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freeflir29

Gimme some vibes!!!

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I'm gonna need them. I go to court on Monday and I am realizing more and more each day what an IDIOT my current attorney is. I have only been waiting 5 years for this day and at this point I'm fairly sure I'm screwed. See.....my attorney "forgot" to mention that I had to provide copies of EVERY single document that I plan on presenting to the court in advance to the opposition. Her assistant called me today around 430 PM (I had been driving for 9 hours and I was still 2-3 from home) and asked if I could fax her copies of the documents. I said "Sure.....I'll do what I can." Not thinking about the fact that, just a guess as I look over my shoulder at the stack, there are probably 1000 pages and 10 photos that I wanted to introduce. Is it illegal to lynch lawyers and or ex-wives? (Joking....only joking) :D So....give me some humor.....I have to hold my temper. Not sure how I'm going to accomplish that. I'm going to have to take that job in Iraq just so I can go "legally" shoot some people and get out my frustrations. :S

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Sending you vibes (I have the tools to do that!;)) and hugs. I know you've been waiting for this for what seems like an eternity (I know the feeling!) but lawyers are postponing trials all the time for this very reason. And sometimes you don't have to wait that long - just 2 weeks or so. Any chance you could do that so you come as prepared as possible? I don't know any of the circumstances of your case (who is filing, what grounds, who's asking for what) but most divorce judges have seen it all and can tell when someone is lying. So if she's asking for shit she doesn't deserve or lying about something, the judge will probably see right through it. Good luck.


Fall in dove.

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That's a tough one chief. It seems that you are goind to the supreme court...but hey, <<<<<<>>>>>>>>>>>

and lets wait for Ivan to post some boobies and booties 4 u...B|
"According to some of the conservatives here, it sounds like it's fine to beat your wide - as long as she had it coming." -Billvon

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Sounds like you need the extra deluxe ones. Rich divorce lawyers make their money off keeping people as pissed off at each other as possible. Good ones make it through volume instead -- people who came off easy will refer their lawyers (anyone need a reference in Houston, mine was very biddable).

So here are some mega-extra-deluxe vibes!

Wendy W.
There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown)

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Nope....been divorced for 6+ years now. No divorce lawyer. I'm trying to get custody of my son. The way the courts are today it's looking like the only way I could do that is a shotgun and fast airplane. Oh well....I have to work tomorrow. Let me go lay in bed and get no sleep cause I'm pissed off. >:( Hope the terrorists take a day off tomorrow. Somehow I don't think my mind will be on work.

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I thought divorce lawyers handled custody -- I knew the divorce part was over. That so totally sucks.

Wendy W.
There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown)

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Just out of curitosity what state, and on what grounds your are seeking for custody?

I wish you luck, and what is best for your son too.

Blue skies my friend
"According to some of the conservatives here, it sounds like it's fine to beat your wide - as long as she had it coming." -Billvon

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Isnt that just perfect. The law man should have already obtained those documents for trial in advance from you. What, he has no file on this case? Dang..... its not like its a traffic ticket.

You aint screwed yet mister, keep swinging.

~AirAnn~

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Super vibes dude. What does the prospect of a job in California do to your case? Best wishes to your son.
So I try and I scream and I beg and I sigh
Just to prove I'm alive, and it's alright
'Cause tonight there's a way I'll make light of my treacherous life
Make light!

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Clay:

Been there done that, got the tee-shirt. i don't even want to get started about how the courts are "Female Default" it make me violently ill to say the least. i divorced in 1986 and my litigation isn't over yet. But to you, good luck, and DON'T fight them fair! >:(
--Richard--
"We Will Not Be Shaken By Thugs, And Terroist"

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Best of luck......The one time i needed a lawyer....I picked one from the yellow pages[:/]...name was Ronald MacDonald (I'm dead serious!!)...well I picked the law firm from the pages...and got stuck with that clown>:(...lost.....but won a $3800 bill>:(>:(........them large floppy shoes must be expensive:|


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((vibes))

My feelings on the subject of divorce/custody proceedings fairness are well documented.

The best way is to appeal to the best interest of the attorney. Explain that you are prepared for an expensive legal battle. Explain that after the battle, she will not be able to pay him. He should work with your attorney for a more amenable ending.

Remember that any work that her attorney does is billable. Try and generate requests for documents that the attorney holds. The office will respond to you and bill her.

Know what you throw a drowning divorce lawyer?

His partner.

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Good Luck Clay. I've seen you with your son and you are so different to him than the image you try and show here. I know you'll be great with him. Relax and try to hold your temper because that will prove nothing. If things get rough think about a fun sunset jump for a second, breath, and go on.

Let us know what happens.

Vibes and Prayers your way.

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Hot Mama
At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit.

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