freebird 0 #2 February 18, 2003 thats me 22 Amber 1, yes...I have brown hair as if no one knew. Im thinking going back to the natural brown color the dye is really bad for my hair. If were not for hubby I would not done blonde in the first place and I would have already of gone back brown if I were not affraid of his response. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #3 February 18, 2003 Nice picture, hon. Amber's a cutie. Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diverdriver 7 #4 February 18, 2003 Quotethats me 22 Amber 1, yes...I have brown hair as if no one knew. Im thinking going back to the natural brown color the dye is really bad for my hair. If were not for hubby I would not done blonde in the first place and I would have already of gone back brown if I were not affraid of his response. You must be joking. Your husband -made- you die your hair and you are afraid to go back because of his response? Does anyone else see this as a problem? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #5 February 18, 2003 Massive problem. Your husband should love you - no matter what your hair color - purple, black, blond, etc.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #6 February 18, 2003 Well I can tell him Im going to go bald if I keep up the blonde. Because actually this dye makes the hair brittle and break off I have a better texture with the natural hair and I think my natural brown looks better myself.I look kind of funny in that pic though. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kingbunky 3 #7 February 18, 2003 not just a problem, more like a pattern... i've seen a number of posts from freebird with the same theme... ya gotta be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else. "Hang on a sec, the young'uns are throwin' beer cans at a golf cart." MB4252 TDS699 killing threads since 2001 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hooked 0 #8 February 18, 2003 QuoteYou must be joking. Your husband -made- you die your hair and you are afraid to go back because of his response? Does anyone else see this as a problem? Ummm, yes, I do. It's your hair Tiff, you should be able to have it any color you want, regardless of his response. J -------------------------------------- Sometimes we're just being Humans.....But we're always Human Beings. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #9 February 18, 2003 I am happy. Here another pic.( a bit too much lip stick there) ) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #10 February 18, 2003 If were not for hubby I would not done blonde in the first place and I would have already of gone back brown if I were not affraid of his response.*** Just because Im affraid of what my husband may think if I go back to my natural color, does not mean he is a bad husband. He is a great husband. He does not tell or make me do anything I do not want to do. He is awesome . He is just used to seeing me with blonde hair and for the last 3 years. It will be a drastic change and I want him to still think the same about the way I look. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #11 February 18, 2003 You look good as a brunette. Go for it.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #12 February 18, 2003 You look good as a brunette. Go for it. *** Thank you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #13 February 18, 2003 I'd take a brown hair over blonde any day Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #14 February 18, 2003 Well if enough of you agree, I will do it. I may buy a blonde rig to wear around the house. If you REALLY know freebird you know that I would do that. the wig around the house thing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #15 February 18, 2003 Quote I may buy a blonde rig to wear around the house Does Javelin make a "blonde rig"? (I know you meant "wig", but I couldn't resist. ) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #16 February 18, 2003 rig to wear around the house*** Im losing it. FAST. Im not even going to edit that. Guess I know whats in my subconscious. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
meatmissile 0 #17 February 18, 2003 I've seen that too . -- ZZZzzzz.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Push 0 #18 February 18, 2003 You know, I'm all for the whole husband thing, but is this going too far? Of course, when you are married to someone, you are (perhaps) expected to care about what they think, so if you wanted to dye your hair into some violent shade of green or something, I can understand the protest from the husband. But this is perhaps taking it too far? I argee with king bunky too, I've seen this before in your posts. -- Toggle Whippin' Yahoo Skydiving is easy. All you have to do is relax while plummetting at 120 mph from 10,000' with nothing but some nylon and webbing to save you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zennie 0 #19 February 18, 2003 Quote I'd take a brown hair over blonde any day Agreed. I've always been partial to brunettes. Especially brunettes with blue eyes... GOD that kills me every time! - Z "Always be yourself... unless you suck." - Joss Whedon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TequilaGirl 0 #20 February 18, 2003 I knew it - Zennie how long have you been in love with me????? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zennie 0 #21 February 18, 2003 Quote Zennie how long have you been in love with me????? Not tellin'. - Z "Always be yourself... unless you suck." - Joss Whedon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gawain 0 #22 February 18, 2003 Quote Massive problem. Your husband should love you - no matter what your hair color - purple, black, blond, etc. Don't forget poka-dots, hot pink, shaved... Seriously, women have a certain power over men...hair color be-dam**d. So I try and I scream and I beg and I sigh Just to prove I'm alive, and it's alright 'Cause tonight there's a way I'll make light of my treacherous life Make light! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freebird 0 #23 February 18, 2003 I've seen that too *** Whatever you guys are seeing in my posts, I assure you that the problem lies within me not my husband. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #24 February 18, 2003 Quote I've seen that too *** Whatever you guys are seeing in my posts, I assure you that the problem lies within me not my husband. Every personality trait has a positive and negative side. The thing that helps you do something, impacts how you do something else. For Freebird, it is her desire to do things well, maybe perfect if possible. It comes out in a lot of aspects of her life. She excels at a lot of stuff. Lots. Having a happy hubby is one of the important things in her life. Other posters may not agree with how she does that, or the degree of effort that she puts into it, but you've got to respect the goal. Relationships are about compromise. A lot of posters think she is allowing him too much. It is her life. Sometimes we have seen her express frustration in the hard parts, but she still gets to choose her balance. You go girl. All that said, I like the brunette look on ya also. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #25 February 18, 2003 QuoteRelationships are about compromise. A lot of posters think she is allowing him too much. It is her life. I do have to agree with this. I'm not even sure why people are freaking out...it's her hair. If turning my hair blue made my grandma happy, I'd probably do it (hmm...okay, maybe not anymore since my work would fire me)...it doesn't mean that she has some all powerful control over me, it's just that I'm willing to compromise something that doesn't matter much. It's hair people!!!!! Who cares if her husband likes it better blonde/brunette?There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
