misskriss 0 #1 December 24, 2002 so I'm reading over the various posts i've written... makes me think....I am a totally different person here at dz.com than in person.. except the sex part..that's always real.. but on a day to day basis...it's the mom thing..the wife thing...cooking and cleaning..driving kids to various activities..attending Naval social functions with my husband and "behaving like a lady...." believe it or not.. so.....I'm trying to figure it out...is it possible to be all encompassing.... reading bedtime stories and singing lullabies one night.....discussing poetry with a bookclub the next....getting drunk and being free another night..... are these all me or am I a chameleon blending in with whatever group I 'm with... hmmmmmm.......do you define yourselves by the roles you play.....or do the roles you play define you.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nubain1 0 #2 December 24, 2002 I think it's a little bit of both that define who you are as a whole. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skygal3 0 #3 December 24, 2002 IMO... you define yourself by who you are. You are a mom; you are a wife; but you are also...you. You give a piece of yourself to your husband, your kids, etc...but you are still entitled to your own little piece for yourself...it is easy to see a different piece of yourself through past emails or posts because the internet, I believe, gives you the option of unabashedly being yourself...you don't have the normal insecurities of everyday face to face life. Also, it is easy to divulge more of the depths of your personality...ever think something and blurt it out faster than you can hear yourself say it and totally be shocked? By typing, you are transfering deeper thoughts. I think. Anyway, we get caught up in our "roles", but nothing deifnes you more than who you are at the core. Not what you do...IMO Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
f1freak 0 #4 December 24, 2002 That is a very good question, I know for my self, i am a totally different person while at work and when i'm not... hummmmmmmmm..... This really can get a person thinking....HAVE FUN... ...JUST DONT DIE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SpeedRacer 1 #5 December 24, 2002 Quote By typing, you are transfering deeper thoughts. I think. I'm still waiting to see that happen here, though! Speed Racer -------------------------------------------------- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
outofit 0 #6 December 24, 2002 i think u r what u eat! It is better to be dead and cool than alive and uncool! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #7 December 24, 2002 HAHAHAHAHA then I am chocolate cake tonight... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lippy 918 #8 December 24, 2002 How I see myself definitely depends on my surroundings. At work I'm a different person than when I'm at home, or the DZ, or out with friends. But no matter where I'm at or what I'm doing, I'm always first and formost a skydiver...which really annoys a lot of my co-workersEdit: since originally posting I learned how to spell I got nuthin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hookitt 1 #9 December 24, 2002 Quote HAHAHAHAHA then I am chocolate cake tonight... Funny stuff Wish I could reply. I like this one, I'm off to lurk around in the moonlight. Ya'll have a good night C-yaMy grammar sometimes resembles that of magnetic refrigerator poetry... Ghetto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shark 0 #10 December 24, 2002 Sounds like you have compartmentalized your life. Yeah, you gotta get away from the stuffy navy parties and cut loose sometimes. You're just being yourself and having fun! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #11 December 24, 2002 Quotecompartmentalized now that is a word I've heard quite often being a military spouse...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LouDiamond 1 #12 December 24, 2002 Quote HAHAHAHAHA then I am chocolate cake tonight... MMMMM, can I lick off the frosting? LOL"It's just skydiving..additional drama is not required" Some people dream about flying, I live my dream SKYMONKEY PUBLISHING Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #13 December 24, 2002 LOL......I was trying to be serious...... i have plenty left to be licked off.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LouDiamond 1 #14 December 24, 2002 Quote LOL......I was trying to be serious...... So was I Quote i have plenty left to be licked off.. OOHHHH let me loosen up the 'ol jaw muscle and tounge LOL"It's just skydiving..additional drama is not required" Some people dream about flying, I live my dream SKYMONKEY PUBLISHING Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #15 December 24, 2002 purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrring.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LouDiamond 1 #16 December 24, 2002 Quote purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrring.. How's that song go again?......You gotta lick it...."It's just skydiving..additional drama is not required" Some people dream about flying, I live my dream SKYMONKEY PUBLISHING Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #17 December 24, 2002 was it lick it or push it??? i think i'm hijacking my own post...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LouDiamond 1 #18 December 24, 2002 Quote was it lick it or push it??? i think i'm hijacking my own post...... it was lick it...and then came the pushing "It's just skydiving..additional drama is not required" Some people dream about flying, I live my dream SKYMONKEY PUBLISHING Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freefallfreak 0 #19 December 24, 2002 Quote i think i'm hijacking my own post...... We won't tell if you don't... FFF "Upon seeing the shadow of a pigeon, one must resist the urge to look up." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #20 December 24, 2002 hmmmmmm.......well when I finally make the trip to Orange, then we'll see what the consensus is Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LouDiamond 1 #21 December 24, 2002 Quote hmmmmmm.......well when I finally make the trip to Orange, then we'll see what the consensus is The invite is always open.....just ask for lou and they will point you in my direction. Besides it's only a few hours drive, so you have no GOOD excuse BWAAAHHHH"It's just skydiving..additional drama is not required" Some people dream about flying, I live my dream SKYMONKEY PUBLISHING Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jraf 0 #22 December 24, 2002 me? i like comparing personalities to different accents. if i had a familly, i would make the official accent "fake english" if you know what i mean jraf Me Jungleman! Me have large Babalui. Muff #3275 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
