GroundZero 0 #1 February 4, 2003 Hello all, While attending the PIA Symposium in Jacksonville, I met a girl that caught my eye. I had a few drinks and "got to know her a bit more personally". Here's my delimma. I'm happily married and have a new 2 month old girl. Life at home is terrific. But this new girl I will see again. I've never cheated before. It is uncomfortable, I feel guilty. But I will see her again. I have always been truthful with my wife and will always be. I intend to tell her that I have been with this other girl and intend to see her again. I know it will be difficult for her as it will be for me. I need HELP. Please, someone help me find the words that will lessen the pain. I can't sign my name as I wish to remain anonymous... but I've attached the picture of my new girlfriend. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
outofit 0 #2 February 4, 2003 uh, i see your dilemma! It is better to be dead and cool than alive and uncool! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
12bhi 0 #3 February 4, 2003 Wish ya luck dude!!!!Just make sure ur thinkin with the right one Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GroundZero 0 #4 February 4, 2003 Should I cross post in the "Women's only" forum? I'd really like to get a woman's opinion also. I don't think most guys can give me an objective voice. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zenister 0 #5 February 4, 2003 Quote what do i tell my wife? that your posting dusty old photoshop jokes for post whore material?? ____________________________________ Those who fail to learn from the past are simply Doomed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Push 0 #6 February 4, 2003 Nope, no objective boobies here. Uhh, beer. Uhh, voice. -- Toggle Whippin' Yahoo Skydiving is easy. All you have to do is relax while plummetting at 120 mph from 10,000' with nothing but some nylon and webbing to save you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mujie96 0 #7 February 4, 2003 Calmly explain the situation to her. If she really loves you, she will agree to pack up and move to Utah so you can start a harem and keep her on as a secondary wife. Just keep swimming...just keep swimming.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GroundZero 0 #8 February 4, 2003 She likes your idea! I knew I could count on everyone here to help me solve the problem! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rdutch 0 #9 February 4, 2003 Damm I spent 2 days at the Pia and i didnt see her, you lucky bastard first come first serverd. Ray Small and fast what every girl dreams of! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cloudseeker2001 0 #10 February 4, 2003 you should invite her over and the three of you should get down and dirty! "Some call it heavenly in it's brilliance, others mean and rueful of the western dream" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MrHixxx 0 #11 February 4, 2003 I expect she will ask if she has a brother...-Hixxx death,as men call him, ends what they call men -but beauty is more now than dying’s when Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaBabie 0 #12 February 4, 2003 Does the phrase "the grass is always greener on the other side" ring a bell? Because that's half the attraction. No one is REALLY ready for marriage, and a kid! And the hot chic, the one thats wild and free, and doesn't show signs of serious commitment... Yea, she can look pretty damn good given the circumstance. I have been in tons of relationships where I constantly idealized relationships with other people, wondering if it work out better with others. Truth is... You'll never be completely happy--human err, i guess? My advice: Honestly is a good thing, but not when it iflict unnecessary pain. Maybe this girl is really awesome, but if she knew about the 2mth old and the wife... Would she be soo cool? And if she already knows, well that tells you a lot about her morals! ...Not that yours aren't in question. Stop seeing the girl, occasionally look back and wonder, and 20 years from now (w/ a clear conscience, no less) you'll be really happy your kept those vows!For every first... there is a case of beer! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shark 0 #13 February 4, 2003 I always loved drinking from the tap! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weid14 0 #14 February 4, 2003 ummmmm, Lisa, did you open the attachment? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GroundZero 0 #15 February 4, 2003 shhhhhh!!! I enjoyed the advice.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weid14 0 #16 February 4, 2003 my bad, carry on... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GroundZero 0 #17 February 4, 2003 Do all you ladies agree with Lisababe or can I find a happy middleground with my new friend? Signed, Sleepless in Sasquatoon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freefallfreak 0 #18 February 4, 2003 Quote I always loved drinking from the tap! Ditto, wingman...lol. FFF BEAUTY is in the eye of the beer holder. "Upon seeing the shadow of a pigeon, one must resist the urge to look up." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zeemax 0 #19 February 4, 2003 beer and breasts V.s family life... hmmmmm.... its a tough one...Phoenix Fly - High performance wingsuits for skydiving and BASE Performance Designs - Simply brilliant canopies Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nacmacfeegle 0 #20 February 4, 2003 "Does the phrase "the grass is always greener on the other side" ring a bell?" Yeah but once you jump that fence, you find out its moss......Or worse still, she offered Heinekin, and this is all I got...... -------------------- He who receives an idea from me, receives instruction himself without lessening mine; as he who lights his taper at mine, receives light without darkening me. Thomas Jefferson Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
suz 0 #21 February 4, 2003 Honest opinion? You're a stupid man. I been cheated on and it's ruined my future relationships. Dont do it. From a women's point of view. Don't bother me, I'm living happily ever after Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #22 February 4, 2003 You guys have one track minds that focus on beer and boobies. My question is...does she skydive????? -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zeemax 0 #23 February 4, 2003 one would certainly hope she went down...Phoenix Fly - High performance wingsuits for skydiving and BASE Performance Designs - Simply brilliant canopies Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,589 #24 February 4, 2003 Well, I was going to assemble a guy model for my (and your) entertainment, but I'm not about to go surfing the internet for pictures of naked guys (I get enough spam as it is). The only pictures I could find on dz.com were the "naked guy post whore glory" ones, and somehow it's just WRONG to do that to a picture of someone I might jump with. So y'all just imagine a photoshopped picture of a guy with a beer tap replacing the equipment, and think that's one way she'll always swallow! Wendy w.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zeemax 0 #25 February 4, 2003 ROTFLMFAO! Phoenix Fly - High performance wingsuits for skydiving and BASE Performance Designs - Simply brilliant canopies Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
