like to add to what’s already been said. When you’re testifying in front of the judge, your lawyer cannot answer for you. He can question the relevance to the custody issue, but if the judge allows for the questioning, you’ll have to answer for yourself.Secondly, you may not only want to get the statistics together for yourself, but any footwork, paperwork, etc., that you do and supply to your lawyer is money saved in your pocket in the long run. You may also want to prepare yourself for the “how much does it cost you to participate in skydiving” question, in case your Ex is paying any alimony. There are some creative answers that you can probably come up with in order to defray the price of the jumps. And that’s all I’m going to say about that! Diva Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lummy 4 #29 April 30, 2002 Quote My X is a very controling individual that is doing anything to destroy me. Blonde (for being lazy and not clicking on your profile to use your real name), I am going to reiterate Quade's advice and let the lawyer do the arguing on this one.....This may sound strange and may not apply, but from MY experience, the only way to get out of a controlling relationship is to just walk away. Everytime you fight back, you are only giving in to that control and letting him get to you. You are letting the other person get to you and affect your life EVEN if it is a defensive reaction. I have found that in order to get out from a control freak is to just live my life as I saw fit and not let her (yes they come in all flavors) get to me. LEt the hired guns fight the battles, go on and live your life....MY .02I've got to stop wishing, got to go fishing, I'm down to rock bottom again.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blondeflyer7 0 #30 April 30, 2002 The reason I don't have my last name is because he is fixated on finding me on computers, having people follow me, ect....Thanks for your support. I hope you understand now. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymedic 0 #31 April 30, 2002 been there done that....NOT fun at all...then she found out I BASE....lets just say it was a fight and then some...Cheers....vasbytmarc"it's hard to be anal with no anus!!!"-Dogma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blondeflyer7 0 #32 May 1, 2002 Just kinda an update!!!!!!!!!!! Guess what guys!!!!!!!!! My lawyers husband skydives, I don't think I have anything to worry about!!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hooked 0 #33 May 1, 2002 Now, how kewl is that!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Great!!!!J"You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
