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Skyrose7

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ok, so I was at the bar tonight, and this guy who I had seen there before was there. We had not gotten along so well the first time, but he came up tonight and apologized for that. Anyway, he was flirting all night (and has a girlfriend) and then sits down and tells me how into me he is, and how there is a connection he cannot ignore between us. This anti-his girlfriend stuff went on for a while. Then, later, he asks if he can take me home with him. Seeing how it has already been cleared that neither of us were driving, I assumed he meant " take me to his home"
I said no, he has a girlfriend. Then, a few minutes later, he asked again. Again, I said no. Then, about twenty minutes later he started saying how I was being irrational that I wouldn't let him take me home because he meant "take me to my home"------he wasn't driving. Was this just a cover up or do you think he really did want to just give me a ride (even though he was not driving and did not know who was)? I am quite perplexed by this(especially since he has a gf). help?
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I'd say you did the right thing and have nothing to worry about. If this guy is with a girl, whom is going to be upseat about him picking up on another woman, well that doesnt show much for his character, and I say fuck em. guys can be devious characters, I know from my personal experiance of beeing a guy.
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Stay away from the loser, he was lookin for a quick score.
And if he said it the way you worded it, he was lying to save face 'cause you turned him down!
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Do you think that if he took you home he would not have tried to come inside and get jiggy with it? He is only looking for one thing and you should stay away. Unless I was drunk and it was me in that case call me and sleep with me tonight! :P

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Hey skyrose.
Why is this dificult to understand? He was trying to get into your pants. End of story. Sounds like he's not very good at it, either...
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lookin back on this from a much more sober perspective, what an idiot! (him, that is) I now realize he was just trying to get into my pants, but I guess I need to work on that drunken naievity. he he. What a dumbass.
The mind is like a parachute--it works better when it is open. JUMP.

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THat is so true. It is no reward to win over someone who has a gf already, you will be on the butt end of the deal in a few months..or weeks...or days, who knows? His response to me bringing up the gf was "haven't you ever met someone and just felt like you connected? I feel that with you Mary, you just.. oh, I don't want you to think I am just trying to get into your pants or take you home, I just want to be with you...more crap.....more crap...etc...20 minutes later--will you go home with me?
The mind is like a parachute--it works better when it is open. JUMP.

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