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ok, q about dz's and personal relationships...

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Without knowing either of you (though it's possible if you jump at Jumptown - don't know from your profile) and taking the chance of sounding like an asshole, my gut feel on this situation is that he isn't interested, but lacks the balls and/or courtesy to tell you. It should be HIS job to pursue you, since he asked you out to begin with.

There are numerous other possible explanations of his behavior, but this is the most PROBABLE one IMHO, based on how most guys I know think and function. I would recommend not wasting any more brain cycles on this dude.

Joe

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Or, maybe he is a nice guy - as other people have told you. Maybe, just maybe he's got his shit together, and he realized you are a really nice girl. Then he also knew he was going to be leaving, and didn't want to start any kind of relationship with you. Maybe you are a kick ass chick, he didn't want to hurt when he was leaving... Life is full of possibilities.

The laws of physics are strictly enforced.

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although he may, anyway...then you know he's just a pathetic child...

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We're men dammitt.....and we aren't THAT pathetic....



ooohhh!!! is someone a little over-sensitive? this wasn't a slam on men in general...as a matter of fact, i LOVE men in general...

what's the matter, Clay??? does your pussy hurt??? do you need some salve for your pussy??? :D
spiral out...keep going...

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thank you for the posts...i dunno though. I already said goodbye, and seeing as he is leaving this weekend, if I said goodbye again it would be like "annoying stalker girl" rather than cool chick...I just wish he had the balls to tell me either way, you know...I would have loved to stay in touch w/him this winter...???arrgh~!!!

and why yes, I am a really cool, kick as chick!


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She needs to get drunk with him, then get honest.



This is exactly the wrong approach to any problem. You show your youth and idealism when you say crazy stuff like this. Where would this country be if everytime something was going right, people resorted to truth. Danger, Will Robinson, danger! If truth was such a good thing, would there be racks and racks (npi) of padded bras and hair dye at Walmart? NO. Wally knows what makes the world go round. And that's the truth!
Shit happens. And it usually happens because of physics.

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nah...i'm a truth kinda girl myself...trust me, if he would have said "hey, I just want to f*%k you and then I'm outta here" it would have been a completely different story. Hey, if thats all you want, just say it! I can respect that...But he started to say just the opposite, which, for a good deal of time, made me so confused..."is this just a line? or is this the truth"...and he had the chance but did not want to even just use me for that...so that is why my head hurts!!! (other than banging it on my desk all morning...)
I hate work.>:( ...no, second thought, I just hate the idiots at my work...


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It doesn't matter if he is an instructor or not, It's not good business to date the customers. People, women in particular, don't generally go to the DZ to be hit on. There is nothing quite so pitiful as someone on the DZ staff using the student population as his own personal dating pool. If you want to date a staff member, wait till you're no longer a student.
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She needs to get drunk with him, then get honest.



This is exactly the wrong approach to any problem. You show your youth and idealism when you say crazy stuff like this. Where would this country be if everytime something was going right, people resorted to truth. Danger, Will Robinson, danger! If truth was such a good thing, would there be racks and racks (npi) of padded bras and hair dye at Walmart? NO. Wally knows what makes the world go round. And that's the truth!


Well, as a newbie jumper who still has her youth, I have visions of a happy society where people tell the truth, just like they see it. I can't tell you how good it feels to slur out "You know what I think of you..." every weekend. Sure, it has caused uncomfortable situations the next day. Also, many people don't like hearing that they're "jerks", "meanies", or "the devil himself", but I find this information helplul in aiding others with their self-improvement. And, I really just want to help people.

And what's hair dye? ;)
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See... the only problem with this method is at least with you it can cost a lot to get you to that level of drunkeness. Its lots easier just to tell them how you feel with out going to the need of getting drunk. Like this: Wildblue... you are a pompus ass for not hanging out at the DZ I was at this weekend.
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