bityabee 0 #1 July 24, 2003 Aloha from Ocean Grove, NJ - Trying to find my cousin Chanda Gunter. - Our Grandmother passed away and no one knows where she is. Not only to find out if she is even Alive, but Unlce Jim needs her to finalize the estate. {Since I'm the "non-morman" non-judgemental family member, hopefully she will feel free to call me or email me and let me know at least that she is alive - I just lost a very good friend's daughter to heroine and my biggest fear is finding Chanda dead rather than alive}. If anyone has any information that could help locate her, please feel free to email me. Chanda - if you see this - I love you and I miss you! - I haven't seen you in years, but I know your life has been filled with difficulty (mild way of putting it right?) Please know that you can call me (917-328-5003) or email me bityabee@yahoo.com - or call your Uncle Jim anytime, if you need his phone number just call me. He'd kill me if I listed it here. *lol* Mahalo and Aloha from a former Maui resident, Cindy Lou! p.s. the attachment is a picture of me and Winnie in Maui - couldn't figure out how to put it under my logon name bityabee. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freefalle 0 #2 July 24, 2003 I've had some success locating people. I might be able to help you. what is her fill name first middle last. and date of birth a social security # would be helpful if you have it. you can email me with this info its probably better than posting it here email blueskies2some@aol.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bityabee 0 #3 July 24, 2003 her Full Name is Chanda Kathleen Gunter - BD: 11-14-73 she was last married to a Kenneth E. Everett - BD: 7/1/59 - aslo skydiver - he broke his collar bone in January and was talking about moving to Florida, so maybe you have met....?? He is no longer at his last address, and his phone number is assigned to another family recently.... Would love to speak with him, but I know that's a very sore subject for him, and I don't want to intrude on his privacy. But am feeling desparate for more than one reason, as he would know. Can't give out her SSN to anyone, but have contacts that are working with that too. Thank you sooooo much for your reply, and if you hear anything please don't hesitate to call or write, or post. Mahalo and ALoha, Cindy Lou Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freefalle 0 #4 July 24, 2003 what was his last know address? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bityabee 0 #5 July 24, 2003 Will email you with more information. (I think I already did, but not sure if it actually went through) Mahalo and Aloha, Cindy Lou!. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
indyz 1 #6 July 24, 2003 Hey Cindy Lou, I want to preface this by saying that I have no reason to believe that you are lying, or that you have anything other than the best intentions. That said... It is generally considered bad Internet etiquette to give out personal information about somebody over the web, simply because we have no way to verify that you are who you say you are. However, I am sure that if somebody out there knows how to contact Chanda, they will give her your email address so that she can get ahold you if she so desires. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bityabee 0 #7 July 24, 2003 Aloha Brian - Thank you for saying that = however if you notice - I gave out my information also - this is a desparate situaltion, as drugs are involved in her life, and I have tried all other avenues, and still am - The information I gave out is public information that can be located anywhere on the web - and I did not give out her SSN, however that too can be found if someone wants to. I hesitated to give out her full name and birthday - as well as Kenny's = but in the skydiving community someone should be helpful, not critical of the situation. Imagine yourself trying to locate someone for a year that you love and care about, and cannot be located. If this was a last resort , what would you do? Anyway -= just so you, or anyone else wishes to check MY NAME is CINDY LOU LUGO - BD 10-11-1957 (website with photos: http://www.geocities.com/bityabee/ Exballet dancer, ballet teacher, Actress, musician and 167 IQ in logic.... so have at it anyone... I"m asking in all sincereity for help, and if you want to criticize "etiquette" I would say you are out of line. As long as there are people who care and are willing to help, then I hope they email me privately with any information. If you need to check on me or call first, feel free. Mahalo and Aloha and All the Sky to you, Cindy Lou! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bityabee 0 #8 July 24, 2003 P.S. - no one needs to verify anything = If chanda sees this I think she will know it's me, and call - or if you know her and are not sure of who I am, just ask her. Silly goose! Aloha again, Cindy Lou Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jmpnkramer 0 #9 July 24, 2003 I live in Florida and do travelling. If she is a skydiver I have not seen or heard of anyone by that name. I sure hope you find her. Take care, Keith (KRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMER!!!!!!!!!!!)The REAL KRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMER! "HESITATION CAUSES DEATH!!!" "Be Slow to Fall into Friendship; but when Thou Art in, Continue Firm & Constant." - SOCRATES Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydivr000 0 #10 July 24, 2003 I NOTIFIED HER EX (KENNY) TODAY (THURSDAY). HE IS GOING TO ATTEMPT TO CONTACT HER PARENTS AND TALK TO THEM.. THE LAST HE HEARD SHE WAS STILL IN MARYLAND. HOPE THAT HELPS. GARY DAUSCH Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bityabee 0 #11 July 24, 2003 Thank you - Kenny just called this morning. He hasn't heard from her, but it was great speaking with him. You're an Angel and a half... Mahalo and Aloha, Cindy Lou Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bityabee 0 #12 July 28, 2003 Thank you for all your help everyone - we heard from Chanda on Saturday and I am very grateful. Mahalo and Aloha, Cindy Lou! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites