rhino 0 #1 August 28, 2002 This is the first time my son and I saw each other in over a year.. After the antichrist took him from me.. "a year ago" He paused at the door looking at me and sprinted across the room jumping into my arms. He wouldn't let go for 5 minutes. It was the greatest feeling in the world. I immediately started to cry like a baby with him in my arms. Second pic, Daniel and I at the zoo.. "a month ago" Third, Parachutist Mag spoof,, "3 weeks ago" Rhino Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #2 August 28, 2002 More pics... From the zoo.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hooked 0 #3 August 28, 2002 How can someone not let their child see his father in over a year! The pictures brought tears to my eyes. What a moment for both of you. I hope there isn't a year between the time you get to see him againJ -------------------------------------- Sometimes we're just being Humans.....But we're always Human Beings. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #4 August 28, 2002 QuoteHow can someone not let their child see his father in over a year! A sick person.. Here is a better pic.. It was in a 10 by 10 foot room with a sandbox, 85 degrees, and 2 men hating women taking notes. We had to put up with it for 4 months. It sucks... I will NEVER let anyone separate us again.. I see him weekly.. Rhino Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Snowbird 0 #5 August 28, 2002 That's a beautiful hug. And does he ever look like his dad! Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea. -Robert A. Heinlein Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #6 August 28, 2002 Thanks :) He is a cutie Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites sunshine 2 #7 August 28, 2002 Very cool Rob. I know you'll raise him to be a true gentelman just like you. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites hooked 0 #8 August 28, 2002 Those weekly visits will be cherished ones!!! To make a child suffer by not seeing his father, is 'sick'. Best of luck to you and your son, who is very cute! J -------------------------------------- Sometimes we're just being Humans.....But we're always Human Beings. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Spy38W 0 #9 August 28, 2002 QuoteThose weekly visits will be cherished ones!!! To make a child suffer by not seeing his father, is 'sick'. Best of luck to you and your son, who is very cute! Awesome stuff Rhino, glad to hear that the evil one hasn't managed to turn him against you -- Hook high, flare on time Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites rhino 0 #10 August 28, 2002 It made us closer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Viking 0 #11 August 28, 2002 Thats a kodak moment if i ever saw one! *whipes a tear* no kidding.I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver My God has a bigger dick than your god -George Carlin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Rachill 0 #12 August 28, 2002 I am SOOOOO glad to see that picture Rob! Good for you !!! I remember you talking about moving away from Texas to Michigan just so you could see you baby, and I am glad to see that it is working out so well for you and that cutie of yours! BooYa#1 GR#50 You might be a skydiver if... Your having sex and she whispers in your ear "I've never done this before" and you yell out "Case of Beer" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites steve1 5 #13 August 28, 2002 Rhino, I'm glad you're back together and things are looking better. It must have been a grueling year to get through. I hope your legal battle didn't set you back too far. Best of Luck, (you deserve it). Steve1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites jraf 0 #14 August 28, 2002 Awsome man! I have not seen my 7 year old little dude for over 8 months now. He is still in the power of the Dark Side. The Dark Side is doing it's best to turn him against me, and I am 5,000 miles away. SHIT. Yet I feel happy for you. At least one of us gets to see his kid and that makes me fell better - ride on bro!jraf Me Jungleman! Me have large Babalui. Muff #3275 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Kirils 1 #15 August 28, 2002 Congrats guy! Remember this time when he's 16 and he trashes your car."Slow down! You are too young to be moving that fast!" Old Man Crawfish Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkydiveMonkey 0 #16 August 28, 2002 Nice one man. Cool as ____________________ Say no to subliminal messages Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites rhino 0 #17 August 28, 2002 Thanks everyone.. Waking up this morning I looked at that picture again.. Getting me all emotional.. Thanks for all your support Rhino and son Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkydiveMonkey 0 #18 August 28, 2002 Must have been one fo the best moments for you there. ____________________ Say no to subliminal messages Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites rhino 0 #19 August 28, 2002 It was both the best and the worst.. The sheer terror at that moment that he was going to reject me after a year. "I am crying while writing this" I was so afraid that he was going to harbor some really bad feelings towards me. During that year I at least managed "thanks to a Texas judge" to maintain phone contact with him nightly. I can't imagine what horror and confusion must have fun through his mind on a daily basis while his mom was keeping him from me. The moment he hugged me I questioned everything I had done that last year. Should I have fought so hard to get custody in Texas? Should I have moved immediately after it happened? Should I this? Should I that? It was horrifying.. I almost had a breakdown right their. My little boy was holding me.. The first bear hug we had in a year and I felt like a failure in the worst way. "tears running down my face right now" I only hope that this doesn't permenently scar his little heart. How can a 3 1/2 - 4 year olf process all this comfusion and pain? Do they understand? I don't know.. I am just trying to reinforce the fact to him that I will NEVER go away. I will NEVER let anyone take him from me again.. I cherish my time with him very much.. After that first 1 hour "supervised" session was over. Daniel started saying Daddy one more minute Daddy, Just one more minute, Can I have another hug Daddy, can I have another french fry Daddy? It was heart breaking.. My little boy was begging me not to let him go again after not seeing me for a year.. "I am still crying" and all I could say is I love you son.. I will see you again next week.. The moment he left the room I started whaling.. I was crying uncontrollably.. That feeling of loss, failure, not "really" knowing if I would see him again.. The deep heart felt insecurity of loosing him that became so familar a year before creeping in.. Here we are a year later after that.. I now have joint custody and get him 1/4 of the month roughly. Everytime I drop him off I still have that fear inside. I never sleep the night he leaves.. I toss and turn and cry.. I miss my boy.. Rob Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkydiveMonkey 0 #20 August 28, 2002 No child should have to put up with being tossed around like this. It sucks man, and I feel for both of ya. My parents divorced when I was about 8, and it sucked, but it worked out cool in the end. Hopefully yours story will come out ok. ____________________ Say no to subliminal messages Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Muenkel 0 #21 August 28, 2002 Rhino, You are truly a blessed man. I know that sounds ironic considering all the shit you have had to go through to be with your son. Alot of guys have their sons full time and totally take it for granted. You are blessed because he is part of you and you will always be part of him. There is no greater accomplishment in this life than being a good parent. Every moment with him counts. Make the most of all of them. Remember, in 14 years he will be 18 and be able to make his own decisions. He is going to need to turn to his dad. God Bless you and your son. _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites rhino 0 #22 August 28, 2002 I am very blessed indeed.. Actually in 13 years he will be 18 :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Viking 0 #23 August 28, 2002 hey man whats with the Polar Bear Porn in zoo2.jpg I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver My God has a bigger dick than your god -George Carlin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Yoshi 0 #24 August 28, 2002 funny mag cover_________________________________________ this space for rent. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites JumpNFly 0 #25 August 28, 2002 such sweet pics!!! 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sunshine 2 #7 August 28, 2002 Very cool Rob. I know you'll raise him to be a true gentelman just like you. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hooked 0 #8 August 28, 2002 Those weekly visits will be cherished ones!!! To make a child suffer by not seeing his father, is 'sick'. Best of luck to you and your son, who is very cute! J -------------------------------------- Sometimes we're just being Humans.....But we're always Human Beings. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Spy38W 0 #9 August 28, 2002 QuoteThose weekly visits will be cherished ones!!! To make a child suffer by not seeing his father, is 'sick'. Best of luck to you and your son, who is very cute! Awesome stuff Rhino, glad to hear that the evil one hasn't managed to turn him against you -- Hook high, flare on time Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #10 August 28, 2002 It made us closer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viking 0 #11 August 28, 2002 Thats a kodak moment if i ever saw one! *whipes a tear* no kidding.I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver My God has a bigger dick than your god -George Carlin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rachill 0 #12 August 28, 2002 I am SOOOOO glad to see that picture Rob! Good for you !!! I remember you talking about moving away from Texas to Michigan just so you could see you baby, and I am glad to see that it is working out so well for you and that cutie of yours! BooYa#1 GR#50 You might be a skydiver if... Your having sex and she whispers in your ear "I've never done this before" and you yell out "Case of Beer" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
steve1 5 #13 August 28, 2002 Rhino, I'm glad you're back together and things are looking better. It must have been a grueling year to get through. I hope your legal battle didn't set you back too far. Best of Luck, (you deserve it). Steve1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jraf 0 #14 August 28, 2002 Awsome man! I have not seen my 7 year old little dude for over 8 months now. He is still in the power of the Dark Side. The Dark Side is doing it's best to turn him against me, and I am 5,000 miles away. SHIT. Yet I feel happy for you. At least one of us gets to see his kid and that makes me fell better - ride on bro!jraf Me Jungleman! Me have large Babalui. Muff #3275 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kirils 1 #15 August 28, 2002 Congrats guy! Remember this time when he's 16 and he trashes your car."Slow down! You are too young to be moving that fast!" Old Man Crawfish Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveMonkey 0 #16 August 28, 2002 Nice one man. Cool as ____________________ Say no to subliminal messages Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #17 August 28, 2002 Thanks everyone.. Waking up this morning I looked at that picture again.. Getting me all emotional.. Thanks for all your support Rhino and son Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveMonkey 0 #18 August 28, 2002 Must have been one fo the best moments for you there. ____________________ Say no to subliminal messages Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #19 August 28, 2002 It was both the best and the worst.. The sheer terror at that moment that he was going to reject me after a year. "I am crying while writing this" I was so afraid that he was going to harbor some really bad feelings towards me. During that year I at least managed "thanks to a Texas judge" to maintain phone contact with him nightly. I can't imagine what horror and confusion must have fun through his mind on a daily basis while his mom was keeping him from me. The moment he hugged me I questioned everything I had done that last year. Should I have fought so hard to get custody in Texas? Should I have moved immediately after it happened? Should I this? Should I that? It was horrifying.. I almost had a breakdown right their. My little boy was holding me.. The first bear hug we had in a year and I felt like a failure in the worst way. "tears running down my face right now" I only hope that this doesn't permenently scar his little heart. How can a 3 1/2 - 4 year olf process all this comfusion and pain? Do they understand? I don't know.. I am just trying to reinforce the fact to him that I will NEVER go away. I will NEVER let anyone take him from me again.. I cherish my time with him very much.. After that first 1 hour "supervised" session was over. Daniel started saying Daddy one more minute Daddy, Just one more minute, Can I have another hug Daddy, can I have another french fry Daddy? It was heart breaking.. My little boy was begging me not to let him go again after not seeing me for a year.. "I am still crying" and all I could say is I love you son.. I will see you again next week.. The moment he left the room I started whaling.. I was crying uncontrollably.. That feeling of loss, failure, not "really" knowing if I would see him again.. The deep heart felt insecurity of loosing him that became so familar a year before creeping in.. Here we are a year later after that.. I now have joint custody and get him 1/4 of the month roughly. Everytime I drop him off I still have that fear inside. I never sleep the night he leaves.. I toss and turn and cry.. I miss my boy.. Rob Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveMonkey 0 #20 August 28, 2002 No child should have to put up with being tossed around like this. It sucks man, and I feel for both of ya. My parents divorced when I was about 8, and it sucked, but it worked out cool in the end. Hopefully yours story will come out ok. ____________________ Say no to subliminal messages Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #21 August 28, 2002 Rhino, You are truly a blessed man. I know that sounds ironic considering all the shit you have had to go through to be with your son. Alot of guys have their sons full time and totally take it for granted. You are blessed because he is part of you and you will always be part of him. There is no greater accomplishment in this life than being a good parent. Every moment with him counts. Make the most of all of them. Remember, in 14 years he will be 18 and be able to make his own decisions. He is going to need to turn to his dad. God Bless you and your son. _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #22 August 28, 2002 I am very blessed indeed.. Actually in 13 years he will be 18 :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viking 0 #23 August 28, 2002 hey man whats with the Polar Bear Porn in zoo2.jpg I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver My God has a bigger dick than your god -George Carlin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yoshi 0 #24 August 28, 2002 funny mag cover_________________________________________ this space for rent. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JumpNFly 0 #25 August 28, 2002 such sweet pics!!! I Can't believe she's that much of a bat... horrible thing to take a baby away from his daddy... beautiful little boy The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
