pyke 0 #1 August 29, 2003 Okay - I got into this discussion with an "out" there bi/lesbian the other day, and it raised my curiousity about the "rest" of the world, so I thought I'd ask you all for your perspectives. Are sororities (& fraternaties too, for the men who lurk) nothing more than a greek institution for sexual experimentation in a safe, welcoming environment at a key stage in life?? My friend said that she "worked her way through her sorority" during college, and that it was never discussed in open, yet - everyone she did it with approached her about it. (she referred to them as "LUGS" and "BUGS" - Lesbian Until Grad'n, and Bi Until Grad'n) And, she didn't go to a liberal, big city university...she went to a well-known, conservative, state (still big though) univerisity. My sister is "out" and her partner has confided many times that she specifically chose an all-women's university for the increased possibilities. Even going so far as to say that at one stage she lived on a floor of all gays and they had an orgy one night in the common room!!! Is this as common as they make it out to sound?? There wasn't a greek life where I went to school, but my time spent at a US university has brought further wonder into this "phenomenon". I could totally buy it if it were the case - knowing who I've known in greek org's. Your thoughts....??? Kahurangi e Mahearangi, Kiwi, RB #926, AFF-I, FAA Snr. Rigger, RN/BSN/Paramedic Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflybella 0 #2 August 29, 2003 Wow! Too many "Girls Gone Wild" videos, fo' shizzle! Action expresses priority. - Mahatma Ghandi Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fozchek 0 #3 August 29, 2003 What did you think those pillow fights would escalate to? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pyke 0 #4 August 29, 2003 Here it is...!! QuoteWhat did you think those pillow fights would escalate to? As if you already didn't intrique me enough, fozchek... you have to go and mess with mind like this!! figured I would bump this back up, but I guess I've run into the "don't ask, don't tell" side of the secret sorority/fraternity lifestyle!! Kahurangi e Mahearangi, Kiwi, RB #926, AFF-I, FAA Snr. Rigger, RN/BSN/Paramedic Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casie 0 #5 August 29, 2003 This is the 1st I'm hearing about any of these...................interesting!~Porn Kitty WARNING: Goldschlager causes extreme emotional outbursts! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kiltboy 0 #6 August 29, 2003 Ask her if she knows of Smith College in Northampton, MA. David Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bmcd308 0 #7 August 29, 2003 Unfortunately, the sorority girls at Vanderbilt were not all doing each other in wild orgies when I was there. It was all we guys could do to get them to do us one at a time. BMcD... ---------------------------------- www.jumpelvis.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pyke 0 #8 August 29, 2003 don't know if she "knows" about Smith College, but she went to a school that has been absorbed by another here in GA. Pretty much the last place I'd expect something like this to happen, but I guess that is why people join the convent!! I mean - it's not like this is a new idea, or anything! I guess it's all in how you look at it! Kahurangi e Mahearangi, Kiwi, RB #926, AFF-I, FAA Snr. Rigger, RN/BSN/Paramedic Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wingnut 0 #9 August 30, 2003 ask jessica, i hear se went to an all girls school... or maybe that ws a school very close to hers.... not sure..... i know i have a friend in a sorority and i asked her about this and she said nothing of the sort goes on in hers.. ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WrongWay 0 #10 August 30, 2003 Dude, I was at OSU, and I have video (somewhere) of three of the girls in my dorm getting it on out on the floor of the dorm hallway. Needless to say, with a bit of scratchy music, and a few different angles, it was a classic beer party vid for the next couple months....... Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyAnt 0 #11 August 30, 2003 Not sure how well this relates but anyway. My ex-girlfriend and her life long best friend went to a very exclusive high school/prep school for 'young ladies'. They would always give each other a very passionate hug and kiss upon greeting. I'm sure you know what I mean. A little too long to be a standard 'hello kiss' but not long enough to be a 'oh he comes the carpet munchers kiss'. I never said anything because to be honest it kind of turned me on. At one point down the track we reached a certain stage of honesty in the relationship and I queried her about this. She said they had never actually done it but promised each other if they were going to they would do it together. Same rules would apply to three-ways with a guy etc. Apparently I was an option but my girlfriend didn't want to. I respected that however. But man, I was ...that close! "All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." Edmund Burke (1729-1797) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
