bmcd308 0 #1 May 28, 2003 OK, me and Princess Whuffo have been having more than our share of problems lately, and I was trying to figure out how to get out, and she tells me that she does not think either of us is happy and that we should take some time off. Pretty cool, huh? I don't have to be the bad guy, and now there is a good chance that I will be able to remain friends with a pretty cool chick (for a whuffo). BMcD... ---------------------------------- www.jumpelvis.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casch 0 #2 May 28, 2003 careful about the staying friends part. My last 3 girlfriends are still "friends" and I can't friggin stand them! They're annoying and I can't force myself to tell them to F' off. The worst part is they're hot...damn...I need to find myself a hot skychick like...Daizey Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FliegendeWolf 0 #3 May 28, 2003 Nah...now that he's unattached he'll be spending every weekend at the dropzone. They won't even get a chance to bug him.A One that Isn't Cold is Scarcely a One at All Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jlmiracle 7 #4 May 28, 2003 Oh my, trouble in paradise. Remaining friends all depends on if either party is the jealous type and can really take a "break". Don't you kinda have to remain "friends" being you both work at the same place, or has that changed. JudyBe kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bmcd308 0 #5 May 28, 2003 Well, I can definitely take a break. We still work at the same place. I think it is going to be OK. She basically just realized that we don't want the same things. Oddly, I think that watching "Good Stuff" helped make it happen. There is a part in there where one of the guys from Airspeed says something to the effect of "If you want to sit home on the couch with the remote, then go big. That's just not my thing." I think that when Alicia saw that, it helped illustrate the differences between us. She never wants to try anything new, and I am the type who seeks out new experiences. Results in trouble with vacation planning, weekend planning, etc. BMcD... ---------------------------------- www.jumpelvis.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bmcd308 0 #6 May 28, 2003 Can they be dated as a unit? If so, I'll galdly take them off your hands... ---------------------------------- www.jumpelvis.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jlmiracle 7 #7 May 28, 2003 She always seemed very not-psyco - you'll be fine, she will be fine - now you won't get in trouble any more when you stay late at the DZ, but tell her we still have that pool out there if she wants to come hang out. Judy edited to add- At least it wasn't another jumping intervention.Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Laurel 0 #8 May 28, 2003 Why is it that people who do the breaking up refer to themselves as the "bad guy"? To me, the "bad guy" is the one staying in the relationship and sabatoging it until the other does the breaking up. That, to me, causes more pain than just being honest...................................................................... PMS#28, Pelogrande Rodriguez#1074 My Pink M Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casch 0 #9 May 28, 2003 Um, well...hehe, two of them are best friends! I went from one right to the other, and they didn't mind at all...mmmm Too bad I couldn't convince them to do a 3some. Although I have seen them kiss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #10 May 28, 2003 Quote too bad I couldn't convince them to do a 3some They probably did and you weren't invited...Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casch 0 #11 May 28, 2003 No! Say it isn't so! Eh, oh well. They are both whuffo's anyway...yall can have 'em Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bmcd308 0 #12 May 28, 2003 I wasn't sabotaging it. I just knew it was never going to grow into something bigger for longer than she did. If I had ended it while she still had hope that it was going somewhere, she definitely would have thought of me as the bad guy. ---------------------------------- www.jumpelvis.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Laurel 0 #13 May 28, 2003 For me, I would rather a guy tell me that he didn't see our relationship going anywhere and he was ready to break things off so I didn't waste my time. That doesn't mean it wouldn't be painful, but at least I would know. That's just me, though; everyone is different. I didn't mean to sound like you were sabatoging your relationship - I meant people in general. Sorry...................................................................... PMS#28, Pelogrande Rodriguez#1074 My Pink M Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bmcd308 0 #14 May 28, 2003 No problem. Incidentally, there are relationships that are never going anywhere and both people know it and stick with it. It is OK to be human and want comfort and convenience sometimes, even if the whole time you know that someday it will have to change. Brent ---------------------------------- www.jumpelvis.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MochaSkyChick 0 #15 May 28, 2003 I have to agree with Laurel. If two people aren’t into a relationship they should go their separate ways. Even if it’s a one sided thing where one person is into it, the person who is not into it should make it known. Trying to spare feelings only makes it worse in the end. You have a better chance of “really” staying friends if you just make it known. I would definitely rather have a guy tell me I wasn’t in his future than to try and spare me heartache. PMS #62 Zarza R[red Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
