Easiest way to tell a girl I dont like her?

[dbrggs 0]

Ok I am having this problem. A girl really thinks I like her and has decided that we are going to prom. Now, I never asked her to prom and frankily I dont care for her. It is getting closer and closer to prom time and I havent told her to "bug" off. I dont want her to get to butt hurt but I need to let her know that I have no interest in her and would appriciate her getting the f%^k away from me. Help me Please dbrggs

[freeflir29 0]

She is a woman....speak slowly and tell her exactly what you just said. The sooner the better!!! "It's all about the BOOBIES!"

[FallRate 0]

Umm, how about: "I don't like you. But don't worry. It's not you, it's me."
FallRate

[freeflir29 0]

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I don't like you. But don't worry. It's not you, it's me.

Yeah...women use that one all the time don't they. This is your chance to get them before they get you!!!
Or...even better...just tell her she smells bad and it's really embarrassing for you to be around her.
"It's all about the BOOBIES!"

[dbrggs 0]

Thanks freflir i am going to tell her she smells and is embarassing to be around, then I will run like a mofo cause she is buff. David doesnt like beatings

[freeflir29 0]

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David doesnt like beatings

I don't mind them so much if the Chic wears the proper outfit and talks dirty to me......
"It's all about the BOOBIES!"

[Jessica 0]

There's no "easy" way to tell someone you don't like 'em like that. Sorry.
Why does she think you're going to prom together? Have you engaged in prom discussions with her? Is there someone else you'd rather go with? If so, just ask her and your problem is neatly solved. You don't want to go to prom at all? Then just say, I'm not going to the prom. No insterest. Find someone else, have a nice day!
Don't tell her she's smelly. And in that same vein -- don't take relationship advice from Clay.
Beyond that, just don't encourage her. You don't need to break up with someone you're not dating.
Taking nominations for new screen name.

[freeflir29 0]

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don't take relationship advice from Clay.

Hey.....I was serious in the first post......"It's all about the BOOBIES!"

[dbrggs 0]

but his advice is so thoughtful and caring. heck maybe if she is in the right outfit I might enjoy a beating. Nah, I dont know what her problem is I have never really talked to her about anything, just said hi and hows it goin. Women are hard to understand.

[freeflir29 0]

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Women are hard to understand

I think impossible is a far better description....
"It's all about the BOOBIES!"

[dbrggs 0]

No doubt. Feelings what are those?

[QuickDraw 0]

Why don't you stop bathing for a few weeks ?
A nice polyester football top will speed things up too.
I think she will be the one who cancels the "date".
"Bart, stop pestering satan" - Marge Simpson.

[dbrggs 0]

id go insane if i did that, i cant even think of not bathing for 2 days, yuck. she smells worse than me anyways, damn perfume, smells like cats, ugh
Yes I love you.....having sex with me.

[pdj6p 0]

Why am I having images of carrie run through my head?
Don
Death is so permanant, and I'm just not ready for that kind of committment.

[rgoper 0]

David:
be "straight" and honest with her, and do it ASAP, to prevent further problems in the future, you never know, you might be friends later, leave that door open, never "burn a brige" the best advice i can give, is just be honest, and tell her "from the heart, straight up" good luck, take care, good luck.
Richard
"Gravity Is My Friend"

[freeflir29 0]

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don't take relationship advice from Clay.

Oh BTW.....I think my track record speaks for itself....."It's all about the BOOBIES!"

[skybytch 273]

Dave... I told you what to do! Tell her that you'll be glad to go if she pays for everything!
Listen to me, not these people. These people are sick, twisted individuals. Unlike your sainted mother. Who, by the way, knows everything. Geez. Thought I'd raised you better than this.
pull & flare,
lisa
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On the other hand...you have different fingers

[AggieDave 6]

Honesty.
It is that short and almost that simple, but I have found in my short 22 years that honesty tends to be just about the best solution.
I know when I'm being handed a load of bullshit and it burns me up when someone who I was intersted in does it to me, its even worst if I know I was being led on, or felt like I was being led on(I'm not saying that you did this, I'm saying she might *think* you did, hell, its a women, who the hell knows what she thinks), so do it soon and be honest (albight tactful) to keep what should be and could be a funny story later from becoming a mess.
Good luck guy, and get one of those hot sky chicks from the DZ to go to prom with you...(too bad you couldn't *demo* jump in, instead of driving...A human cannonball, I rise above it all
Up higher then a trapeze, I can fly

[Scratch 0]

David, Aggidave comment about "demo jumps" has got me thinking that there may be a way out of your dilemma.
Get the girl to agree to a 'demo jump' befor the prom. A try before you buy kind of thing.
After the jump tell her honestly that you are looking for something that has ...
Softer openings.
More response to gentle toggle pressure.
Longer swoops.
and a smaller pack volume
I think that should do the trick
Every day above ground is a good day.