ADRNALN 0 #1 June 26, 2002 you know it is not nearly as easy as you would think to cutaway a whuffo girlfriend. She just does not get it. I really like her and want to stay great friends but there is no way I will give up the freedom of flight and my new life and friends at the DZ for anything. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pop 0 #2 June 26, 2002 right on man. you can always find another girl. skydiving is for life. if she can't handle it, find one that can. it'll make your life easier, and only be fair to all. 7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #3 June 26, 2002 Why should you have to give up either of them? Cheers Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slappie 9 #4 June 26, 2002 Dude!! I hear ya! I had a falling out at the DZ with my whuffo GF during the TSR Meet at the DZ a few weeks ago. I told her to either support me and get used to the way things are or we'll never make it. Basicaly I told her "Don't make me choose between my skydiving family, and you.. You will loose..." It's tough but she supports me and my skydiving.. Now all I gota get her to understand is. She doesn't have to come to the DZ with me ALL the time. She can go find something else to day. I mean I'd hate to be dragged off to a sewing, book reading, makeup party or whatever whuffo women do in their spare time. Good luck my sky-brother!! "Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AndyMan 7 #5 June 26, 2002 Don' be so quick.... I dated a whuffo for over a year while skydiving. If you love her, then try to make things work. Compromises are the basis of every relationship. I don't mean give up skydiving, but with my ex I would spend one day of the weekend with her, usually sundays. I'd spend friday night and saturday at the DZ. Only cuttaway if she's not willing to be flexible. You need your airtime, and she needs to understand that. _Am__ You put the fun in "funnel" - craichead. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADRNALN 0 #6 June 26, 2002 There was no compromising. And we sat on the problem for about 2yrs., actually since my second AFP. Plus I and sweet on someone that actually gets it. My favorite quote: Hook your dreams to that jumpplane before some girl puts her hooks in you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADRNALN 0 #7 June 26, 2002 In fact I think the whuffo ex just screwed up my chances with a skydiver chick. Man this sucks! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #8 June 26, 2002 Quoteyou know it is not nearly as easy as you would think to cutaway a whuffo girlfriend I find that "Don't freakin call here no more!!" usually works well. Of course, some don't REALLY get that one either.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
