happythoughts 0 #101 December 6, 2002 QuoteWhen the physical stuff wanes in a relationship, one better hope that there is something else beneath to support it. For myself, I am signing up to take classes in Jan '03 to maintain my professional skills. I need the job. It matters. If you ask a guy, "Could you do a little exercise and tone it up in 4 months, if I gave you $10,000 dollars?" Most would say, "Hell yeah!". So, isn't it worth it to maintain your wifes opinion? So she can brag to her g/fs about ya? I plan my career, how about my relationship? Life can get in the way of a lot. Come home from work tired, the kids take up all your time, too emotionally drained to feel playful. If someone offered you $10K to come up with a novel romantic idea each month, you would, huh? Sometimes, the physical wanes because of the boredom/sameness. Some of married women cheat because of their boredom, not just guys doing it. How much value do you place on the relationship? How much are you going to work at it? The earlier post about "after the chase" hit the nail on the head. Been there, done that, old game is boring. That's true if it is a sex conquest. If the person is a "value-added" to your life, then the effort needs to continue. A "treasured guest" in your house that you want to stay there because their presence improves your life. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #102 December 6, 2002 QuoteHow much value do you place on the relationship? How much are you going to work at it? I place extreme values on relationships..the problem comes when only one person works at it and makes it a priority... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #103 December 6, 2002 Quote If the person is a "value-added" to your life, then the effort needs to continue. A "treasured guest" in your house that you want to stay there because their presence improves your life. Ah yes......I don't want anyone to complete my life.....just compliment it, and contribute to my over all happiness. The rest is up to me. Thanks for your words of wisdom and sharing your thoughts.....who would have thunk it? BwahhhhhhhhhhhAnd........it takes Two to Tango Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #104 December 6, 2002 You look so cute Sunshine....but why are you buying that VILE Miller Light? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #105 December 6, 2002 Quote you want to stay there because their presence improves your life That's my criteria.......haven't found it yet. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #106 December 6, 2002 "...and sharing your thoughts.....who would have thunk it? Bwahhhhhhhhhhh " Yes, who would have thought? A definite break from my normally shy and reticent self. Perhaps with a little encouragement, I could break out of this shell. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #107 December 6, 2002 QuotePerhaps with a little encouragement, I could break out of this shell. Oh no...no no no....BB sings "I love to laugh loud and strong and clear, I love to laugh....its getting worse every year..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #108 December 6, 2002 QuoteYou look so cute Sunshine....but why are you buying that VILE Miller Light? Cause it's cheap!! The other people i went shopping with kept teasing me for buying crappy beer, but they're the same ones that drank it when we got back to the dz!! ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #109 December 6, 2002 Quote they're the same ones that drank it when we got back to the dz!! It takes on a new air of "quality" once it's "Free Beer." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Spy38W 0 #110 December 7, 2002 Quote Quote Well you're the dumbass that gave me your phone number!! ----------------------------------------------------------- No...I enjoy your drunken VM's.... I prolly won't drink this weekend...i spent way too much money on beer while in FL (as the pic shows). Pete caught me on so many firsts. There are many more pics from that grocery store adventure especially the one with the loaf of french bread..... Let me take this opportunity to point out that there are 24 beers in a case.... -- Hook high, flare on time Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #111 December 7, 2002 *BB thinks*.....it's been well over 12 hours.....geez I hope the lil' fishy isn't lost Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #112 December 7, 2002 Honey, he is a male, thus he refuses to stop and ask directions so he's driving around within 2 blocks of your house and can't find it! AT some point he'll go into a convenience store to buy berr and may slip in he is looking for your manor house in hopes the Iranian clerk has a clue what he is talking about and will offer directions without him actually having to ASK!!! -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #113 December 7, 2002 Quote in hopes the Iranian clerk has a clue what he is talking about and will offer directions without him actually having to ASK!!! Bwahhhhhh yeah but just tell 'em where the dropzone is.....and they are sure to find it! ROFLMAO Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #114 December 7, 2002 Don't you know it hon! I say face it he is lost, has stopped for beer and is sitting drunk somewhere. Go out for a sleigh ride in the snow so something. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #115 December 7, 2002 QuoteGo out for a sleigh ride in the snow so something. Oh yeah hot cocoa.....marshmallows......Yukon Jack...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zenister 0 #116 December 7, 2002 yukon jack? hmm did you hang up your shoes?____________________________________ Those who fail to learn from the past are simply Doomed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #117 December 7, 2002 Quote yukon jack? hmm did you hang up your shoes? Nah but man it might have been fun! I don't partake in the spirits......makes me ummmm well anyway..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zenister 0 #118 December 7, 2002 of course you know saying that only creates the desire to try and tempt you... ____________________________________ Those who fail to learn from the past are simply Doomed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #119 December 7, 2002 Quoteof course you know saying that only creates the desire to try and tempt you bwahhhhhh many have tried...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
prepheckt 0 #120 December 7, 2002 bwahhhhhh many have tried...... Kinda like looking for the Holy Grail or the El Dorado or the location of Jimmy Hoffa...impossible Many have tried and died.. Go to eloy...they say every star that you can see at night is the shattered dreams and hopes of someone who tired to tempt B^2.....May God have mercy on your soul. "Dancing Argentine Tango is like doing calculus with your feet." -9 toes Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #121 December 7, 2002 Man... It's quiet in here... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zenister 0 #122 December 7, 2002 Quote Quote of course you know saying that only creates the desire to try and tempt you bwahhhhhh many have tried...... yes but were they as skilled as I? ____________________________________ Those who fail to learn from the past are simply Doomed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #123 December 7, 2002 QuoteMany have tried and failed.. Yes.....well.....what can I say? Try HARDER! Bwahhhhhhhhhhh Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #124 December 7, 2002 You said harder... boioioioioioioing!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zenister 0 #125 December 7, 2002 QuoteQuoteMany have tried and failed.. Yes.....well.....what can I say? Try HARDER! Bwahhhhhhhhhhh ah see they must have lacked both the skill and the preseverance ...____________________________________ Those who fail to learn from the past are simply Doomed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
