blondeflyer7 0 #1 September 1, 2002 Does anyone feel like no matter what they do it seems thier life is always complicated? I try so hard to do the right thing........ I have a exceptional heart and it seems things try to challange me no matter what or how I present it. I know with time it will get better but its fustrating to accept the present. I will hold my head high and accomplish my goals.. Tell me I'm not alone. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sar911 0 #2 September 1, 2002 You need to follow the two golden rules of life. 1. Don't sweat the small stuff. 2. Everything is small stuff. While life seams overwhealming at times, it will pass and you will look back and realize rule number two. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pammi 0 #3 September 1, 2002 I'm sorry to hear things are not going well for you It will pass, truly :) I truly believe in the theory that without the bad times, you couldn't truly appreciate the good. Your dedication to trying to accomplish your goals says something to you, and I think it will get you far in the end. Keep at it girl! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blondeflyer7 0 #4 September 1, 2002 What if the small stuff involves a insane man that has joint custody of my child. I worry every time I drop her off. Mother's instinct.......I just want whats best for her. Yeah I had a sucky judge!!!!!!!! I don't relax until i have her. Not giving up though! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blondeflyer7 0 #5 September 1, 2002 Believe it or not I've come along ways!!!!! Unfortunately he still pushes my buttons but I have accomplished alot. It takes time and with the support I've gotton from the one's that I care deeply for......it has helped tremendously! I hope they continue to support me as I need it! I will never know how to thank them! But it will be done! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sar911 0 #6 September 1, 2002 Worrying is why you are called a mom and it just means that you care. I will give you the same advice that I gave Rhino. Just remember that she will always be your daughter and nothing can change that. And as she gets older she will be able to think and make choices for herself. It seems like an eternity now, but trust me, it will pass in the blink of an eye and you will look back and see that you have her forever. Time is on your side. So love her, hold her, teach her, play with her and be her strength. If you do this who do you think she will be drawn to. Do not fight the Ex as he will take it out on her. Instead fight for her by being there for her. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
