Brains 2 #26 November 5, 2003 Hey Amber, just wait till he is sitting by himself and walk by him, stop and say "I'm sorry i just have to do this," and then run your fingers through his hair. If he is at all interested he won't have a problem with it at all. And if he isn't too shy, he might even ask you out or something. Hope it works out for you. Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Keith 0 #27 November 5, 2003 I wouldn't try running my fingers through his hair without asking first. My hair is now past my shoulder blades and people, especially ones I don't know, think it's perfectly acceptable to walk up and run their grimy fingers through my hair because "they just had to." I appreciate assertive people, but that invades my space. Ask him first and he'll tell you if it's OK. Think about it this way, how would you feel if someone walked up to you and started playing with your hair?Keith Don't Fuck with me Keith - J. Mandeville Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moodyskydiver 0 #28 November 5, 2003 I know this is all so stupid.You guys are right. Its just that the last several times this has happened to me it blew up in my face and hurt me very badly.I guess its made me gun shy. Maybe I'll talk to him tomorrow or atleast continue this little flirty dance.But for now I have to find a way to get 'cutie with the ponytail' out of my head so I can study for a huge govt exam tomorrow. "...just an earthbound misfit, I." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Keith 0 #29 November 5, 2003 It's only stupid if you let it get in the way of what could be a good thing. I have an idea. While you're telling him how nervous you are around him, rip his spine out and hand it to him. That should help take the pressure off Keith Don't Fuck with me Keith - J. Mandeville Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moodyskydiver 0 #30 November 5, 2003 haha..not comforting. (and for the record I am not that violent.) "...just an earthbound misfit, I." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dgskydive 0 #31 November 5, 2003 Tell him you have a new piercing! I bet that gets his attention!Dom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #32 November 6, 2003 QuoteI know this is all so stupid.You guys are right. Its just that the last several times this has happened to me it blew up in my face and hurt me very badly.I guess its made me gun shy. Maybe I'll talk to him tomorrow or atleast continue this little flirty dance.But for now I have to find a way to get 'cutie with the ponytail' out of my head so I can study for a huge govt exam tomorrow. If you want to see what this thread looks like to me just watch this video. http://atomfilms.shockwave.com/af/content/atom_1192 Its very funnywww.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moodyskydiver 0 #33 November 6, 2003 I'd rather not use shock-factor for a first impression. "...just an earthbound misfit, I." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #34 November 6, 2003 heres a novel Idea... just be yourself. sure its a mix of anxiety and adrenelin but the hard part is over. you know he's interested. dont get TOO philisophical abou thim, he's just a guy. if you put that much fear of him in yourself you will reak of it. its COOL to be nervous but force SOME confidence out and say hello.....(just try not to puke on him)My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpinjackflash 0 #35 November 6, 2003 Awww, Jeez Amber... I've read a million of your posts. Your a bright, cute as hell young woman, strong, powerful, sexy. Go For It. You know what to do. Approach. He'll respond, trust me. You've got game. jjf good luck kiddoIt's a gas, gas, gas... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites