Newbie 0 #51 October 6, 2003 Quote I don't get why I read so much about people cheating on eachother. Here's the question for the skydivers. If you're S.O. cheats on you, what do you do and why? that's weird - i didn't post this. Does anyone know why this post has appeared in my name? Newbie "Skydiving is a door" Happythoughts Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tonto 1 #52 October 6, 2003 Quote why do I always end up dating assholes? Nightingale "we tend to pick the same people every time... " jumpinjackflashIt's the year of the Pig. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WrongWay 0 #53 October 6, 2003 Suz, I know how you feel. I always had trust issues because of ex's. The best thing to do, and I know it's easier said than done, is to realize that the person you're going for is not the person who hurt you. As hard as it is, you need to trust that new person. Otherwise, you could be shorting a great person of a fair chance. Good luck to you. Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
juanesky 0 #54 October 6, 2003 Cheating is something no one is immune to. We all have either done it, or been victims on it, not talking only about SO cheating only.... In relationships, what we are driven to forget is the fact of commitment, those who defend cheating for whatever reason lack the courage to be honest to themselves, and not realize the self gratitude and egotistical behaviour. This is one of the reasons divorces are so high, for at the first uncomfortable sign they are already willing to bail out. Trust is the base on any relationship, without it then there is no reason to have a relationship. If you don't believe someone, ask. If you catch them lying, they will break this bond and it is hard to recover, however worthy to try if you care about them. If you know that this person is faulty from the beginning, IE drug user, alcoholic, violent, etc, and your intention was to change this person from the begining, you would be in as much fault and should fess up to the task you take responsibility. It is a lot easier said than done but it is not impossible. It makes life a lot easier, and even easier to weed those who are probably there for the wrong reasons. There is no need for anyone to proof anything when they are honest. Seek and accept someone because you feel good about them, and you care about them, but if you are single unattached and have a casual date don't be to harsh on yourself... Blue skies..........."According to some of the conservatives here, it sounds like it's fine to beat your wide - as long as she had it coming." -Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brits17 0 #55 October 6, 2003 Quote that's weird - i didn't post this. Does anyone know why this post has appeared in my name? Newbie lol, that sucks, its happened to me before and i beat his ass... not mentioning any names levin, ooooooops _______________________ aerialkinetics.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dumpster 0 #56 October 6, 2003 Some define "cheating" in different ways, but we're not here to get into semantics - I've been both the "cheated" and the "cheater" in the typical definition - I'm no angel. There's as many reasons for some one to "cheat" as there are people. And as many reactions. Most of the time it hurts like hell. Sometimes it comes as a big relief, beleive it or not. For some it's like taking that first step off the aircraft. (Remember that?) What would be the difference (if any) between a drawn-out torrid love affair, and an evening of drunk indescretion? For you who have been less than faithful, what did it feel like the morning after? How did you face your SO afterwards? Was it "worth it" for the both of you? Not looking for answers neccesarily, just some food for thought. Easy Does It Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #57 October 6, 2003 Quote What would be the difference (if any) between a drawn-out torrid love affair, and an evening of drunk indescretion? Feelings. I'm more capable to accept my shortcomings in the bedroom area than I am to accept my shortcomings as a human being. Seeking out somebody because I'm not good enough, smart enough, they don't like me, etc would really hurt. Seeking out somebody because they want to feel bigger boobs wouldn't really hurt me (I would just think they're dumb.)There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jump4Joy 0 #58 October 8, 2003 It depends... if it was a one-night drunken mistake or an ongoing "affair." I think I could forgive a one-time mistake but it would take a while for me to trust him again. But then it all boils down to commitment. If he's not committed, then out he goes, right next to yesterday's trash. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WrongWay 0 #59 October 8, 2003 I can be committed!!!! REALLY committed!!!!! Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McDuck 0 #60 October 8, 2003 Quote I can be committed!!!! REALLY committed!!!!! Straight-jacket and all? Kevin - Sonic Beef #5 - OrFun #28 "I never take myself too seriously, 'cuz everybody know fat birds don't fly." - FLC Online communities: proof that people never mature much past high school. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WrongWay 0 #61 October 8, 2003 Quote Quote I can be committed!!!! REALLY committed!!!!! Straight-jacket and all? Yeah, but only if they leave me enough room to scratch my nose. Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
