rhino 0 #26 August 30, 2002 Wow.. Came into work this morning and read these posts.. Thanks for everything guys... Rob Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #27 August 30, 2002 Anyone remember the rally and volunteering that happened when Anne wanted to save a few abused dogs? Imagine what we'd do for a 5-year old boy!!it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #28 August 30, 2002 Don't tempt me Thanks for the thought Blue... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rgoper 0 #29 August 30, 2002 QuoteSCREAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Rhino: relax, i know your pain, and the demons that are trying to infest your heart, have called on me as well. listen carefully, plan a vacation, a carnival cruise, say for 7 days, make plans to TCB before you leave. when the day and time arrives, go up on the bridge and slap the f%^k out of the captain, that way, there won't be any doubt in anybody's mind where you were. i can't tell you your not in for the fight of your life, because you are, my youngest just turned 18, and the impact the ex had on him is unreversable. one day....maybe the courts will "be able to see the forest for the trees" i just wish one of the judges would have to "live a day in the life" maybe we could get some justice. stay on an "even keel" bro.--Richard-- "We Will Not Be Shaken By Thugs, And Terroist" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #30 August 30, 2002 QuoteDon't tempt me [innocent stare]What? tempt who? how? to do what?[/innocent stare] I have resources and abilities at your disposal. it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deuce 1 #31 August 30, 2002 Rhino, my folks split up when I was young. Little ones don't really understand what's going on, I think their world is simpler. I hated the custody transfer, but I loved being with my Dad. The transfer was a tense and horrible thing that I didn't understand. But I remember playing catch with my Dad when I was five (choked up here....). So try playing catch or kicking a ball with your son. And continue showing him what it's all about to be a man. Prayers. JP Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #32 August 30, 2002 I hear you... You are going to join me in the class action "child neglect" law suit against the federal court system and friend of the court right? I will be initiating it after my custody is finalized.. Their will be newspaper ads, reporters. news stories, and lots more.. I am calling in the troops on this one.. Put the word out.. Friend of the court is going down and the family court system will be right behind it. It is going to get nasty.. I am going to enjoy every second of it.. You game Rich?? Rob Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rgoper 0 #33 August 30, 2002 QuoteI am going to enjoy every second of it.. You game Rich?? Rob: i'm "game" allright, but i do not look forward to it, i will take no pleasure in partaking in it. for me, as a 43 year old paernt and grandfather, the only reason i want to do it, is not as a vindictive action, but one of proaction to help create a more "even" playing field for fathers who care, don't get me wrong, there are those fathers out there who deserve every bit of what they get, BUT there are mother's out there as well who deserve the same treatment. sadly the courts always (98.99% of the time) award the mothers custody of "our" children, and it's more often than not the absolute wrong decision, but the court(s) generally have "tunnel vision" my youngest son just turned 18, and has one more year of high school left, he has no aspiritions of "reaching for the brass ring" as it were, "if only"..........i'm not angry, i'm deeply perplexed that our judicial system seems to be on "autopilot" and all decisons seem to be in favor of the female involved by "default" i never had a chance, and i divorced in 1986, i had all the proof in the world she wasn't fit, and never would be, now all these years later, no on has realized the mistake(s) BUT, i've got two children who will never be "the best that they can be" as a result. all they know is to be lazy, sit around and play games on tv, and "live off of the system" via insurance lawsuits, my income...etc...i could elobarate, but i shant at the present time, god, i gotta go "catch some air!" may the peace of the "blue skies" be with all of us, and remember, this is going to be a very busy holiday weekend, we've lost some very dear firends, brothers and sisters lately, please be safe, be aware of the sky, and the sky diver(s) around you, and don't become the next statistic, it's up to us as a skydiving "family" to "draw the line" be safe, take care, and god bless each and every one of you.--Richard-- "We Will Not Be Shaken By Thugs, And Terroist" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #34 August 31, 2002 I agree with you.. Lets get it on... For the kids and good parents that deserve the best.. Rob Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites