spunkywallaby 0 #1 September 15, 2003 am i abnormal ? i'm only 22 but im thinking of getting married and have children. because when a child calls 'daddy' , it's so beautiful. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adamjenner 0 #2 September 15, 2003 nah...not abnormal...just crazy haha why would it be abnormal???? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spunkywallaby 0 #3 September 15, 2003 abnormal because i think people get married when they are much older and not around 22. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CloudOnMyTongue 0 #4 September 15, 2003 Who cares what other people do. Do what you want to do. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 273 #5 September 15, 2003 QuoteWho cares what other people do. Do what you want to do. Yeah. I agree 100%. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #6 September 15, 2003 Being a parent is wonderful. It's fine to marry someone while you're young, just make sure it's someone you'll be able to stand for a very long time. Getting divorced when you have kids sucks.She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spunkywallaby 0 #7 September 15, 2003 sorry to ask, but why does it suck ? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nightjumps 1 #8 September 15, 2003 QuoteI'm thinking of getting married and have children. because when a child calls, 'Daddy,' its so beautiful You would be getting married for the wrong reasons. Its more beautiful when you fall in love and a by-product of that is marriage and children. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #9 September 15, 2003 Ditto what Keith just said. Good advice. _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #10 September 15, 2003 Quotesorry to ask, but why does it suck ? Very simple.. its VERY VERY hard to not have the children suffer... tugging between the father and his desires... and the mothers desires.... on how and what is the best way to raise the children with SOME amount of continuity between the two housholds. Think of Visitation... custody.... it can be a very demoralizing thing for the parents who are divorced and are moving on with thier life.. and the children who just want to be a normal family with thier mother AND thier father. Then you get step parents involded in the mix... petty jealousies... you name it. I guess for some people its easier than for others but it certainly complicates your life. Being a parent is a wonderful thing....BUT it does have its challenging moments and divorce just complicates it further. Most of the time it is NOT for the better. Amazon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drewboo 0 #11 September 15, 2003 Quoteam i abnormal ? i'm only 22 but im thinking of getting married and have children. because when a child calls 'daddy' , it's so beautiful. I don't think ive ever heard a more lame reason. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
trumpetfish 0 #12 September 15, 2003 look inside, try to identify the need in you that you are wanting to satisfy (that you think having a child will accomplish). then decide. alternatively, forget the idea and go skydiving. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #13 September 15, 2003 look at it like this... How many jumps does a La Maz class cost? How many Hop & Pops can you do for a months worth of diapers... J/k I was young when my daughter came along. (About 22) It is a life changing deal no matter how you look at it. What ever you do, don't be hasty in the decision.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
