magic sex numbers??

[lewmonst 0]

i don't want to start a debate or make you feel you need to defend yourself or your views. luckily in this country we all have a right to an opinion. i respect that. And i think we just see here that my views are different from yours.

that's why i seek to surround myself with people who don't play games. the world is full of players.
if you think the person you're involved with can't handle the truth, then you do not respect them. that's just how i see it.
if that were the case with me, i would do us both a favor and find someone who was my equal.

the outcome is certain, we will all die eventually. "the question is not whether we will die, but how we will live"

it's all good...

peace

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[yardhippie 0]

hey Im with you here... no offense at all... I like it when someone challenges me... It really makes me look at my perspective...

No really... Im not talking about playing games... but life in general. Because thats how I live.. and how I look at life... Its not just a mess of events. Cause and effect.... your actions affect you future... and you must plan for the future, stratigize if you will. (let me know if im rambling, alcohol taking effect)

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[TB99 0]

Nice quote at the end
I'm with you and the others on this side ... it's my choice, as is everyone else's to do as they please, so it's really a moot point arguing about which is better since it won't change anyone's views anyways!

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[Skyrose7 0]

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Cause and effect.... your actions affect you future...

and so you see, those lies that are told will catch up to the liar and take their toll eventually.
..or you could just say what goes around comes around. Your actions definately will affect you in the future.

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[freefallfreak 0]

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Said the man with NO numbers!!

BWAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!

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[TB99 0]

Just thought of something ...
What about that old rule we've all heard:

Whatever the girl says, multiply by 3; whatever the guy says, divide by 3.

Wouldn't that now make the magic number 3?

Yea, I stopped askin that stupid question a while ago ... and if a girl asks me that question, I know I shouldn't be having sex with her anyways then. Used to not care, but nowadays, the only sex I have is with a girl that I've at least built some kind of relationship with (no more 1-nighters for me).

Trailer 11/12 was the best. Thanks for the memories ... you guys rocked!

[jtval 0]

what movie was that? mall rats?

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[TB99 0]

American Pie ... I think it was part 2 (the one with the party in the house on the beach).

Trailer 11/12 was the best. Thanks for the memories ... you guys rocked!

[Skyrose7 0]

just for the record (since I started this post), it is not a question I ask. Though, I don't think that if you are seriously involved with someone that there is anything wrong with wanting to know that information. not that you would get a real number anyway....

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[skycat 0]

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ok. I have encountered a few men lately that when talking about how many partners they have had, they think.... and then said 9. NOw, I found out that one of the guys definately had more than that, and I suspect the other one did too. Is 9 the magic number for guys who have had a lot of partners but don't want to seem like they have? Ya know, under ten, but still up there. just wonderin...

Maybe they ment 9 in the last year.....that is how most of the guys I know are.

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[weid14 0]

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ok. I have encountered a few men lately that when talking about how many partners they have had, they think.... and then said 9. NOw, I found out that one of the guys definately had more than that, and I suspect the other one did too. Is 9 the magic number for guys who have had a lot of partners but don't want to seem like they have? Ya know, under ten, but still up there. just wonderin...

Maybe they ment 9 in the last year.....that is how most of the guys I know are.

well, it takes two, right? so wouldn't the numbers be similar (or are there a few really tired women out there?

[skycat 0]

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ok. I have encountered a few men lately that when talking about how many partners they have had, they think.... and then said 9. NOw, I found out that one of the guys definately had more than that, and I suspect the other one did too. Is 9 the magic number for guys who have had a lot of partners but don't want to seem like they have? Ya know, under ten, but still up there. just wonderin...

Maybe they ment 9 in the last year.....that is how most of the guys I know are.

well, it takes two, right? so wouldn't the numbers be similar (or are there a few really tired women out there?

Hey but we aren't talking about women here.

Fly it like you stole it!

[happythoughts 0]

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I like the second one slim but hey women arent totally honest either....they most likely will tell how many boyfriends they have been with however rarely at least the ones I know will they tell about all the one nighters as well so its not just us...hehe

Have you seen "Clerks" ? The guy asks for the number and she says 4. Then she says she doesn't count BJs. The new number is 37. The rest of the movie, his buddy walks around saying "37 ? Damn..." Womens numbers are always way higher. The important question is "how careful" not "how many". The women who worry me are the ones who drink and then can't recall the evening. They make poor choices that can impact me.

There seems to be an undertone that to be a "nice guy/girl", you only have sex during relationships. I don't think that is the case for either sex. I totally disagree that you are somehow bad or a lesser person because you want to play some.

Relationships are great, honesty is great. I think that most people involve themselves in something fun while they are searching for Mr/Miss Perfect.

For as much bandwidth as I see about relationships, I see more interest in the quickie-fun stuff. If people want to talk about honesty... What did we really want ? It's not one answer for everyone. I'm not judgemental about other peoples choices.