freebird 0 #1 January 17, 2003 My hubby is talking about girls alot. Im glad he feels good but Im sick for all of the comments about the pretty girls on TV. Is this normal behavior for a dude? I mean I feel like I need my whole body "done". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #2 January 17, 2003 That's a normal guy behaviour, don't worry, he'll 'get' you __________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #3 January 17, 2003 All of the time? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jessd 0 #4 January 17, 2003 Uh yea. I never get jealous when my b/f looks at girls on TV or in person and makes a comment about their looks. It's natural. Do you ever look at a guy and think"Damn, he's hot". I know I do. I'm no supermodel - I could stand to loose a few or whatever - but I'm happy with the way I am. "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vanillasky11 0 #5 January 17, 2003 I agree...totally human nature...I dont wanna live my life comparing myself to other women. I am who I am.. "You haven't seen a tree until you've seen its shadow from the sky." -- Amelia Earhart Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skyboyblue 0 #6 January 17, 2003 I think its time you popped in another 'adult entertainment video' dontcha think? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #7 January 17, 2003 ever look at a guy and think"Damn, he's hot". *** Not in front of him. I would not do that. Next time he says something about a girl I will say something about a guy. Like hes hott he is fine . (give him a dose of his own meds. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zenister 0 #8 January 17, 2003 its window shopping, dont worry about it till he starts talking about 'trade in'...____________________________________ Those who fail to learn from the past are simply Doomed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skyboyblue 0 #9 January 17, 2003 yeah, its like he's looking at other girls, not looking for...big diff Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
f1freak 0 #10 January 17, 2003 Any decent guy isn't gonna rub it into the face of the woman that they love.... well at least i think thats wrong..... HAVE FUN... ...JUST DONT DIE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #11 January 17, 2003 I think its time you popped in another 'adult entertainment video' dontcha think? *** Im totally not in the mood. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skyboyblue 0 #12 January 17, 2003 oh and vanilla...congrats miss 'enthuiast!' not even 1 jump and already a post whore!!! sheesh Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jessd 0 #13 January 17, 2003 QuoteAny decent guy isn't gonna rub it into the face of the woman that they love.... well at least i think thats wrong..... I don't look at it as rubbing it anyone's face. But, maybe that's just me. I don't know - I guess if it was excessive like " AHHH, the things I could do with her". That would piss me off... "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dropdeded 0 #14 January 17, 2003 My wife brought up that "You never used to want to look at other women"when she saw some of the e mails I get from the guys with half naked women.Im torn because hell,if it really hurt her feelings bad,I got no choice,shes my wife.But,its not like Im sittin here commitin hari kari, triple time staring at internet porn.I really dont see that her looking at guys on the tube or whatever would bother me. This can be a pretty touchy subject with most couples.I wouldnt worry about it. Dont mean nuthin dropdeded------------------------------------------ The Dude Abides. - Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sebazz1 2 #15 January 17, 2003 A casual glance at the other sex is to be expected. Maybe one or two comments over time is ok. But repeated comments about other women or men (depending what your into) is wrong in my book. That's just me though. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
f1freak 0 #16 January 17, 2003 But do you say, "Hey come here and look at this babe...." I mean it's one thing to look, and another to say to your S\O "damn she's hot..."... that's just askin for problems and making the other person feel like they are not quite up to standards..... I know it wouldnt make me feel the best..... HAVE FUN... ...JUST DONT DIE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jessd 0 #17 January 17, 2003 QuoteBut do you say, "Hey come here and look at this babe...." I mean it's one thing to look, and another to say to your S\O "damn she's hot..."... that's just askin for problems and making the other person feel like they are not quite up to standards..... I know it wouldnt make me feel the best..... I agree, but at the same time I guess it really does differ from couple to couple. I can't actually think of a time when I said out loud "Damn, he's hot" around a b/f or anything, but, I have made comments about someone's attractiveness. I too would be hurt if my b/f obnoxiously said "Damn, she's hot" in front of me. But passing comments do not bother me at all - I think that they are natural. "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hookitt 1 #18 January 17, 2003 Cant' resist... gotta pop in for this. My ex is my ex for geographical reasons. She would point out the women to me. I'd point out the Men to her. I never really figured out her taste in men, since the ones I thought she would like, she didn't. But then again, she liked me In my eyes, she was the hottest person on the planet* It didn't mean I thought others were not, it just meant when she was in front of me, nothing else mattered. So, looking never bothered us. After awhile we didn't do it any more. I think because we felt it was acceptable and normal to look. ======= Talk about it with your Hubby if it bugs you. Be honest and nice about it. You'll have to figure out the words yourself. It seems there are some very enlightened women on this forum. PM them for suggestions if it matters to you. I already know exactly who I would PM if I wanted some suggestions. You're a very lovely woman. I've seen but one picture of you, and that's what I noticed. C-ya Tim My grammar sometimes resembles that of magnetic refrigerator poetry... Ghetto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #19 January 17, 2003 But do you say, "Hey come here and look at this babe...." I mean it's one thing to look, and another to say to your S\O "damn she's hot..."... that's just askin for problems and making the other person feel like they are not quite up to standards..... I know it wouldnt make me feel the best..... *** You are a wonderful guy!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vanillasky11 0 #20 January 17, 2003 Quote oh and vanilla...congrats miss 'enthuiast!' not even 1 jump and already a post whore!!! sheesh Well, yes, what can I say Joel..ofcourse..in -20 weather...what am I supposed to do?????? "You haven't seen a tree until you've seen its shadow from the sky." -- Amelia Earhart Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skyboyblue 0 #21 January 17, 2003 I'd run outside and make naked snowangels if I were you.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vanillasky11 0 #22 January 17, 2003 AGAIN?????? "You haven't seen a tree until you've seen its shadow from the sky." -- Amelia Earhart Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skyboyblue 0 #23 January 17, 2003 oh come on... the flash didn't work on the camera last time... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
f1freak 0 #24 January 17, 2003 LOL... Thanks, but i dont know....it's just the way i see things..... HAVE FUN... ...JUST DONT DIE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GrumpySmurf 0 #25 January 17, 2003 Yep - it's a guy thing - if I were you, I'd worry if he wasn't talking about them (since he might be checking out guys..or worse..sheep) ;) They had that Taco Bell commercial with the guy with the fajitas walking down the street and the girl leans out the window and says, "Ouuuhhhh, fajitas!" - her well-endowed chest was about to explode out of her rather tight top. I look over at the g/f on the couch and go, "Ouuu! Tetas!" She almost died laughing - regardless who I talk about or flirt with - she knows at the end of the day - I'm going home with her. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
