ways to not get your mom to ask

[KawiZX900 0]

How old is she?
is she single?
is she cute?
do you think anything will come of it?

everytime I mention that I met a new cool chica....

same damn three questions every time. It's getting to be pretty lame.

Accelerate hard to get them looking, then slam on the fronts and rollright beside the car, hanging the back wheel at eye level for a few seconds. Guaranteed reaction- Dave Sonsky

[Misslmperfect 0]

i could be wrong...but i think thats 4 questions

dont tell your mom about the girl in your life until some kind of real relationship develops.....not just every time you have a date....that worked for me (with guys)... (i have a very nosy grandma) lol

Oh Canada, merci pour la livraison!

[wingnut 0]

i have learned not to tell my parents or any family memebr besides my sister of cousins anything relating to me and girls... once mentioned to my grandma that i was going to visit a friend (female) and nextthing i knew i herd from my mom about my new girlfriend........ very not true..... even if it did turn out to be 6 months later... but only for 2 weeks....

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[Orchid 0]

***Mom will always be mom, when she asks is only b/c she loves you....and just want to know if you're happy and if this person would make you happy. It's a women thing...to see another woman in her son's life....a combination of things: it's the caring/nurturing/jealousy thing. You have a choice to either tell her everytime you meet someone or don't.

...just from my stand point as a mom...I have a son, how old are you if you don't mind me asking?

"Love is doing small things with great love."

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[AggieDave 6]

Tell your mom you're gay, that'll fix that problem right up.

Or do what I did. I basically didn't mention anything to my folks about new girls, they didn't even know about Morgan until I told them my intention to propose to her.

--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline."

[WrongWay 0]

Just don't tell her about any girls you date.

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[EricaH 0]

Everyone's giving the right advice.

I stopped telling my parents about any men in my life. Then, just before going on a 10 day vacation I told them bout my current s/o... they asked who I was going w/, I said his name, they asked who he was, i said my b/f - "been together for bout 8 months, hadn't I mentioned him to them - hmm, odd." next thing they knew was that we are moving in together
Keep them guessing, the gay thing might also work.

There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear.

PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

[weegegirl 2]

My parents are nosey as hell. The less info I give them, the better. But, they really like my boyfriend now, so I think they are being cool about this one.

Like everyone else said... you're better off just zippin your lips until you have something "worth" telling em about.

[lawrocket 3]

Shoot. My mother has met exactly ONE of my girlfriends. This was last year. Of course, this one is special. So, my mom finally got to meet a girlfriend.

Turns out, my mother was always a little concerned. I hung out a lot with the guys, you know, and she was beginning to wonder. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

I just kept my private life very private.

My wife is hotter than your wife.

[Thanatos340 1]

I had the same problem with my Mom many years ago. She kept after me about "Finding a nice girl and settling down". After about 2 years of this, I happened to be on a Road trip going through Vegas with a Girl I met a few weeks before. I called Mom from Vegas and told her that I had finally done what she had been nagging me about. She Replied, "You found the one?". "I hope so" I said, "We are in Vegas, so we got Married last night!!” She was speechless for awhile and then started with the "How could you!!" "I haven’t even met her" “You just met” and other babbling. I told her it was a bad connection and that I would have to call her later. I didn’t call back until the next day to let her know it was a Joke.
She didn’t find the joke anywhere as amusing as I did but she never again asked me when I planned on getting married or even if I dating anyone.

Works Great. Give it a try.

[EricaH 0]

OMG - that is a great joke!!

My parents haven't really bothered me for a while. When I was 22 my mom tried to hook me up w/ a co-worker of hers. I went for coffee w/ him & 2 months later he was arrested on possesition of cocaine w/ intent to sell!!

I told my parents to not bother bout me untill I was 35 & still hard core single. NOW it's my b/f's mom that keeps bothering me bout us getting married & being ready for children - ugh!!

There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear.

PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

[RkyMtnHigh 0]

I think it's great..it's obvious that she loves you, cares for you and is interested in your future. If she didn't ask any questions, then I'd be concerned.

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[Vertifly 0]

Dude, I don't even begin getting the family involved anymore. Atleast you are getting questions still!

After a while, I began hearing, "I used to like _____, what happened to her." or "You shouldn't have let that one go, I liked her." My belief is that relationships are for NO person to judge or influence; all except for the two people involved with one-another.

I simply began telling my family that it isn't they who is getting involved with them - particularly intimately. That shut them up quickly.

[kpjumps 0]

From the other side of the coin...(I am a mom...)

She only wants you to be happy, loved and cared for... Consider yourself lucky. We all want our children settled and supported and that continues to mean happily married.

That said, I became a mom at a young age by accident and again at 26 by choice. My parents have accepted my somewhat unconventional life but I know in their hearts they'd love to see me married.

Now I am talking about joining the peace corps when my youngest is out of high school and she is fine with that! At 33 she has accepted the bohemian side of me.

Your character will ultimately determine your destiny.