blondeflyer7 0 #1 May 9, 2003 Ok now its my turn for a couple of questions???? 1. Are you more relaxed and seem to talk and get along with people on the Dz.com? 2. If you say "ok man I'm going out and gonna have some fun and drink beer and get drunk" does it seem to always happen the way you say them? 3. If I was to meet you in person is it the same person I talk with on a daily basis? I got in a arguement with someone about this last night and another friend told me he is really shy and would be kinda stand-offish if someone he doesn't know comes up to speak to them. The real reason for this is I was called a drunk and I go out everytime I get a chance and that I'm a Bad mother and should be at home more....the problem with this is the person I argued with knows nothing about me, he hasn't been around me in 2 years now,except for calls and passing through to exchange my daughter, so what does he know I do..When I have my daughter I never ever even think of doing these things I'm being accused of.And btw....I AM a good mother and he needs to get a life, and quite dwelling on mine. And last but not least quit TROLLING in here Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michele 1 #2 May 9, 2003 QuoteI AM a good mother Yes, Darlin', you are. Ciels- Michele ~Do Angels keep the dreams we seek While our hearts lie bleeding?~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viking 0 #4 May 9, 2003 If he is watching GET A FUCKING LIFE YOU SCUM BAG!!!!! Becky you are a good mother judging on how you take care of your daughter. Your always playing with her and watching her, so much so that its hard for me to flirt with you!! Do you think we could work in some more flirting time? I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver My God has a bigger dick than your god -George Carlin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freakous 0 #5 May 9, 2003 It sounds as if you are not with him for a reason, therefore does it matter what he thinks of you. He is likely just trying to hurt you, be strong and don't let him:-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blondeflyer7 0 #6 May 9, 2003 If she's around I focus only on her.....but she takes naps and goes to sleep so I will flirt then Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blondeflyer7 0 #7 May 9, 2003 QuoteIt sounds as if you are not with him for a reason, therefore does it matter what he thinks of you. He is likely just trying to hurt you, be strong and don't let him:-) I am strong....the things I've been through in the last couple of years but..a year later he is still obsessing.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viking 0 #8 May 9, 2003 Sweeeeeeeet!! I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver My God has a bigger dick than your god -George Carlin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
beemertec 0 #9 May 9, 2003 Well, you already know my answers but here goes. 1. I am a little bit more relaxed on DZ.com, but in general I am a people person and I am comfortable in most surroundings, even with perfect strangers. 2. Usually but not always 3. Yes Blue Skies Steve Ok, so it's pink, but I'm secure in my manhood, and I still look cool coming in under it! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blondeflyer7 0 #10 May 9, 2003 QuoteWell, you already know my answers but here goes. 1. I am a little bit more relaxed on DZ.com, but in general I am a people person and I am comfortable in most surroundings, even with perfect strangers. 2. Usually but not always 3. Yes Yes you are a perfect example of someone who that preiceve. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #11 May 9, 2003 OK Becky, and the rest of you that may be surprised if/when you meet me: Quote1. Are you more relaxed and seem to talk and get along with people on the Dz.com? Vs. face to face meetings with total strangers? I am much more relaxed here. Those I have met here, then later met in person? Well, I am actually quite shy at first. I'm kind of a loner. I tend to wander off by myself, even at large gatherings (WFFC was a good example) until I get to know some people better. Note: If you want to know more about me, before meeting, I'm quite open and honest, in PM'S! Take what is posted publicly with a grain of salt, and that goes for probably 99% of the people posting here. Quote2. If you say "ok man I'm going out and gonna have some fun and drink beer and get drunk" does it seem to always happen the way you say them? Usually not. I say exactly that, then end up having 3 or 4, chilling, and driving everyone else home. Not that I don't have fun, I LOVE going out. I just enjoy myself as much with 2 or 3 drinks as I do with a case. Quote3. If I was to meet you in person is it the same person I talk with on a daily basis? As I stated above, nope. It's close, really close, what I post here in the forums, but the real me is much closer to what you would read in PM.It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deuce 1 #12 May 9, 2003 I dunno, come to Perris and write a critique! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #13 May 9, 2003 This coming from a single mother who can totally relate. 1. Yes, I do let my guard down when among friends and i consider most of those here friends. That said realize that anything said here is up for view by all here and can be percieved in any way the viewer sees fit. If he is here to try and catch you doing wrong he can turn anything around to suit that need. 2. Yes, I think we are all in charge of our lives and are capable of choosing how we live them. Mothers especially tend to live our lives around or family, but again that is our choice. 3. I think I am pretty much the same. I'm middle age and definitely no Miss America so it is easier to talk with someone with the internet between you because you don't get all that "how do I look?" crap between you, but you miss so many of the personal emotions. Hang in there and do what you know is right. In the end that is all any of us can do. Love your daughter and don't dwell on something you can't change in someone else. If he chooses to spend his life dwelling on your percieved short comings his life is pathetic and you are much better than that. PM me or give me a call if you need an ear. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyDekker 1,465 #14 May 9, 2003 Jim, you and I are scarily alike. I guess we'll both be the guys standing in a corner, observing at the WFFC. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #15 May 9, 2003 Find me there. I'll show ya round. It's my second WFFC so I think I'll relax a bit more. In general though, I am kinda shy at first. Now, if someone I already know introduces me to a new person, I hold back just a little, until I can get a read on thier personality. After that short time, I kinda know what I can and cannot get away with. For example, my conversations with Sunshine probably wouldn't go over well with Jessica, and the conversations with Clay may not be a good idea with Bill Von. I can usually get a good read on people, and naturally know where the line is, and try to not cross it.It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyDekker 1,465 #16 May 9, 2003 Quote Find me there. I'll show ya round. It's my second WFFC so I think I'll relax a bit more. In general though, I am kinda shy at first. Kewl, yeah I am pretty shy at first too. In my past people have mistaken it for arrogance, but it is just shyness. I really have nothing to be arrogant about Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #17 May 9, 2003 Quote Quote Find me there. I'll show ya round. It's my second WFFC so I think I'll relax a bit more. In general though, I am kinda shy at first. Kewl, yeah I am pretty shy at first too. In my past people have mistaken it for arrogance, but it is just shyness. I really have nothing to be arrogant about Ok, you two...if I make it to WFFC this year, you won't be just hanging around in the corner. I don't let my friends do that. I'm sassy enough I'll drag you around making sure you end up talking with people. Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #18 May 9, 2003 Yea, but, if everything works out very well between now and then, I'll know you, and your team, really well, so I won't be in the corner anyway! Seriously, it's awfully hard to stand in the corner with that much free beer. Actually, with that much free beer, it's just plain hard to stand!It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,589 #19 May 9, 2003 Here's another single mother (although he's just about an adult now). 1. I'm myself. I'm much more talkative online than I am in person usually, but I don't think I let my guard down any more in person than online -- that's why I'm quiet 2. You are in charge of your life. Consider the shelter test -- you could always run away from everything and go live in a shelter. you choose not to. Obviously I think that's the right choice, but it really is a choice. You make your community and your life. And Lisa -- you're not middle-aged. Because if you're middle aged, then I'm old, and I"m not old!. You're a great mother. Your ex hasn't learned to let go, and that's his problem that he's exporting to you. Usually it's the mom who won't let the dad be different, but in this case you're obviously getting the short end of the stick. I'll let you in on a secret. My son went to live with his dad when he turned 14, but I insisted on spending every Thursday evening with him, and made sure I was available for rides, doctor appointments, and all the inconvenient stuff. In the long run (adolescence was tough!) we have a really wonderful relationship. Really wonderful. Just be yourself -- you're great! and let your daughter be herself, and learn her own lessons. And if you need to scream at someone, there's a whole bunch of people here who understand -- never bad-talk her dad to your daughter. Your tongue might bleed sometime, but never. Wendy W. There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Scrumpot 1 #20 May 9, 2003 Quote And last but not least quit TROLLING in here Troll ALL YOU WANT baby, that's what THESE (Gen'l talk-back etc category) forums are for! ...Now if you were "hangin' out" saying "hi -howya doin" all over say the incidents forum, well then THAT would be a different story. But till then, and we certainly don't see you doing that, you are just FINE! As far as the "bad mother" thing... Until ANYONE has walked a mile in your own shoes they can put a sock in it! I would not give anyones TRASH talk a second thought. Only YOU know for your own situation the applicability of your maternal skills. Oh yeah, and as for your questions... I am actually more approachable, and affable in person. People say I can seem to be "abrasive" sometimes strictly in writing. Oh well... F*** 'em! My motto. Blue Skyz, -Grantcoitus non circum - Moab Stone Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #21 May 10, 2003 QuoteJim, you and I are scarily alike. I guess we'll both be the guys standing in a corner, observing at the WFFC. I finally get to meet my online chat buddy and you think i'm gonna let you stand in the corner?! NOT. You're gonna be partying with me and causing mucho nig noggery!! ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blondeflyer7 0 #22 May 10, 2003 Quote Quote And last but not least quit TROLLING in here Troll ALL YOU WANT baby, That last troll statement was for only one person and if he lurks....maybe he'll get the hint and leave....probably not its in him to try and think in his head that he is in control and cannot be touched....Oh well as the old saying goes what goes around comes around...he'll get it back ten times more one day Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
