What Do You Want?

[hmatousek 0]

Thanks Val.

I'm thinking that both men and women are looking for the same thing, it just depends on what you want. There are lots of girls looking to get laid as well as there are men. There are also lots of guys who are looking for an emotional attachment. Although my advice is idealistic it all revolves around honesty.

Guys, don't try to pick up a girl who wants an emotional attachment if that's not what your after. I know it's easier said than done.

Girls, don't hook up with a guy on any given night if your not looking for a one night stand. Also easier said then done.

The same is true if you reverse it.

Be honest with yourself and the other person involved. This way hurt feelings are not an issue.

Life does involve speaking.
Heather

Life doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful!

[jumpinjackflash 0]

Excellent.

Actually, just what I expected to hear.


Also? I'd like to be right where your at on this. Nice, well rounded, healthy outlook.


Thanks Val, for confirming something for me.



peace,



Jack

It's a gas, gas, gas...

[blueskyserenity 0]

I voted companion. Friends are awesome. We couldn't live w/out them. Dates can go either way. Overnites don't really appeal to me. Spouse, been there done that, moving on. A companion would be someone that you feel completely comfortable with both emotionally and physically. And lets face it. Both of these are equally important. However, a companion could be a casual relationship. No strings attached. You do your thing, I'll do mine (within reason of course). I don't want to "share" someone physically and don't want to be "shared" either. When we see each other, great, let's have a kick ass time together. I don't worry about you, don't worry about me. Jealously? What's that? You asked. This is what I want!

I like coconuts. You can break them open and they smell like ladies lying in the sun!

[jumpinjackflash 0]

Wow


Truly incredible.

Definitly worthy of reviving this half dead post!


Seriously though, you may have defined what I would like.




jjf

It's a gas, gas, gas...

[osuskydiver 0]

right now I have a friend and companion and she is the greatest girl ever. She always makes me happy and we always have fun together. We have been together for a lil over a year and everythign has been perfect, other than the now havign to deal with a long distance relationship, but i love her and couldn;t be happier.

By the time you read this you have already read it.

[flygirl03 0]

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I voted companion. Friends are awesome. We couldn't live w/out them. Dates can go either way. Overnites don't really appeal to me. Spouse, been there done that, moving on. A companion would be someone that you feel completely comfortable with both emotionally and physically. And lets face it. Both of these are equally important. However, a companion could be a casual relationship. No strings attached. You do your thing, I'll do mine (within reason of course). I don't want to "share" someone physically and don't want to be "shared" either. When we see each other, great, let's have a kick ass time together. I don't worry about you, don't worry about me. Jealously? What's that? You asked. This is what I want!

EXACTLY!

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earthbound misfit