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QuoteI wonder if it's not as much you being attracted to the passionate ones as you like to fix broken things/people/women.
No, don't want to fix them....just think I have trouble recognizing that they're broken. When I do, I bail. I think the problem is I like fun, upbeat, women who like to party. And what I end up with is Manic/Depressives. When we're first going out, I only see them during their manic cycles, and think they're happy, care free, and uninhibited. Then when we start seeing more of each other, the downside kicks in.
No problems in my child hood. No tragedies or anything like that with anyone around me. Your standard middle class suburban, close family upbringing. Read....boring. I hate suburbia, I hate normalcy, I hate routine and complacency. I think that's the main problem.
QuoteWAIT!! Hold everything.. isn't this the stripper? Send her to viking.. he could use the experience and she can use him as the rebound guy.. Sounds like win-win-win to me..
Poor Viking! .. chopchops already trying to fix him up with the overemotional stipper!
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My mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open.
My mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open.
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I wish you the best Phil ... you seem like a kick-ass guy who's got a great head on his shoulders & who knows where he's going/what he wants.
Wow...thanks.
It was the comment about the nipple clamps in the other thread that got you, isn't it?
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I wish you the best Phil ... you seem like a kick-ass guy who's got a great head on his shoulders & who knows where he's going/what he wants.
Wow...thanks.
It was the comment about the nipple clamps in the other thread that got you, isn't it?
{{bites lower lip}} ummm, mmmmmmm{{slight nod & smile}}
Leave it on her door step while she is at work. That will send a pretty "final" message.
hey man...think of it this way...life is one big skydive...
you lived alittle...got to pull altitude and got a girlfriend. you had some line twists but they started getting worse so you choped it away...now your back in freefall and thinking about your next "canopy"...why go back to the one that gave u problems and can have line twists again...pull your reserve for nice ride! lifes to short and your running out of alititude!
(damn that actually came out funnier then i expected haha)
anyway...dont sweat her...right when i got into skydiving i was getting over a girl like this...and it sounds just like her (are you sure ur not dating my ex?!?!)...girls love to create drama..they know if they got u stressing out over things then they are important, if they call and u hang up on them it makes them feel like crap...sick game to have to play but u got to! the "stuff" factor...my sugetion...take it to a mutual friend maybe and have her get it there...or do as i did, have her come in adn get it and just pretend i was asleep the whole time so she couldnt bother me ! worked like a charm!
dont sweat her man! plently of other "canopies" out on the market! ( a ton of cuties on dz.com! ) keep your head up..and if u are ever in florida and i run into you...ill buy u a beer to put the flames out!
"Airborne all the way"
EL Cantador Rodriguez
you lived alittle...got to pull altitude and got a girlfriend. you had some line twists but they started getting worse so you choped it away...now your back in freefall and thinking about your next "canopy"...why go back to the one that gave u problems and can have line twists again...pull your reserve for nice ride! lifes to short and your running out of alititude!
(damn that actually came out funnier then i expected haha)
anyway...dont sweat her...right when i got into skydiving i was getting over a girl like this...and it sounds just like her (are you sure ur not dating my ex?!?!)...girls love to create drama..they know if they got u stressing out over things then they are important, if they call and u hang up on them it makes them feel like crap...sick game to have to play but u got to! the "stuff" factor...my sugetion...take it to a mutual friend maybe and have her get it there...or do as i did, have her come in adn get it and just pretend i was asleep the whole time so she couldnt bother me ! worked like a charm!
dont sweat her man! plently of other "canopies" out on the market! ( a ton of cuties on dz.com! ) keep your head up..and if u are ever in florida and i run into you...ill buy u a beer to put the flames out!
"Airborne all the way"
EL Cantador Rodriguez
On the note with the roses, you should put a simple note... "Welcome to Dumpsville, population You"
Sorry, I'm not real good with "moral support". I do "immoral support" better. If you were going to go scout for the new one, I'm wit ya.
Look at it this way. She's 22 yrs old. If you had a long term relationship and she stayed with you for another 4 years, that's 26. Geez, who wants to be dating a 26 yo. Thank your lucky stars that you escaped before she was over the hill.
Sorry, I'm not real good with "moral support". I do "immoral support" better. If you were going to go scout for the new one, I'm wit ya.
Look at it this way. She's 22 yrs old. If you had a long term relationship and she stayed with you for another 4 years, that's 26. Geez, who wants to be dating a 26 yo. Thank your lucky stars that you escaped before she was over the hill.
dzdiva 7
LMFAO!!!! I like your style!
I like your style!"It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..."
jfields 0
QuoteProblem is, I have some of her stuff at my house that I need to get to her.
UPS. Let the man in brown take the hit.
On the serious side:
If you know for certain that it is over, has no chance of rebuilding, then cut it quick. Without being rude, make that clear if she calls again. Do you have caller ID? If so, you don't have to take further calls.
Without adding any additional hurt, wrap it up so you can both move on.
QuoteLook at it this way. She's 22 yrs old. If you had a long term relationship and she stayed with you for another 4 years, that's 26. Geez, who wants to be dating a 26 yo. Thank your lucky stars that you escaped before she was over the hill.
Huh??? Actually, she's 28 (I'm 31)
Called her friend last night...asked if I could drop off her stuff with her. She was busy, started telling me all kinds of crap about how much the girl loves me yadda yadda yadda and wishes I would talk to her. Told her I wasn't interested and would she be a friend and take her shit for her. So, she (the friend) is supposed to call me today so I can drop it off at her house.
BETO74 0
The answer lies within your own words, if need an excuse use the skydive one you have no time to work things out jsut time to skydive that even works when you don't want to break up
that even works when you don't want to break uphttp://web.mac.com/ac057a/iWeb/AC057A/H0M3.html
Gawain 0
I'm on my PDA, so I may be repeating here, but my advice is simple:
FU*KING RUN
Sounds overly simplistic but since you already know how she'll react either way, and that you don't want to be in the relationship...![[:/]](/uploads/emoticons/dry.png "[:/]")
FU*KING RUN
Sounds overly simplistic but since you already know how she'll react either way, and that you don't want to be in the relationship...
So I try and I scream and I beg and I sigh
Just to prove I'm alive, and it's alright
'Cause tonight there's a way I'll make light of my treacherous life
Make light!
Just to prove I'm alive, and it's alright
'Cause tonight there's a way I'll make light of my treacherous life
Make light!
I wonder if it's not as much you being attracted to the passionate ones as you like to fix broken things/people/women. You've indicated a trend in the women you date
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Peace
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