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QuoteThere is a serious breakdown of the traditional nuclear family in other countries... how do you explain the lack of serious violent crime there?
Like I said in the rest of my post, it is a major factor but not the only one that explains the issue. Go ride with your local police for a few days and start interviewing the people they arrest regularly. I think you'll see enough evidence. The "middle class with a decent family" criminials are the exception. They make for good headlines but they are not in the majority.
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QuoteLike I said in the rest of my post, it is a major factor but not the only one that explains the issue. Go ride with your local police for a few days and start interviewing the people they arrest regularly.
There is white trash, inner city abandonment, and all those other 'family' problems in countries all around the world that are just as bad as the states, but their violence rates don't even come close to the US.
I think the breakdown of family is becoming the scapegoat for a lot of Americas ills.
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I think the breakdown of family is becoming the scapegoat for a lot of Americas ills.
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If you are saying that the way kids are raised is not important, I whole heartedly disagree. Why are kids so angry that they are willing to take another life. It's almost always a kid who has not received what they really needed gowing up, such as love and acceptance from a primary care giver. This is a primary ingredient that every kid needs to turn out right. Look at our prison system. Who's in it. It's filled with people from broken homes or if they did have parents they did a terrible job of raising their kids. Many American parents who are doing a terrible job of parenting are also knocking down big bucks. On the surface their home looks great because they have a lot of material things. And sure the kids have a lot of toys to play with, but that doesn't mean the kids are happy or are getting what they really need (such as their parents time). After all the parents are too busy working to be bothered with kids. Such a home might be almost as dysfunctional as one you would find in an inner city. Many of the problems you find in the U.S. are unique and I think it's ridiculous to compare this country to others who have different circumstances. It's like comparing apples to oranges and you end up with twisted statistics. Steve1
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Quote>feel the drugs on our streets play a big part in violent crimes . . .
So it's not just drugs.
>along with environment in the home, violent tv and video games.
>along with environment in the home, violent tv and video games.
There is no doubt in my mind that violent TV and video games promote a level of aggressiveness and / or outright violence...
We adopted 3 kids from an orphanage in Russia 3 years ago...they were not exposed to any kind of violent television at all and had not even seen a video game. The boys, brothers 11 & 12 have somewhat differing personalities in that the older boy is a TV / vid game junkie while the younger one would rather play outside. If allowed to play a shoot-'em-up game, or watch a 'Rambo' type flick the older boy immediately begins to display aggressive behavior...orally and physically! His body language changes...verbal language changes...he becomes another
person(ality). We (now) 'V' chip the kids TV, and let them play only sports and racing type video games...the kinds of toys the kids can play with are closely regulated, and there is an obvious positive effect...
I'm in my mid-40's, other than being a skydiver, I'm fairly intelligent, and I NEVER thought the violent media argument had any merit...my opinion has changed 180 degrees after seeing first hand the cause & effect exposure to violence can have on what was in essence a virgin adolescent mind.
My unexpected reality is, that times today are much different from they were when I was growing up...
I had 'Ripcord' and 'leave it to beaver'
my kids have 'The Terminator' and 'Diehard'...it is hard and unending work to 'filter' the world our kids see, and attempt to get them to a point of well rounded objectiveness to the world they're living in.
Hopefully we're teaching them to handle their problems with thoughtful consideration as to the effect their actions may have on themselves and others...but who knows, only time will tell.
...I'm an NRA life member, raised around guns and shooting...in high school I was a ranked 'registered trap' shooter. A collector with all types of firearms, I also reloaded for 17 different calibers. I've protected my life with a handgun on two occasions, (your neck of the woods- Ocean Beach was rough back then) But these days I've had to rethink my 'other' hobby, and have placed those things far away from my children, until such time as I may feel they are mature enough to become a part of that area of my life.
...On the other hand-
I was living in an apartment across from Santana out in Santee when that shooting took place...I studied the event as much as possible at that time and believe that poor kid was the product of an uncaring and cruel environment- actual or perceived, he was pushed to a point that he felt lashing out was a self-preservation move...he only use a gun because it was handy...he may have done even more damage with a bomb or a car...
That just my opinion...I could be wrong, I too am after all STILL LEARNING!
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