freebird 0 #1 January 17, 2003 My sister just calls sys her baby fell. She has a husband there but wants to wait and have me pick her up. 20 min. drive. Ok baby fell and she does not get her hubby in the car right away and speed to the ER???? I go outside call on my cell to say Im on the way however I just took two valuim ( I have to for my cramps) Might wnat hubby to go instead. The bitch hangs up on me. My mom and sister always think the worst of me. Well there going to see a side of me they may not like much. And i do not give a damm. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BoobieCootie 0 #2 January 17, 2003 It looks like the valium is kicking in based on your spelling, grammar, punctuation, ++. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jessd 0 #3 January 17, 2003 Did you explain to them why you were not able to drive over there? You could have been putting yourself in danger...Have you tried talking to them about the way they make you feel? You shouldn't ahve to feel like that. Best of Luck and cheer up - you seem real down today! "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #4 January 17, 2003 I have to take it my cramps and anxiety or bad. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #5 January 17, 2003 They treated me that way all of my life. Now Im almost done with Nursing school and they still laugh at the fact Im actually doing that. I have no mom she never calls. Its fine. They are shallow minded and will never change and Im eliminating this type of crap from my life. Some families do not get along. ALL they do is bring me down. Its over now. They can kiss my ass. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jessd 0 #6 January 17, 2003 Well try not to let them make you fell like that. Congrats on almost being done with school. That is a great accomplishment and I know that it's hard going to college. Now that I'm done I feel great - I know that I accomplished something that I set my mind to. "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #7 January 17, 2003 Yes its hard work and time comsuming. I love it though Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jessd 0 #8 January 17, 2003 OUCH - IV's. I had a few surgerys in November and each time that they started the IV I screamed "FUUUUCK" at the top of my lungs. It hurt - I'm such a baby with needles and pain. Anyway, I thought that they were going to ban me from the hospital. The didn't appreciate it. I hope you never get any patients like me - I'm the worst. "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #9 January 17, 2003 We students practice on each other before we move on to real patients Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jessd 0 #10 January 17, 2003 Well, that's good. I truly feel bad for all my nurses of the past and all of those to come. A friend of mine just started nursing school - she's said it's so hard. You should really be proud of yourself for going and being almost done. "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airann 1 #11 January 17, 2003 I could write a book..... on the anxiety thing- Valium is ok, but better I think would be Klonopin or Xanax. 800 mg of Motrin for the cramps and toss in whatever else on top if you feel like it. Valium has depressive side effects. I dont know of very many Drs now who use it for anxiety. Back 30 years ago it was my Mothers main stay. Now we have other treatments for this horrible disorder thta are more user friendly. Xanax is fine did that one for years. But for 8 yrs, Klonopin in low doses. Combined with realistic thinking. It is adviseable because it is short lived. I have near zero the next day wondering around in my bloodstream to bother my skydiving. And 2- No depression or depressive moods (in side effect form) As for your sister. I understand that sisters sometimes fight alot in the first place. Tonight you did right, you would have your sister, the child, and you in the car. my opinion I could be wrong.... ~AirAnn~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nacmacfeegle 0 #12 January 17, 2003 "Tonight you did right, you would have your sister, the child, and you in the car. my opinion I could be wrong.... " Not in this instance Ann, this time you are right on the money.-------------------- He who receives an idea from me, receives instruction himself without lessening mine; as he who lights his taper at mine, receives light without darkening me. Thomas Jefferson Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #13 January 17, 2003 Valium has depressive side effects. I dont know of very many Drs now who use it for anxiety. Back 30 years ago it was my Mothers main stay*** I really only take it when I go to my moms to see my daughter and it wears off by the time I drive home. My mom and I do not get along. It helps. I think Im going to throw the valium in the trash and just ignore her. My mom and sis have always and still think Im a worthless nut. I believe or this is my theory. Remember the kids in high school that were mean to you. ( we all had them). Well luckly I do not have to see them anymore. All they did was bring me down I have concluded that its the same with my mom dad and sister. They are no longer part of my life. I can't have that kind of negative vibe in my life. As far as Im concerened they are not here. Only my husband and daughter and his daughter are my actual family. And as for last night I made the right choice not to drive a baby after taking the pills. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
