ACMESkydiver 0 #51 February 23, 2004 QuoteThere are signs to see if its a real orgasm or not. Besides feeling it, you've got the nippls, breathing, skin color (orgasm "flush" on the chest, face). Although, some women don't display all the signs, they usually display atleast a couple. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #52 February 23, 2004 QuoteMy first "serious" girlfriend, from my freshman and sophomore years of college... I had always heard how the man finished first and the girl was unsatisfied... I felt like the woman in the relationship. It hardly took anything and she was through, she'd get tremendously sensitive afterwards (everything "tickled" her) and I was just like, "what the hell?" I'm nowhere near done. Yeah...I was with a girl like that before. I had to try NOT to give her one otherwise she'd want to stop. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gawain 0 #53 February 23, 2004 QuoteFaking orgasms is stupid because it robs the faker and the fakee. Exactly, and that's why I can say proudly that I've never faked an orgasm! Just doing my part to be an example of honest communication. So I try and I scream and I beg and I sigh Just to prove I'm alive, and it's alright 'Cause tonight there's a way I'll make light of my treacherous life Make light! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #54 February 23, 2004 Quote -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Quote -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- My first "serious" girlfriend, from my freshman and sophomore years of college... I had always heard how the man finished first and the girl was unsatisfied... I felt like the woman in the relationship. It hardly took anything and she was through, she'd get tremendously sensitive afterwards (everything "tickled" her) and I was just like, "what the hell?" I'm nowhere near done. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Yeah...I was with a girl like that before. I had to try NOT to give her one otherwise she'd want to stop. All I can say to that is DAMN! These women are lucky! Either that or Darius, Benny, and PhillyKev have all unknowingly slept with the same woman! I wish I had that problem . . . Getting off TOO EASILY. No such thing for girls, if you ask me . . . now I bet we all know a guy or two who has that problem, though . . . Kelly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #55 February 23, 2004 QuoteThere are signs to see if its a real orgasm or not. Besides feeling it, you've got the nippls, breathing, skin color (orgasm "flush" on the chest, face). Although, some women don't display all the signs, they usually display atleast a couple. no, i don't fake it. but with that said... don't you think this kind of "analysis" and "examination" of a woman puts a hell of a lot of preasure on her? she should not feel the need to fake it, but i think some men make women a bit uncomfortable or stressed out sometimes. everyone needs to relax... and have fun. with the right combo and a good comfortable relationship... there will be no need to worry... you will just know. trust is a beautiful thing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gawain 0 #56 February 23, 2004 Quotebut with that said... don't you think this kind of "analysis" and "examination" of a woman puts a hell of a lot of preasure on her? I can hear it now, quietly echoing through the night across the nation: "Honey, please lay still while I examine you." ... So I try and I scream and I beg and I sigh Just to prove I'm alive, and it's alright 'Cause tonight there's a way I'll make light of my treacherous life Make light! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #57 February 23, 2004 QuoteQuoteFaking orgasms is stupid because it robs the faker and the fakee. Exactly, and that's why I can say proudly that I've never faked an orgasm! Just doing my part to be an example of honest communication. I have. I'll admit that one. But it's usually the second or third time of the night, and it's only because she, or I, are just plain worn out. (Or out of lube. It happens, both the natural and the "add-in" stuff)It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #58 February 23, 2004 Quotewith the right combo and a good comfortable relationship... there will be no need to worry... you will just know. That's so true! Quotedon't you think this kind of "analysis" and "examination" of a woman puts a hell of a lot of preasure on her? If she has to fake it, or feels that she has to make it look like she has an orgasm every time she has sex, then how healthy is the relationship in the first place?--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #59 February 23, 2004 I myself have never met any like that. I have had some that would O 3 or 4 times to my one. but I do my damndest to please. If the main course dont work... its time for dessert.... and Im ALL about dessert. Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aprilcat 0 #60 February 23, 2004 I have to agree with Weege on the 'pressure' issue. There is NO reason to fake an orgasm if the goal is to show pleasure has been given. Orgasm is not a 'given'..its a treat for a woman, and THATS what makes it special. Faking just creates the feeling of failure for both partners. For the friend (in the beginning of the thread) that said women fake all the time--tell her to speak for herself! Men shouldn't feel if they don't 'provide' an orgasm every time they have failed. Pressure. And women should KNOW better than pretend that we are orgasmic sexpots. Pressure. You can have great sex without the oscar-winning performance. Just be true to the moment and enjoy each other. READ TANTRA...removes the need for anyone to fake ANYTHING. Be nice...and no spitting (that was hilarious)!!!~~~April Camelot II, the Electric Boogaloo! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TribalTalon 0 #61 February 23, 2004 eh. my problem is that i'm pretty....decent at oral, so i'll get the chick off and she's done for the night. i'm like, wtf? so now i give her like one or two licks and thats it, and thats all she gets until i get off. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AirCav 0 #62 February 23, 2004 Quote:...There are signs....... ------------------------------------------------------------ Yeah, like if her toes curl up, she isn't fakeingGW685,D3888,C5052,SCS843 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveNFlorida 0 #63 February 23, 2004 QuoteI had a long conversation with someone the other night. I was told in no uncertain terms that women as a rule fake it almost EVERYTIME? That it is actually unusual that the job is "done correctly" Also that the practice of faking is "Taught" I am in a deep state of depression because of this. Say it ain't so! It ain't so! :D Besides, if you fake it, how are would the guy know when he WAS doing it right? angela Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #64 February 23, 2004 Quoteeh. my problem is that i'm pretty....decent at oral, so i'll get the chick off and she's done for the night. i'm like, wtf? so now i give her like one or two licks and thats it, and thats all she gets until i get off. But, .... then doesn't she taste like a goodyear?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #65 February 23, 2004 QuoteQuoteeh. my problem is that i'm pretty....decent at oral, so i'll get the chick off and she's done for the night. i'm like, wtf? so now i give her like one or two licks and thats it, and thats all she gets until i get off. But, .... then doesn't she taste like a goodyear? I have no idea what that means. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #66 February 23, 2004 I think he's referring to condom-taste . . . but everybody knows skydivers don't use condoms! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #67 February 23, 2004 QuoteQuoteQuoteeh. my problem is that i'm pretty....decent at oral, so i'll get the chick off and she's done for the night. i'm like, wtf? so now i give her like one or two licks and thats it, and thats all she gets until i get off. But, .... then doesn't she taste like a goodyear? I have no idea what that means. You'd think with the women you date - . . . . Quote. . . so now i give her like one or two licks and thats it, and thats all she gets until i get off So either he doesn't use a condom - or she is going to have a "Distinct" flavor if he does either way - it will be a distinct flavor.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #68 February 23, 2004 Ahhh...I get it....yeah....I usually reserve that kind of action as an appetizer, not dessert. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #69 February 23, 2004 QuoteAhhh...I get it....yeah....I usually reserve that kind of action as an appetizer, not dessert. LOLOL LMFAO Yeah - but there are times - - - I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vdschoor 0 #70 February 23, 2004 QuoteAhhh...I get it....yeah....I usually reserve that kind of action as an appetizer, not dessert. But what if you want seconds? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TribalTalon 0 #71 February 23, 2004 ROFL.. well what i'm talking about is when we're just giving each other head. but yes, i am familiar with the goodyear taste. that fuckin smell lingers, too. *shudders* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #72 February 23, 2004 QuoteQuoteAhhh...I get it....yeah....I usually reserve that kind of action as an appetizer, not dessert. But what if you want seconds? Well, then it's time to see what the kitchen has "in the back" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #73 February 23, 2004 Quoteeh. my problem is that i'm pretty....decent at oral, so i'll get the chick off and she's done for the night. i'm like, wtf? so now i give her like one or two licks and thats it, and thats all she gets until i get off. BAD!!! Every man that I have been with (always in LTR with me) have been huge lovers of pleasing a woman orally before intercourse. That is awesome because (for me, anyway) it leads to multiples every time...in other words, orgasms both during oral and intercourse. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites turtlespeed 226 #74 February 23, 2004 QuoteQuoteeh. my problem is that i'm pretty....decent at oral, so i'll get the chick off and she's done for the night. i'm like, wtf? so now i give her like one or two licks and thats it, and thats all she gets until i get off. BAD!!! Every man that I have been with (always in LTR with me) have been huge lovers of pleasing a woman orally before intercourse. That is awesome because (for me, anyway) it leads to multiples every time...in other words, orgasms both during oral and intercourse. lol Yes, Rosa, We Agree, it's no big secret that it tends to work better that way - but what happens if the "O" is so intense that the party ends right there?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites VanillaSkyGirl 6 #75 February 23, 2004 Quotelol Yes, Rosa, We Agree, it's no big secret that it tends to work better that way - but what happens if the "O" is so intense that the party ends right there? OH...TRUST ME...I have had to pry my SO away from me...there...many times because I just went WAY too sensitive (had the big"O") and was no longer able to be touched. Actually, this is USUALLY the case with me. (I know, I've been quite lucky.) Well, I know a trick...for me, anyway, begin penetrating by being initially shallow and quick, towards the end of her orgasm or immediately afterwards, and she will orgasm, again. Personally, I could never refuse to finish for the guy or to claim that the party is over. I didn't realize that this was such a problem. It's not over for me until both of us are totally satisfied. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 4 Next Page 3 of 4 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0 Go To Topic Listing
turtlespeed 226 #74 February 23, 2004 QuoteQuoteeh. my problem is that i'm pretty....decent at oral, so i'll get the chick off and she's done for the night. i'm like, wtf? so now i give her like one or two licks and thats it, and thats all she gets until i get off. BAD!!! Every man that I have been with (always in LTR with me) have been huge lovers of pleasing a woman orally before intercourse. That is awesome because (for me, anyway) it leads to multiples every time...in other words, orgasms both during oral and intercourse. lol Yes, Rosa, We Agree, it's no big secret that it tends to work better that way - but what happens if the "O" is so intense that the party ends right there?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #75 February 23, 2004 Quotelol Yes, Rosa, We Agree, it's no big secret that it tends to work better that way - but what happens if the "O" is so intense that the party ends right there? OH...TRUST ME...I have had to pry my SO away from me...there...many times because I just went WAY too sensitive (had the big"O") and was no longer able to be touched. Actually, this is USUALLY the case with me. (I know, I've been quite lucky.) Well, I know a trick...for me, anyway, begin penetrating by being initially shallow and quick, towards the end of her orgasm or immediately afterwards, and she will orgasm, again. Personally, I could never refuse to finish for the guy or to claim that the party is over. I didn't realize that this was such a problem. It's not over for me until both of us are totally satisfied. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 4 Next Page 3 of 4 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
