FeetFlyer 0 #1 February 23, 2003 Two weeks ago I made a mistake. I gave a drink to a girl and ended up sleeping next to her. We kissed and we "cuddled" but there is not a chance in hell that any babies will be born. The problem was that a friend of mine had set his eyes on her prior to that party. I didn't know if he was serious about the girl or if he also only wanted to have someone to hold that night. I know I shouldn't have slept with her, I admit that. But tonight another friend of mine totally shocked me when she said that I had deliberatly got this girl drunk just to sleep with her. I offered her ONE bottle of cider... ONE! Now I feel like some sort of pervert or something.. This is fucked up. To hell with this.. now I'm gonna go to sleep and tomorrow when I wake up I'll have a hangover but hopefully I will not think about this shit to much. <> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skygal3 0 #2 February 23, 2003 Ok, I am bored so I will play. She is just as guilty as your are, I am sorry, flame me all you want, but I have been very drunk before and have made the conscience decision to not sleep with someone. You're friend cannot legitamately be angry with you and not her because she did decide to go home with you. But then again if you knew that your friend was interested, that was a pretty shitty thing to do to him.. Best advice is to keep your hands clean and not worry what others think of you...and not sleep with your friends dates. Shouldn't this be a post under "ask sunshine?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FeetFlyer 0 #3 February 23, 2003 The thing is I talked to the guy who previously had fooled around with the girl and he was ok with it.. it's the other friend whom I'm mad at cause she accused me of being someone I'm not. To quote Christina A. I felt dirrty. I offered her the drink because she had nothing to drink and I wanted to talk to her some more.. that was all, I had no other motives at that point. The fact that we slept together was maybe unnecessary but not something I had planned. well well enough of this.. this time I'll really go to bed. Good night to you all! <> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skygal3 0 #4 February 23, 2003 Don't worry about 1 drink. If you slipped something into it, then worry. If you intentionally kept refreshing her drink to get her drunk, worry about it. If she told you one drink and she is hornier than a jack rabbit- worry about it..you're friend that offered her opinion has no just cause to assume anything. She is probably jealous at most. Let it go- it will pass in a weeks time. Unless you did something outside of your ethical boundaries, don't worry about others opinions. -mom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jmpnkramer 0 #5 February 23, 2003 Quote***Best advice is to keep your hands clean and not worry what others think of you*** I agree with Skygal3 here. If you worry about what others think of you it just brings undo stress into your life. If you do not have a problem with what happened then it is cool. Maybe the other female likes you and is Jealeous. Who knows. Like my Colonel says " Women have snakes in their heads. Don't try to understand them!! " Rest easy my man you did nada wrong. Blue Skies & Long Safe Swoops!!! KramerThe REAL KRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMER! "HESITATION CAUSES DEATH!!!" "Be Slow to Fall into Friendship; but when Thou Art in, Continue Firm & Constant." - SOCRATES Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ladyskydiver 0 #6 February 23, 2003 I agree with SkyGal3. From what you posted, you did nothing wrong.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites outofit 0 #7 February 23, 2003 don't feel bad we of the male gender have all been in that position at one time or the other! just remember shit happens! It is better to be dead and cool than alive and uncool! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites bodypilot90 0 #8 February 23, 2003 Quote I agree with SkyGal3. From what you posted, you did nothing wrong. I agree too Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Faber 0 #9 February 23, 2003 you did one thing wrong...you bourgth her 1 cider..Next time buy it to your self so you dont get thouse twisted thourgths..Belive it or not girls can actualy think self..If she desided to sleep whith you,then both of you got what you wanted.Dont worry much about the others,they are just jaloux Stay safe Stefan Faber Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
ladyskydiver 0 #6 February 23, 2003 I agree with SkyGal3. From what you posted, you did nothing wrong.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
outofit 0 #7 February 23, 2003 don't feel bad we of the male gender have all been in that position at one time or the other! just remember shit happens! It is better to be dead and cool than alive and uncool! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bodypilot90 0 #8 February 23, 2003 Quote I agree with SkyGal3. From what you posted, you did nothing wrong. I agree too Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Faber 0 #9 February 23, 2003 you did one thing wrong...you bourgth her 1 cider..Next time buy it to your self so you dont get thouse twisted thourgths..Belive it or not girls can actualy think self..If she desided to sleep whith you,then both of you got what you wanted.Dont worry much about the others,they are just jaloux Stay safe Stefan Faber Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
