SkydiveNFlorida 0 #1 December 13, 2003 I think I just got this guy in trouble. The security guard walks back here with two children asking for an associate. I walk them back to the front and tell the wife that he's at Gatsby's grill (employees all went tonight for food & drinks). Turns out she's an ex-wife, and an angry one at that. Asks my name, gets him on the phone and starts bitching. Um, oops. Then she proceeds to tell me how he'd rather drink than see his kids he was supposed to have for the weekend, and that she's taking them home. what am I supposed to say to this guy now? I thought this info was harmless, but I didn't realize I might get someone in trouble. Angela. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbrian 0 #2 December 13, 2003 Say nothing. He didn't ask you to lie for him, nor should you. You're not in the middle and you don't want him to drag you into it. In a world full of people, only some want to fly... isn't that crazy! --Seal Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DJatLarge 0 #3 December 13, 2003 Ouch, I would just be glad that other than that involvement, you really aren't in the middle of that mess. If the dude that went out drinking says anything, I would just say, "she asked, I told.... didn't know the situation" and keep yourself out of the middle of it. Don't feel bad, I've done things like that a time or two as well. What you think is a harmless question, tosses someone on the coals. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dzdiva 7 #4 December 13, 2003 Not your fault. How could you know? I wouldn't worry about it."It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #5 December 13, 2003 oooopppsie!...but hey don't you take guilt for helping to bust the dude...he made the bed now he needs to lay in it! ya know? messengers can't feel guilty! I think it's sort of funny! LOL! Furthermore...if he didn't tell you that it was some secret in the first place..then BOOOO! on him! he hehe he **snort laugh*** _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dropdeded 0 #6 December 13, 2003 Dont worry about it, let him deal with his own shit, which he apparently brought on himself. dropdeded------------------------------------------ The Dude Abides. - Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveNFlorida 0 #7 December 13, 2003 ok, that's that. If he asks, i'll just tell him I answered a question, didn't realize what was going on, and apologize. Whoa, man, .. glad that isn't me (I mean, of course, i'm not a guy, and don't have kids, and in all likelyness if I did have kids and was divorced, i'd be on her end of things, so I can't relate with him. ) Angela. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #8 December 13, 2003 Quoteok, that's that. If he asks, i'll just tell him I answered a question, didn't realize what was going on, and apologize. Whoa, man, .. glad that isn't me (I mean, of course, i'm not a guy, and don't have kids, and in all likelyness if I did have kids and was divorced, i'd be on her end of things, so I can't relate with him. ) Angela. That's a TRUE SOUTHERN BELLE approach for ya! ...but it works...so work it girl! _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
