PLFXpert 0 #1 December 11, 2002 OK...I don't want this thread to turn into an argument, so as usual, I'll self-moderate my threads.... We debated this in school last week. I am a firm believer that the MORE EDUCATION someone has about sex, or anything for that matter, the better and more safe decisions they can make. I think if a teen wants to have sex, they might do so whether they have the education or not, but at least if they have the education, they might be smarter about how they go about it. Also, I think it's important, not just in middle schools/high schools but also in college. The reason I say this is, it is a known fact that 3/4 of women have never had an orgasm through intercourse. Yet, they feel there is something wrong with them. Most of these women, have had one via other means (oral or self-gratification). These facts are taken from several books/classes I took at UF, and yes, Cosmo confirms. Ha ha ha. There are many possible reasons, etc. I have my own theories that I can explain later. Me personally, yes, I've only slept with one man, but I've ALWAYS enjoyed it IMMENSELY, never faked it, and always been able to please him back, b/c I'm not afraid to say what I want, or to ask what he wants. I attribute this to being VERY educated in the area, VERY familiar with my own body and what/how I satisfy myself, and years of being a virgin, fantasizing, satisfying myself and figuring out EXACTLY what I like. Even in college at UF, our sex-ed professor, first day of class, instructed us, for homework, to go home, and stick our fingers inside ourselves and feel what goes on up there....I KID YOU NOT! THIS WAS OUR ACTUAL ASSIGNMENT! I personally back sex education in schools, 100%. Yes, I feel that it's the parents responsibility as well, but even a lot of parents were never properly informed and diseases, safety precautions, options, etc. are always changing and parent's might not be aware of these things. So what do you guys think? Keep it constructive, please. And yes, you are free to joke, hijack, etc....Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #2 December 11, 2002 I agree with you 110%...I think it's so important that kids be educated...I have talked to my girls about everything....wanted them to hear from me first before their friends put all kinds of weird ideas in their heads. We have a very open house about this subject because it is so important and I want them to feel comfortable discussing it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #3 December 11, 2002 Doin' my part...one girl at a time... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,589 #4 December 11, 2002 School is a place for information, not opinions, when it comes to sex education (well, a lot of other things, too). And as far as I'm concerned, the more appropriate information (e.g. 8th-graders don't need a lot of information about positions) the better. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #5 December 11, 2002 completely agree....I know that my fifth grader starts sex education next semester... the kids have to have a permission slip to attend because it seems there are still many who would rather the school not be a part of it.... however... I still believe as Clay posted, that the responsibility lies with the parent....but then many parents are uncomfortable discussing it.. mY parents used to tell me......just don't get pregnant....so I did.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #6 December 11, 2002 Quotethe more appropriate information and thats where the problem really begins....."What is appropriate and when do you teach it." The answers are too personal and therefor public education will never work. If you have kids.....be a parent!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LouDiamond 1 #7 December 11, 2002 I completely agree. If your going to do something , do it right or don't do it at all.I also believe that practice makes perfect, so have a perfect practiceit's funny you brought this up. I saw a documentary on HBO on the bunny ranch in Vegas. One of the women said that men go there because they are afraid to ask their wives/girlfriends to do certain things or because their women WON't do certain things, blowjobs being the big one. I think having the ability to talk about sex with your partner(that doesn't include talking to yourself) and being educated on it will result in a better sex life and relationship. Kids handle anything you throw at them , if you teach the simple fundamentals of the human body and the reproductive process, beliefs and opinions aside, they will treat it just like they treat any of the other classes they take. I still whole heartedly believe that parents ultimately have the responsibility to talk to their children about sex. "It's just skydiving..additional drama is not required" Some people dream about flying, I live my dream SKYMONKEY PUBLISHING Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #8 December 11, 2002 QuoteOne of the women said that men go there because they are afraid to ask their wives/girlfriends to do certain things or because their women WON't do certain things I saw that too and about fell off my chair when he said that... either he didn't know his wife when he married her.....or is one of those men who sees his wife in strictly the role of mother and can't imagine doing things with her other than procreating.. unbelieveable...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #9 December 11, 2002 Quote is one of those men who sees his wife in strictly the role of mother and can't imagine doing things with her other than procreating I was just the opposite....I always saw my wife as the dirty little slut she was....it was the whole motherhood thing that was a shock. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LouDiamond 1 #10 December 11, 2002 That was a trip. How about Airforce Amy? that chick was straight up FREAK! "It's just skydiving..additional drama is not required" Some people dream about flying, I live my dream SKYMONKEY PUBLISHING Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #11 December 11, 2002 Quote I always saw my wife as the dirty little slut she was Aren't you just a little peach this morning? ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #12 December 11, 2002 HAHAHA......how about $500 to watch that chick masterbate.. God....i could have made a fortune.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LouDiamond 1 #13 December 11, 2002 Quote Quote is one of those men who sees his wife in strictly the role of mother and can't imagine doing things with her other than procreating I was just the opposite....I always saw my wife as the dirty little slut she was....it was the whole motherhood thing that was a shock. ROTFLMAO I tend to like the "Lady in public, whore in the bedroom" myself"It's just skydiving..additional drama is not required" Some people dream about flying, I live my dream SKYMONKEY PUBLISHING Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #14 December 11, 2002 Quote Aren't you just a little peach this morning? You know me......I always tell it like it is without the sugar coating.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #15 December 11, 2002 Quote "Lady in public, whore in the bedroom" Wasn't too good at the first part but she was DAMN good at the second.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #16 December 11, 2002 Quote You know me......I always tell it like it is without the sugar coating.... He he he...I think that's why we get along so well, freeflirPaint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #17 December 11, 2002 Quote I think that's why we get along so well, freeflir You can always count on me for honesty sweetheart... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #18 December 11, 2002 Right back at ya Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LouDiamond 1 #19 December 11, 2002 Quote HAHAHA......how about $500 to watch that chick masterbate.. God....i could have made a fortune.. That was ridiculous but that was probablly the closest those two were gonna get to real pussy for awhile.How about the couple doing the blonde? Old boy flipped out when they told him they were filming. Did you hear his wife? There was no way in hell her ass was getting off that bed..she wanted that strap on action bad"It's just skydiving..additional drama is not required" Some people dream about flying, I live my dream SKYMONKEY PUBLISHING Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #20 December 11, 2002 Quote how about $500 to watch that chick masterbate I wish I could make that kind of money. I'd clear $2-3K per day easy!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #21 December 11, 2002 Wasn't it so sweet and romantic....they had a hobby together........going to whore houses.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LouDiamond 1 #22 December 11, 2002 Quote Wasn't it so sweet and romantic....they had a hobby together........going to whore houses.. LOL that was their anniversary!!"It's just skydiving..additional drama is not required" Some people dream about flying, I live my dream SKYMONKEY PUBLISHING Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #23 December 11, 2002 Actually, I can't support the "parents should tell their kids about sex" thing for a variety of reasons. 1. Most parents don't know that much. Most of what they learned is from their limited experience. Nothing like a church-load of guilt to limit exploration. Think of the whole virginity-until-marriage crap. A lot of parents don't have good sex lives themselves. 2. Most kids don't have a traditional family structure. 3. Most parents aren't going to feel comfortable talking about certain issues with their kids. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #24 December 11, 2002 Quote Quote how about $500 to watch that chick masterbate I wish I could make that kind of money. I'd clear $2-3K per day easy!!! An acquaintance works for an online nude chat site. She liked to say that masterbation was in her job description. There are some guys on the site. One is known as the "military guy", so there are openings. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #25 December 11, 2002 They teach sex ed in the school I tach at, but after sitting in the class to observe I have concluded the coach needs to get a life. I was laughing so hard at the stuff he said that was SO wrong. I had to take my daughter aside and correct almost everything he said. As a parent I strongly suggest you take the responsibility upon yourself. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
